{"id":47575,"date":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47575"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","slug":"5-modi-in-cui-un-uomo-tossico-vi-fa-tornare-indietro-per-unaltra-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-in-cui-un-uomo-tossico-vi-fa-tornare-indietro-per-unaltra-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi in cui un uomo tossico ti fa tornare indietro per avere di pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando qualcuno si trova in una situazione di tossicit\u00e0 o <\/span>relazione abusiva<\/span><\/a>, the first question that goes through everyone\u2019s mind is why they don\u2019t just leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, chi, sano di mente, sceglierebbe consapevolmente di rimanere in una relazione malsana che continua a spezzargli il cuore e a distruggere la sua vita?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the fact is that things aren\u2019t as simple as they appear at first because toxic people have a way of dragging their victims back to an endless circle of emotional violence and toxicity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Utilizzano diverse strategie di manipolazione per farvi desiderare sempre di pi\u00f9: ecco le pi\u00f9 comuni. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u00c8 incoerente<\/h2>\n

\"perdere<\/p>\n

Il motivo principale per cui si continua a tornare da un ragazzo tossico \u00e8 la sua incoerenza. Vedete, questo tipo di persona raramente mostra i suoi veri colori fin dall'inizio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, they usually pretend to be something they\u2019re not until you fall in love with them. And the same goes for this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono giorni in cui \u00e8 l'uomo migliore del mondo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Giorni in cui lui continua a ricordarvi come si sentono le farfalle e giorni in cui vi sentite la donna pi\u00f9 felice del mondo solo per il fatto di averlo accanto.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there are also moments in which he turns into a monster and moments when you can\u2019t recognize him. <\/span><\/p>\n

E purtroppo le situazioni in cui la sua tossicit\u00e0 viene a galla si verificano sempre pi\u00f9 spesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, ti lascia sempre tornare per saperne di pi\u00f9 semplicemente perch\u00e9 speri di riavere l'uomo dell'inizio della storia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuate a mentire a voi stessi che il suo lato malvagio \u00e8 solo una fase e continuate ad aspettarvi che la <\/span>ragazzo simpatico<\/span><\/a> riapparire.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He convinces you that you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

Another strategy toxic men use to keep their victims wanting more is telling them that they\u2019re not enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quest'uomo \u00e8 riuscito a convincervi che non avete alcun valore e che nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate \u00e8 giusto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, inconsciamente, continuate a tornare da lui e a cercare di dimostrargli che si sbaglia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Volete che veda il vostro vero valore e che smetta di considerarvi immature e buone a nulla.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without being aware of it, you\u2019re actually in the constant search of his approval, which you\u2019ll never get. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want him to realize that you\u2019re enough because you think that is the only way in which you\u2019ll regain a sense of your own self-worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He makes you think you\u2019re unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

A toxic man won\u2019t only convince you that <\/span>you\u2019re not enough<\/span><\/a>\u2014he will also make you believe that you\u2019re unlovable. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will persuade you that he is the only guy who could ever be with you and that all other men out there would only use your body and throw you away after they\u2019re done with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, dopo un po', siete grati che abbia accettato di stare con voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think yourself lucky to have him, despite all the awful treatment he\u2019s putting you through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t even think of replacing him with someone else because you think no other man could ever love you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even when you try finding someone else, you doubt his intentions and you constantly hear this guy\u2019s warning voice in the back of your head, telling you that you\u2019ll end up ridiculed and heartbroken.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what he wants\u2014to keep you by his side and to have you always going back to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ti isola dal resto del mondo<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Tutti gli uomini tossici hanno una cosa in comune: fanno del loro meglio per isolare le loro vittime dai loro cari. <\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, your friends are not good for you and even your family members don\u2019t mean you well.<\/span><\/p>\n

All'inizio, pensate che questo ragazzo stia cercando di proteggervi dalle persone malvagie della vostra vita, senza essere consapevoli che \u00e8 lui il cattivo del quadro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non vi accorgete che in realt\u00e0 sta facendo tutto questo per tenervi lontana da tutti coloro che potrebbero aprirvi gli occhi e rivelarvi la verit\u00e0 su di lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, facendoti tagliare i ponti con tutti quelli che ti circondano, ti rende anche pi\u00f9 difficile lasciarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo modo, anche quando si pensa di andarsene, ci si ricorda che non si ha un posto dove andare.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost all the people you could rely on, the people who could help you get back on your feet and the people who could support you when turning a new page. So you stay right there where you are, without a chance to make a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s made you dependent on him<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti per le persone tossiche \u00e8 rendere le loro vittime dipendenti da loro. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re struggling with financial or <\/span>dipendenza emotiva<\/span><\/a>\u2014the point is the same; it is a toxic man\u2019s way of caging you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is the one who knows what\u2019s best for you. He is the one whose advice you should listen to and even when he is insulting you, he is doing it for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo che ti ha svalutato, pensi che lui sia molto meglio di te. <\/span><\/p>\n

You believe him when he tells you that you\u2019re incapable of achieving anything without him and that you couldn\u2019t go through life without his hand to guide you.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, even when you try walking away from this relationship, you keep on going back because you\u2019re scared that you won\u2019t make it on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

This guy is your comfort zone and you\u2019re too afraid to step out of it.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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