But out of all men I\u2019ve ever met who wanted to date me or who I was in a relationship with, I wouldn\u2019t be able to make one decent guy. <\/p>\n
Cosa diavolo sta succedendo qui?<\/b><\/p>\n
Where have all of the “good men” disappeared to?<\/b><\/p>\n
Credo che il problema sia che gli uomini sono cambiati.<\/p>\n
They\u2019ve evolved into worse versions instead of better ones.<\/p>\n
Rather than keeping some old school moves and charm, they\u2019ve become lazy and self-absorbed. <\/p>\n
Beh, forse non pigri in generale, ma pigri nel modo in cui affrontano le donne e le relazioni.<\/p>\n
Most of them aren\u2019t ready to make any effort.<\/p>\n
Fanno tutto a loro piacimento. <\/p>\n
Si aspettano che voi siate tutti dentro, mentre loro mantengono aperte le loro opzioni. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Some of them are intimidated by women because they\u2019ve become more powerful.<\/p>\n
Women today are independent and ambitious, and they don\u2019t need a man to take care of them. <\/p>\n
Then again, men don\u2019t like women who are codependent either.<\/p>\n
Le chiamano appiccicose e bisognose e perdono interesse. <\/p>\n
Sembra che le donne migliori siano quelle che sanno mantenere l'equilibrio tra forza e bisogno.<\/p>\n
But even that isn\u2019t enough when they stumble upon someone who is emotionally unavailable. <\/p>\n
La maggior parte degli uomini di oggi teme l'impegno pi\u00f9 di quanto temesse il mostro sotto il letto quando era bambino. <\/b><\/p>\n
So they like to keep things \u201ccasual.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vogliono i vantaggi di una relazione, ma non una relazione.<\/p>\n
They simply don\u2019t want to make even the slightest commitment. <\/p>\n
Il livello superiore a quello dei fobici dell'impegno \u00e8 rappresentato dagli scopatori, che si trovano dietro ogni angolo. <\/b><\/p>\n
These guys share the same fear of being \u201ctied down\u201d in a relationship, but they\u2019re masters at playing games with female hearts. <\/p>\n
Scompaiono per giorni e poi tornano facendo finta di niente.<\/p>\n
Usano gli sms come tecnica di manipolazione piuttosto che come strumento di comunicazione. <\/p>\n
I tipi come questo non ti fanno quasi mai sapere da che parte stai fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n
Dicono esattamente quello che pensano si voglia sentire. <\/p>\n
They sweet-talk you into thinking that there\u2019s potential for something more, but sooner or later you find out that they\u2019re only interested in how to get into your pants. <\/b><\/p>\n
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<\/p>\n
I fuckboy e i perdenti simili bramano la vostra attenzione e quella di ogni altra ragazza che incontrano.<\/p>\n
So they\u2019ll beg you to send nudes they can add to their collection. <\/p>\n
Sono scortesi, irrispettosi e si sentono in diritto di avere il vostro tempo e il vostro spazio.<\/p>\n
Gli uomini tossici, manipolatori e narcisisti sono anche la nostra realt\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n
There are so many red flags we need to watch out for that we can\u2019t relax and enjoy dating anymore. <\/p>\n
These types of men are not so easy to spot, so we usually recognize them when we\u2019ve already developed feelings for them and it\u2019s become harder to let them go. <\/p>\n
Some of us who had the misfortune of dating some of these worst men ended up with relationship PTSD \u2013 emotionally broken, low self-esteem, and fear of relationships are just some side effects. <\/p>\n
This is just scratching the surface, but it\u2019s pretty obvious it\u2019s not easy for women today to find someone who deserves to be their boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s gruelling to find someone trustworthy, genuine, and normal.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\n
Tutte le altre tonalit\u00e0 scure di uomini sono facili da trovare.<\/p>\n
Sembra che siano la maggioranza. <\/p>\n
However, I strongly believe that good men still exist \u2013 they\u2019re just an endangered species.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s no piece of cake finding them, but it\u2019s also not impossible.<\/p>\n
Ci vuole solo un po' pi\u00f9 di tempo di quanto ognuno di noi vorrebbe. <\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s better to stay single until someone worthy comes along.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s better to have peace in your soul and happiness you yourself created than being in a relationship with just anybody.<\/p>\n
So the next time someone asks you why you\u2019re still single, be sure to tell them you still haven\u2019t found someone worthy of the title.<\/p>\n
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