{"id":47707,"date":"2019-11-15T15:40:37","date_gmt":"2019-11-15T15:40:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47707"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:13:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:13:27","slug":"7-cose-da-fare-quando-scopri-che-ti-ha-tradito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-da-fare-quando-scopri-che-ti-ha-tradito\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose da fare quando si scopre che ti ha tradito"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Accettare ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

So che accettare ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo \u00e8 una vera e propria tortura, ma \u00e8 necessario farlo per iniziare a guarire. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just do it fast, like when ripping off a band-aid. It\u2019ll hurt less, but it won\u2019t make you feel better. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you and tell you that things will magically work out well for you. No. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have <\/span>essere un disastro<\/span><\/a> for some time to actually accept that you\u2019ve been cheated on. You\u2019ll have to go through all stages of grief and only then will you be ready to move on. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, the most important thing is that you take one step at a time. It will pass, but it\u2019ll take some time for that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Once you get over it, though, you\u2019ll see that what doesn\u2019t kill you indeed makes you stronger. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Sfogare la rabbia <\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Cry, scream, smash things. Do all that you need to let the anger out. Don\u2019t keep it inside because you\u2019ll explode one day. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just let it all out. Once you do it, you\u2019ll see that you feel better. You\u2019ll feel calmer and know how to move on. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be able to think with a cool head and know that it doesn\u2019t make any sense to take revenge. By spitting on the one who cheated on you, you\u2019d give him too much attention. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s not what you want, right? That\u2019s why you should hold your head high and move on. Let karma do the dirty job for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, cheaters always end up with someone who\u2019ll end up hurting them. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t waste your time and energy on him but on yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t let him come close <\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che si possa fare dopo essere stati traditi \u00e8 dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0 al traditore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just think what kind of message you\u2019re sending him. You\u2019re telling him that he can do it again and if he tells you how really, really sorry he is, you\u2019ll forgive him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, this is no way of getting your happiness back. He won\u2019t cheat on you only if he respects you, and if you treat him like this, he\u2019ll do it again. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should be strong and stay away from him. If he tries to come close, just ignore him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fategli vedere che tipo di errore ha commesso. Fatelo riflettere un po' su di voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Give him time to feel sorry for everything he did to you. Let him get a taste of his own medicine. That\u2019s the only way he\u2019ll learn to treat a woman right. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t go through it alone <\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve been cheated on, don\u2019t let yourself go through it on your own. Reach out to your friends and be in their company. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel heaps better when they remind you of how amazing you are. <\/span><\/p>\n

I migliori amici sanno come <\/span>per aumentare l'autostima<\/span><\/a> and that\u2019s why you have them in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everything is much easier when you share it with someone. Don\u2019t think that you\u2019ll be a burden to your friends or that they\u2019ll think you\u2019re boring. <\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll be happy about being there for you even in a situation like this. <\/span><\/p>\n

True friends will give you good advice and comfort you, and your load will immediately feel lighter. At least you\u2019ll know that you\u2019re not alone and you\u2019ll always have good people to stand by you. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Remember that it wasn\u2019t your fault <\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

People who\u2019ve been cheated on think that it was their fault. They believe they did something wrong and that their partner simply cooled down. <\/span><\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not the truth. If you think it was you who destroyed your relationship, just remind yourself of all the sacrifices you made for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

And now see what you got in return. Guys cheat for sex while women cheat because they\u2019re not happy in a relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

They do it because they\u2019ve been neglected by the one they love most. So, if a guy cheated on you, just know that it was merely a moment of pleasure. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t marry that woman. He probably won\u2019t even see her again. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019s been used for only one time and that\u2019s it. But in doing so, he lost the woman to love. Trust me, that\u2019ll be his biggest punishment. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Datevi il tempo di guarire <\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che si possa fare \u00e8 trovare un altro uomo quando si viene feriti in questo modo. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should stay alone with your thoughts and feelings and project them onto something helpful. <\/span><\/p>\n

Give yourself as much time as you need. Work on yourself. Do things that make you happy. Feel that you\u2019re free from one toxic man and you\u2019ll never let any man treat you like that. <\/span><\/p>\n

This was just a lesson that hurts for now, but it\u2019ll be something that\u2019ll help you become stronger in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know that saying: \u201cYou\u2019ll be happy, but first, I\u2019ll make you strong?\u201d The same goes for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Andare avanti <\/h2>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Moving on won\u2019t happen so fast but when it does, do it without any regrets. Once you go through all the stages of healing after being cheated on, you\u2019ll be ready to finally move on and start a new chapter of your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault and that you were too good for him. When the right time comes, you\u2019ll find that you deserve so much better. You\u2019ll never cross a line and do things that you don\u2019t feel comfortable with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never put a man first unless he proves he\u2019s worth it. When you learn to cherish and respect yourself, others will do it too. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s the time when you\u2019ll finally be ready to move on.<\/span><\/p>\n

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