{"id":47530,"date":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47530"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","slug":"stai-con-lui-per-motivi-tossici-5-modi-per-scoprirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stai-con-lui-per-motivi-tossici-5-modi-per-scoprirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Stai con lui per motivi tossici? 5 modi per scoprirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che avere una relazione ha la meglio essere single<\/a> qualsiasi giorno.<\/p>\n

Ma vale davvero la pena di continuare a resistere per tutti i motivi sbagliati, persino tossici?<\/p>\n

Un rapporto di coppia dovrebbe essere nutriente, calmante e rassicurante.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe essere il vostro luogo sicuro, un modo per nascondersi dai problemi che vi assillano.<\/p>\n

Una relazione dovrebbe essere qualcosa che ti spinge a superare i giorni di merda perch\u00e9 alla fine vedrai la tua persona preferita.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about just not being alone.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about being able to tell people you\u2019re with someone.<\/p>\n

Those are all the wrong reasons and you\u2019ll never find happiness that way.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

What you need is someone who\u2019ll make you feel like you\u2019re walking on clouds.<\/p>\n

Someone who\u2019ll make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.<\/p>\n

Non qualcuno che riempia un posto vuoto in il vostro cuore.<\/a><\/p>\n

Per favore, fate attenzione alle persone in cui investite il vostro tempo.<\/p>\n

Non tutti sono cos\u00ec gentili come possono sembrare.<\/p>\n

Non tutti meritano il vostro amore.<\/p>\n

Are you in a relationship because you can\u2019t fathom a day without him or are these 5 toxic reasons keeping you attached?<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you feel like your ship has sailed<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t any good, kind, and available men out there anymore, so you took what you could get.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not a bad guy, but you don\u2019t feel that everlasting love with him.<\/p>\n

You keep trying to convince yourself that you\u2019ll get there, the feelings will appear, and it\u2019ll end up being your ultimate love story, but deep down you know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Ti senti come se le tue opzioni fossero limitate e ti sei accontentata di un ragazzo ok.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a decent option, but he\u2019s not someone you\u2019d go to the ends of the earth for.<\/p>\n

He may be sweet and he may be kind, but if he doesn\u2019t make your heart skip a beat, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you\u2019ve been hurt way too many times to look for someone better<\/h2>\n

Il dolore che hai provato e le esperienze che hai avuto con altri ragazzi hanno avuto un grande impatto sulla tua vita.<\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re too scared to look for someone who\u2019ll make you the happiest you could ever be.<\/p>\n

E se dovesse succedere di nuovo?<\/p>\n

E se si finisce in frantumi come tante altre volte?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a risk you\u2019re not willing to take.<\/p>\n

This guy is not someone who\u2019d ferirti<\/a>; he\u2019s proved it multiple times.<\/p>\n

So you\u2019ll stick it out because you feel it\u2019s better than finding an overwhelming love story and being broken again.<\/p>\n

You desperately wish you felt as strongly as he seems to feel for you\u2026 but you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a nice dude and he treats you right, so you\u2019ll stay to protect your heart from further pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you were the last one in your circle to find a man<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Essere l'unica ragazza single della tua cerchia sociale ti ha fatto davvero male.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no fun being the only one without Saturday night plans once they all go off with their boyfriends.<\/p>\n

Being single does have its perks, but you can\u2019t enjoy it if all your girls are happily taken and you\u2019re left there alone, watching Netflix and wishing a man was there with you.<\/p>\n

You had to find someone, even if it wasn\u2019t a love for the ages.<\/p>\n

A una certa et\u00e0, si smette di essere esigenti e si abbassano i criteri.<\/p>\n

So now you\u2019re taken, but it\u2019s not a love story you\u2019ll be telling your grandkids about.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the guy you see a future with.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s good for now, but deep down you know that your one is still out there somewhere.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you needed to forget about your ex<\/h2>\n

You had a shitty breakup and you just couldn\u2019t stand the thought of him anymore.<\/p>\n

Ha lasciato un vuoto nel tuo cuore e avevi bisogno di riempirlo con qualcuno.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what this guy is.<\/p>\n

Un sostituto di un ex che avete disperatamente bisogno di tenere lontano dalla vostra mente.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s wrong and you know you\u2019re going to end up hurting him and yourself in the process.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time before it happens.<\/p>\n

Ma in qualche modo, rende un po' pi\u00f9 facile dimenticarsi di il tuo ex<\/a> se hai un altro uomo al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s not your forever, but you\u2019ll stay for as long as he serves his purpose.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you need someone to flaunt on your Instagram<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You just need people to see you\u2019re “happily” taken.<\/p>\n

Even though you know it\u2019s not real happiness, it\u2019s more important to you to keep people fooled than to actually be happy.<\/p>\n

Quindi continua con il suo stratagemma.<\/p>\n

Continuate a sfoggiarlo sugli account dei social media e le persone continuano ad apprezzare le vostre foto d'amore.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re selling them something that\u2019s not real and sooner or later your lie is going to catch up with you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize how miserable you are by basically faking your life and people will start noticing you\u2019re not as happy as your photos seem to show.<\/p>\n

Prima di farsi ancora pi\u00f9 male, smettete di mantenere false apparenze e iniziate a prendervi pi\u00f9 cura di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Solo quando ti renderai conto di quanto sia sbagliata questa finta relazione, ti darai la possibilit\u00e0 di postare su qualcuno che ti renda davvero felice!<\/p>\n

\"Stai<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that being in a relationship trumps being single any day. But is it really worth it sticking it out for all the wrong, even toxic reasons? A relationship should be nurturing, calming, and reassuring. It should be your safe place, a way to hide from the problems that are bothering you. A relationship…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":47545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_36041066921.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47530"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47530"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}