{"id":47558,"date":"2019-11-14T17:42:35","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:42:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47558"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:07:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:07:10","slug":"ti-ho-dimenticato-e-spero-che-le-nostre-strade-non-si-incrocino-mai-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-ho-dimenticato-e-spero-che-le-nostre-strade-non-si-incrocino-mai-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ho chiuso con te e spero che le nostre strade non si incrocino mai pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non sei pi\u00f9 nei miei pensieri. Sei un semplice ricordo cos\u00ec lontano dalla mia vita che non riesco nemmeno a immaginare la mia vita con te.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it took me so long to get to this point, longer than I ever thought possible. But it\u2019s not easy to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/sto-imparando-lentamente-a-lasciar-andare-le-persone-che-non-apprezzano\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lasciare andare qualcuno <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a cui avete dato il meglio di voi, qualcuno con cui sognavate un futuro insieme.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not easy to make peace with the fact that someone yours is not yours anymore, that someone yours doesn\u2019t feel the same way about you. But it had to be done.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I loved you for all that you were and all you couldn\u2019t be. I loved, past tense, I don\u2019t anymore because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-stato-incredibilmente-difficile-lasciarti-andare-ma-non-mi-hai-lasciato-altra-scelta\/\">non mi hai lasciato altra scelta.&nbsp;<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho dovuto fermare il mio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lf from thinking that one day we\u2019d get back together. I had to block my mind every time it wandered off to you and started thinking, \u201cWhat if things were different?\u201d&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tante volte ti avrei scritto un messaggio, ma l'avrei cancellato prima di inviarlo. Sapevo che non avrei ottenuto nulla con un messaggio, mi avrebbe solo reso debole ai tuoi occhi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639.jpg\" alt=\"donna con smartphone e caff\u00e8 al ristorante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there were so many things left to write, to ask, to say to you but I knew deep down that you didn\u2019t want to talk about them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cos\u00ec ho lasciato che fosse. Nel corso della mia guarigione ho capito che non tutto deve essere risolto. Che a volte si rimane senza una chiusura.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>La parte peggiore \u00e8 stata perdonarti per non essere stato in grado di amarmi quanto io ti ho amato.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That was the sad truth I had to live with. You just didn\u2019t feel the same way, no matter how many times I used to delude myself that you did. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non siamo mai stati destinati ad esserlo.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dovevo anche perdonarti per avermi ferito cos\u00ec tanto. Per avermi voltato le spalle senza una buona spiegazione. Non avrei mai pensato che avresti agito in modo cos\u00ec vile.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Devo perdonarmi per aver pensato cos\u00ec tanto a te. Per averti permesso di essere il centro del mio universo e per aver dimenticato me stesso.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Getting over you was a long process indeed. The overwhelming pain in my chest couldn\u2019t simply disappear overnight. It took its precious time.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899-300x221.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899-768x566.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have to forgive myself for the greater pain I caused myself when I didn\u2019t know how to move on from you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Devo perdonarmi per il mare di lacrime che ho versato a ogni pensiero su di te.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho perso tanto tempo, ma alla fine ne \u00e8 valsa la pena. Ho ricostruito la mia vita mattone dopo mattone. Ho rafforzato il mio cuore. Ho imparato dal mio dolore.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I never saw you after our break-up and I hope I never will. I don\u2019t need a reminder of what was or what could have been.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t know how I would feel if you were standing in front of me and I don\u2019t want to find out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You chose to be a part of my past and it\u2019s better you stay there. We were never meant to be. I see that now.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cammino verso il futuro da sola, con la speranza che dietro l'angolo ci sia la persona giusta per me.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You no longer consume my thoughts. You\u2019re a simple memory so far removed from my life that I can\u2019t even imagine my life with you in it. And it took me so long to get to this point, longer than I ever thought possible. But it\u2019s not easy to let go of someone you gave&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":47561,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_172657394.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47558"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47558\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}