{"id":47435,"date":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47435"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","slug":"5-cose-che-hai-ottenuto-quando-lhai-perso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-hai-ottenuto-quando-lhai-perso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che hai ottenuto quando l'hai perso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perdere una persona a cui si tiene non \u00e8 mai facile, soprattutto se si tratta della persona che si amava pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa e dell'uomo accanto al quale si pensava di trascorrere il resto della vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sometimes it can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Even when you don\u2019t see it, every loss you experience actually brings you a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ecco le 5 cose che avete guadagnato quando avete perso il vostro ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. La tua vita indietro<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Forse ora non ve ne accorgete, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che quest'uomo tossico aveva un'incredibile <\/span>controllo<\/span><\/a> sulla vostra vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things didn\u2019t seem that way at first glance but you were overly concerned with what he might have thought and how he might react to every move you made and every decision you took.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eravate cos\u00ec ossessionati dal compiacerlo e dal fare le cose che lui si aspettava da voi che, con il tempo, in qualche modo avete smesso di esistere. <\/span><\/p>\n

You stopped being your true self, you stopped being a woman, a daughter, a friend\u2026 and you became only his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 arrivato il momento di riprendere in mano la vostra vita. \u00c8 ora di tornare a essere la persona che siete veramente e di liberarvi del suo controllo.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Rispetto di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014losing this man was anything but easy. In fact, it was a devastating experience which broke your heart into millions of pieces.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it didn\u2019t break you, did it now? You survived and there you are, standing, whole and complete as if you were never damaged.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if this doesn\u2019t deserve loads of respect, I don\u2019t know what does. <\/span><\/p>\n

If the mere thought of everything you\u2019ve been through and the fact that you\u2019ve managed to pick up your pieces and come out of this nightmare stronger than ever doesn\u2019t make you proud of yourself, I don\u2019t know what will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those days in which this awful man tried to convince you that you\u2019re not good enough and those moments in which you sadly believed him are now just part of ancient history. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve grown into a woman who appreciates, respects and loves herself. Into a woman who sees her own worth and who wouldn\u2019t let anyone devalue her.<\/span><\/p>\n

And these facts alone are worth losing a man who wasn\u2019t the right one for you from the beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Pi\u00f9 tempo<\/h2>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

You know all those nights you spent thinking about the future of your relationship, being perfectly aware that it was anything but healthy and that it wasn\u2019t going anywhere? <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti i <\/span>energia sprecata<\/span><\/a> di cercare di capire questo ragazzo e di fare del tuo meglio per leggere i suoi segnali contrastanti?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordate tutte le ore passate a pedinare lui e tutte le donne che gli stavano vicino? Tutte le energie sprecate ad aspettare che rinsavisse?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, now that you\u2019ve taken back your life, you should do the same with your time and energy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wasting another minute on this douchebag, redirect your focus and invest everything you have on to the only person who deserves your undivided attention\u2014yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cercate un nuovo hobby, iniziate a leggere, andate in palestra o fate qualcosa che volevate fare da tempo ma non ne avete mai avuto l'occasione. <\/span><\/p>\n

In ogni caso, inizia a mettere te stessa al primo posto e a darti tutto l'amore che questo ragazzo riceveva da te.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. La libert\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

A relationship cannot be successful without compromise\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You always have to try your best to satisfy the other person\u2019s needs as well, to meet them halfway and for both of you to be pleased with the final solution.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially difficult and exhausting when you\u2019re dealing with a selfish man who doesn\u2019t give a damn about making you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

In pratica, tutto doveva andare a modo suo e i vostri desideri non avevano alcuna importanza.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, quando hai perso questo idiota, hai automaticamente guadagnato la libert\u00e0 di fare quello che diavolo vuoi. <\/span><\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 un aspetto che dovreste sfruttare al massimo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Potete iniziare con piccole cose, come guardare quel film che non avrebbe mai accettato di vedere con voi o ordinare il take away da quel posto che disprezzava. <\/span><\/p>\n

Later on, you\u2019ll see how liberating it is to have the complete freedom to make all of your life decisions on your own, without having to consult anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Nuove opportunit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should <\/span>saltare da una storia d'amore all'altra<\/span><\/a> nel momento in cui si esce da una relazione tossica. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t forget that this l'uomo che si \u00e8 allontanato da te<\/a> ha di fatto lasciato una strada aperta a tutti gli altri ragazzi che vogliono avere una chance con te.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'uomo che vi ha scaricato vi ha dato la possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare finalmente qualcuno degno del vostro tempo e qualcuno che vi far\u00e0 sentire amate e apprezzate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Senza esserne consapevole, vi ha dato l'opportunit\u00e0 di trovare la felicit\u00e0 e di incontrare la vostra anima gemella.<\/span><\/p>\n

In pratica, perdendo l'uomo sbagliato, avete avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare quello giusto.<\/span><\/p>\n

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