{"id":47564,"date":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47564"},"modified":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-ex-probabilmente-non-e-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-ex-probabilmente-non-e-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui il vostro ex probabilmente non \u00e8 un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il narcisismo \u00e8 diventato cos\u00ec popolare negli ultimi anni. Prima, nessuno al di fuori della psicologia sapeva che questo disturbo di personalit\u00e0 esistesse. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

Oggi tutti sappiamo tutto sui tratti narcisistici, su cosa fanno i narcisisti e perch\u00e9 lo fanno. In breve, siamo diventati tutti esperti in materia. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be aware of the existence of people suffering from this disorder, especially if they are surrounding us and influencing our lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma onestamente, sai quante probabilit\u00e0 ci sono che ci\u00f2 accada?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, the chances are very slim. I know I might be a bit harsh now, but isn\u2019t it possible that you\u2019re trying to play the blame game with your ex by accusing him of everything that went wrong?<\/span><\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you look inside yourself and be honest with yourself? You don\u2019t have to do it with me or even your friend, but be honest with yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t there at least one ounce of blame you are responsible for?<\/span><\/p>\n

A lot of people go online in search of the reason why their relationship has ended. It would be the same if you went googling symptoms of your current health \u2013 it always ends up with the worst possible diagnosis. <\/span><\/p>\n

According to Google, you should\u2019ve already been dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same when you Google alleged symptoms of your alleged fidanzato narcisista<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find your boyfriend in every article written on the internet. You\u2019ll blame him for everything he\u2019s done to you. He\u2019ll even become a \u201c<\/span>narcisista sotto mentite spoglie<\/span><\/a>.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Il narcisismo \u00e8 diventato popolare al giorno d'oggi. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ma, credetemi, le probabilit\u00e0 che il vostro ragazzo sia un narcisista sono quasi nulle.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you can\u2019t go around deciding who is a narcissist and who isn\u2019t without a trained psychologist examining the person accused of suffering from that personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

Secondo alcune ricerche, all'1% della popolazione umana \u00e8 stato diagnosticato seriamente il disturbo narcisistico. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, il suo cosiddetto fidanzato narcisista \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 probabilmente uno stronzo manipolatore che un vero narcisista. Oppure il caso non \u00e8 cos\u00ec grave come lo presentate. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ecco i segnali che affosseranno definitivamente le vostre teorie e dimostreranno che non si tratta di un narcisista: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. What in fact if he\u2019s really not a narcissist?<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Then you end up to be the crazy one. Don\u2019t make false assumptions without solid proof. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo caso, la prova \u00e8 una valutazione psichiatrica. A ben guardare, tutti noi abbiamo un lato narcisistico. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all sometimes want to get revenge, we want to look sophisticated, and we\u2019re definitely at least sometimes seeking attention.  <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Tutti vogliamo certe cose e nessuno \u00e8 estraneo alla manipolazione per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vuole. Come se voi non aveste mai manipolato nessuno? Siate sinceri con voi stessi! <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensateci, se iniziate ad accusare le persone di cose orribili, dovete prima avere delle prove.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll look like the insane one. So to avoid hurting yourself, don\u2019t jump to conclusions. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s statistically impossible<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Internet \u00e8 pieno di articoli sui fidanzati narcisisti, su come riconoscere un narcisista e su come guarire dalla rottura con un narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

While this is all useful information, statistically, the numbers don\u2019t add up. It\u2019s impossible to have that many people suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Accusare qualcuno di aver commesso un'infrazione \u00e8 una tentazione.<\/h2>\n

\"Concentrata<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really tempting putting guilt on a person who has hurt you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to give in to the emotions of revenge and hatred without thinking about what your part is in the deal. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>So, what most of us do is we  blame someone else completely for everything that\u2019s happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

That way it\u2019s so much easier to live and come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over. <\/span><\/p>\n

Raramente qualcuno si assume una vera responsabilit\u00e0 per i propri errori. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Il narcisismo non \u00e8 bianco o nero<\/h2>\n

\"Sicuro<\/p>\n

Tutti noi possediamo alcune caratteristiche narcisistiche. La domanda \u00e8 chi \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 lontano nello spettro del narcisismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

In other words, it\u2019s important to know who\u2019s bad enough to be a narcissist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nessuno \u00e8 tutto buono o tutto cattivo. Siamo tutti un mix di entrambi. Ci\u00f2 che conta alla fine \u00e8 quello che decidete di fare e quello che vi dice la vostra coscienza.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. La NPD \u00e8 stata considerata non trattabile<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the perfect excuse for you. Once again, we get back to you and your lack of responsibility for your own mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

By saying the person who hurt you is beyond help, that\u2019s a perfect excuse for not even trying and, of course, making yourself look blameless. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Gli empatici attraggono i narcisisti<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 l'ultima spiaggia per evitare, ancora una volta, di assumersi le proprie responsabilit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, but there are indeed women out there who label themselves as empaths, which automatically means they are narcissist\u2019s potential victims.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo le assolve da tutti i sensi di colpa. D'altra parte, fingere di essere un'empatica rende le cose ancora pi\u00f9 difficili per le donne che lo sono davvero. E rende pi\u00f9 difficile anche per le donne che hanno avuto una relazione con un narcisista.    <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

If your ex really turns out to be a narcissist \u2013 because as I\u2019ve already said, it\u2019s possible, they do exist \u2013 by talking about them, you\u2019re only giving them attention. That is exactly what narcissists need to feed their ego and continue acting the way they do. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'attenzione \u00e8 come l'aria che respirano. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>La mossa pi\u00f9 intelligente che possiate fare \u00e8 privarli di questa attenzione. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smettete di parlarne e rendeteli il pi\u00f9 possibile insignificanti. Questo \u00e8 l'unico <\/span>come liberarsi da un narcisista <\/span><\/a>e smettere di essere il loro fornitore. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>\u00c8 cos\u00ec che si sopravvive a un vero narcisista.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Narcissism has become so popular in the last few years. Before, no one outside psychology even knew that this personality disorder even existed. Today, we all know everything about narcissistic traits, what narcissists do, and why they do it. In short, we\u2019ve all become experts on the subject. I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47572,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105312263.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}