{"id":47382,"date":"2019-11-13T14:13:57","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:13:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47382"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:51:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:51:25","slug":"5-modi-terrificanti-in-cui-i-narcisisti-portano-il-caos-nella-vostra-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-terrificanti-in-cui-i-narcisisti-portano-il-caos-nella-vostra-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi terrificanti in cui i narcisisti portano il caos nella vostra vita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Che cosa tutti i narcisisti hanno in comune<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Senza dubbio, portando il caos pi\u00f9 totale nella vostra vita e sconvolgendo il vostro mondo come lo conoscete.<\/p>\n

Prima che arrivasse il vostro narcisista, probabilmente avevate una vita piuttosto tranquilla.<\/p>\n

Avevate i vostri piccoli rituali a cui eravate fedeli, la vostra cerchia di amici con cui passavate molto tempo e il vostro lavoro era molto appagante.<\/p>\n

Sure, you had your everyday problems like the rest of us do but nothing out of the ordinary or that couldn\u2019t be fixed.<\/p>\n

Ma quando \u00e8 entrato nella vostra vita, tutto \u00e8 cambiato.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Succede sempre gradualmente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Una piccola cosa \u00e8 accaduta dopo l'altra e prima che te ne accorgessi, ha preso il controllo completo su la tua mente<\/a>Il corpo e l'anima e il vostro mondo, cos\u00ec come lo conoscevate, hanno cessato di esistere.<\/p>\n

Ogni cosa buona che avevi \u00e8 stata improvvisamente rovinata.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

I vostri piani e le vostre abitudini sono cambiati drasticamente perch\u00e9 LUI aveva altri piani per voi.<\/p>\n

La scelta della persona con cui passare la maggior parte del tempo non dipendeva pi\u00f9 da voi.<\/p>\n

Ha controllato anche questo.<\/p>\n

You still saw your friends\u2026 but not in the capacity you were used to.<\/p>\n

Your family noticed that something was off but they didn\u2019t know the extent of it.<\/p>\n

Nessuno l'ha fatto.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t something you were ever comfortable talking about but your narcissist brought so much chaos into your life that you felt ashamed and somewhat guilty for letting him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what they do.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t keep you interested in any other way, so they resort to these 5 ways that completely disrupt your world in order to keep you attached for as long as they can.<\/p>\n

1. Deliberately provoking you until you\u2019ve lost your mind<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I narcisisti e i sociopatici sono maestri in questo.<\/p>\n

Sanno quali sono i tasti da premere e cosa vi fa scattare.<\/p>\n

Conoscono la strada per arrivare alla vostra mente e la useranno a loro vantaggio!<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll make up a scenario to see how you\u2019ll react.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll blame you for something you had absolutely nothing to do with, just to see how far they can push you.<\/p>\n

Once they see that what they\u2019re doing is working, they won\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll keep digging, finding new areas to hurt you and provoking you to an extent you never knew existed.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll slowly be losing your damn mind, with a little help of your narcissist\u2019s favorite tactic of keeping you by his side.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll provoke you until he\u2019s finished with you and then, he knows you\u2019ll feel too insane to turn to anyone else.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how he keeps his victims in check.<\/p>\n

2. Sabotare tutti i vostri progetti e le vostre occasioni di festeggiamento<\/h2>\n

You didn\u2019t think he was going to let you stay happy, did you?<\/p>\n

Because he sure as hell won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Around the holidays and on all your celebratory occasions, he\u2019ll make sure to stir up some trouble just to keep you from being happy.<\/p>\n

Qualsiasi evento che distolga l'attenzione da lui \u00e8 da escludere.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t have you remain in the spotlight and actually enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n

This is why he\u2019ll always make sure to keep you distracted in the worst ways possible during the moments when you should be happy.<\/p>\n

Haven\u2019t you noticed how your plans always somehow turn to shit when he\u2019s around?<\/p>\n

Prestate attenzione a questo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see how he never lets you enjoy your happy moments.<\/p>\n

3. Mettervi in competizione con un'altra donna per attirare la sua attenzione<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Farvi ingelosire come modo per rendervi conto di quanto volete veramente essere con lui<\/a> (grazie alle sue attente manipolazioni), questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che fa un narcisista quando si accorge che vi state tirando indietro.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll offer a comment about another woman and how attractive he finds her for the sole purpose of you having an issue with that.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be very sly and you won\u2019t even know that he\u2019s only doing this to pit you against her.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be someone you know or see regularly, so that you\u2019re always reminded of it when you see her.<\/p>\n

And that way, he\u2019ll have you fighting for his attention without having to do so much as lift a finger.<\/p>\n

Furbo, eh?<\/p>\n

4. La scelta di argomenti notturni per non perdere il sonno<\/h2>\n

Vuole che vi sentiate svuotati ed esausti.<\/p>\n

Vuole che la vostra mente sia al massimo della sua debolezza, in modo da poter vincere facilmente la discussione.<\/p>\n

And he\u2019ll make sure to pick the latest hour so that you\u2019ll be too tired to fight with him.<\/p>\n

He knows what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clever tactic and a way to keep you sleep deprived, aka too exhausted to fight him about anything he says, as you just won\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

All you\u2019ll want to do is sleep and he\u2019ll know he has won because you\u2019ll never be able to fight fair.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll get his way, you\u2019ll be too tired to care and the cycle will go on for as long as you don\u2019t realize what he\u2019s doing to you.<\/p>\n

5. Invalidare le proprie argomentazioni ed evitare di rendere conto del proprio operato.<\/h2>\n

\"disaccordo<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never win this war with him.<\/p>\n

He knows just how to invalidate every single argument before you\u2019ve even had a chance to speak your mind.<\/p>\n

Pensa con qualche passo in avanti rispetto a voi, quindi qualsiasi cosa possiate dire, lui l'ha gi\u00e0 presa in considerazione e ha trovato un modo per ostacolarvi.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really disturbing how evil he can get and how badly he\u2019ll ferirti<\/a> solo per tenerti con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be to blame for anything.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always be wrong about everything and the weird thing is, he\u2019ll have planned it all out so carefully that you\u2019ll actually start believing him.<\/p>\n

Prevede ogni vostra mossa per contrastarla.<\/p>\n

L'unico modo per vincere questa guerra \u00e8 andarsene, perch\u00e9 i narcisisti manipolatori sono le persone pi\u00f9 tossiche con cui litigare.<\/p>\n

Fanno i compiti a casa e non lasciano MAI nulla al caso.<\/p>\n

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What do all narcissists have in common? Without a doubt, bringing utter chaos into your life and disrupting your world as you know it. Before your narcissist came along, you probably had a pretty laid-back life. You had your little rituals you were loyal to, your circle of friends who you spent lots of time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47385,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14685977031.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}