{"id":47421,"date":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47421"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","slug":"3-motivi-per-cui-non-si-dovrebbe-uscire-per-sposarsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/3-motivi-per-cui-non-si-dovrebbe-uscire-per-sposarsi\/","title":{"rendered":"3 motivi per cui non dovreste uscire con qualcuno per sposarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"

It is perfectly okay if you\u2019re feeling <\/span>incerto sul matrimonio<\/span><\/a> or even know that you don\u2019t want to share your life with another person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you if you dream of waking up next to the same man for the rest of your days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, un conto \u00e8 se il matrimonio \u00e8 qualcosa che si desidera e si trova una persona adatta. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely different if it becomes your obsession and the only thing you think about whenever you date someone new.<\/span><\/p>\n

Times have changed and today, there are hundreds of reasons why you actually shouldn\u2019t date to marry. Here are the most important ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. La pratica rende perfetti<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

When you think about your dream man, you have an exact picture of how this guy should behave, how he should treat you, how he should look \u2013 you have every little detail about him all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, come potete essere sicure che questo uomo immaginario sia quello giusto per voi, se prima non provate qualcosa e qualcun altro?<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se gli appuntamenti possono essere dolorosi e faticosi, sono in realt\u00e0 un'esperienza preziosa che pu\u00f2 insegnare alcune importanti lezioni di vita, soprattutto quelle legate alle relazioni sentimentali. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando si esce con pi\u00f9 di un <\/span>persona sbagliata<\/span><\/a>, it helps you see what you don\u2019t want from a man and  realize what qualities you are looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, le rotture e le relazioni destinate a fallire sono difficili. <\/span><\/p>\n

Essere scaricati o rimanere intrappolati in una relazione tossica \u00e8 qualcosa che tutti noi vorremmo evitare, ma si continua a dimenticare che anche le esperienze peggiori possono insegnarci molto.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of it builds you as a person and helps you become the woman you\u2019re destined to be. It helps you see how much you can take and learn a lot about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you don\u2019t date the men you know you wouldn\u2019t marry from the start, you miss out on all of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

You deprive yourself of the opportunity to fail \u2013 and it\u2019s a well known fact that you can\u2019t expect to succeed unless you fail a few times first.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You\u2019ll appear as too desperate<\/h2>\n

\"Dolore.\"<\/p>\n

Despite your final goal being finding husband material, you probably don\u2019t go around telling your plans to every man you run into. <\/span><\/p>\n

I suppose you don\u2019t surprise a guy on your first date with the marriage talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not giving some subconscious signals that this is the only thing on your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, il fatto \u00e8 che gli uomini hanno un modo di accorgersi quando una donna ha l'obiettivo di legarli, il che, nella maggior parte dei casi, li fa scappare a gambe levate.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not telling you to allow any guy to <\/span>vi guider\u00e0<\/span><\/a> for ages just because you don\u2019t want to appear as overly desperate to get married. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if a man senses your vibe and sees that you\u2019re obsessed with entering a serious relationship that would eventually end up in marriage, he\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re trying to trap him and run away before you have the chance to limit his freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you like to hear it or not, most men love spontaneous girls who don\u2019t give out the impression that they have every second of the rest of their lives all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re obsessed with tying the knot, in his eyes, you\u2019ll be everything but that.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, he\u2019ll immediately perceive you as a woman too weak to go through life on her own and ready to settle for everything he has to offer \u2013 even if it\u2019s less than she deserves \u2013 just to finally have a husband.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Vi procura troppo stress<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Another reason why you shouldn\u2019t only date to marry is your mental health. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is the only thing on your mind, every date you go on and every potential relationship you get yourself involved in is a source of stress, instead of it being something you\u2019ll enjoy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fallir\u00e0? O questa volta funzioner\u00e0?<\/span><\/p>\n

Che aspetto avrebbe la mia vita accanto a quest'uomo? \u00c8 una persona che posso immaginare come potenziale padre dei miei figli?<\/span><\/p>\n

Queste e numerose altre domande iniziano ad attraversare la vostra mente ogni volta che incontrate un ragazzo che vi piace. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, invece di essere rilassati, l'ansia si fa sentire e rovina l'esperienza dell'incontro con una persona nuova.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di vivere nel presente, si <\/span>ripensare<\/span><\/a> il vostro potenziale futuro, che \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che dovreste fare.<\/span><\/p>\n

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