{"id":47721,"date":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47721"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","slug":"il-tempo-guarisce-tutte-le-ferite-o-lo-fa-davvero-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-tempo-guarisce-tutte-le-ferite-o-lo-fa-davvero-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite (o forse s\u00ec?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whenever you’re going through a painful situation and experience something that will definitely leave a permanent stretch mark on your cuore spezzato<\/a> e dell'anima, probabilmente sentite alcune frasi tipiche dalla vostra famiglia, dai vostri migliori amici e da tutti coloro che vi circondano.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you are going through some mental health problems, have lost a loved one,  didn\u2019t succeed in your lifelong dream, have lost your best friend or life partner, or in the middle of a heartache or family emergency, the fact is that most people use similar clich\u00e9s to comfort you.<\/p>\n

Vi dicono cose che presumono vogliate sentire.<\/p>\n

Che un giorno il tuo crepacuore<\/a> will be a part of the past, that you’ll manage to overcome your emotional pain, that those difficult times will go away, and that the bad emotions won’t get the best of you. <\/p>\n

They tell you that everything will be better and the good times will come (even in situations where the light at the end of the tunnel cannot be seen), that you\u2019ll be stronger (even when all you want is to give up), that everything will eventually go away (even when you\u2019re convinced that this overwhelming pain will consume you forever), that everything happens for a reason and a greater cause (even when there is obviously nothing good in this evil that life threw at you), that one day you\u2019ll laugh at all of this (even when you\u2019re struggling to not start crying at this exact moment) and that you\u2019ll eventually learn a valuable lesson from this heartbreak (even when you have no desire to be taught any lessons).<\/p>\n

Of course, people are telling you all of this simply because they don\u2019t know better.<\/p>\n

They see that you\u2019re a wreck, but can\u2019t do anything concrete to help you fix your emotional wounds \u2013 which sometimes hurt the same as physical wounds \u2013 so they say these seemingly empty phrases because that\u2019s the only choice they have left.<\/p>\n

However, sadly, in most times, all of these clich\u00e9s often have a completely counterproductive impact on the person hurting, albeit said with the best intentions and  that everyone telling you these things is well-meaning.<\/p>\n

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When you hear them, you get annoyed because you\u2019re pretty much sure that the person doesn\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\n

You get frustrated when people who haven\u2019t walked a mile in your shoes try to convince you that your hardships are not such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Not only that, you also feel pressured, as if they\u2019re telling you to hurry up with this recovery and giving you some kind of a deadline by which it would be socially acceptable for you to get over whatever\u2019s bothering you and for your heartache to be gone.<\/p>\n

Yes, there are numerous clich\u00e9s you hear from well-meaning people when you\u2019re going through a difficult time and trying to heal from emotional wounds.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, \u201ctime heals everything\u201d is the most common one, without doubt and without competition.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il passare del tempo guarisce davvero? Il tempo ha la capacit\u00e0 di farvi sentire meglio?<\/p>\n

Porta bei momenti e riesce a curare le ferite?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 davvero sufficiente concedere un po' di tempo e lasciare che faccia la sua magia? O si tratta solo di vuota retorica?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to find out.<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce davvero tutto? <\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se molti sono d'accordo con questa teoria, ci sono ancora pi\u00f9 persone che la pensano diversamente.<\/p>\n

Namely, the truth is that time doesn\u2019t have a magic wand that will make all of your problems disappear.<\/p>\n

Yes, when you suffer from a broken heart or when something even more devastating happens to you, you probably won’t spend your entire life crying over it and suffering with the same intensity. <\/p>\n

Ad esempio, quando il vostro muore una persona cara<\/a>All'inizio si ha la sensazione che anche la propria vita sia finita.<\/p>\n

You feel like you can\u2019t breathe and as if this pain will always consume you with the same severity.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, sembra che il dolore inizi a svanire. Dopo un po' si trasforma in una sorta di intorpidimento.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, questa perdita fa ancora male ogni giorno, ma in qualche modo, dopo molti sforzi, si impara a funzionare nel mondo reale.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, you wake up every day, go to work, eat, engage with other people, start to sleep better, return to your old hobbies and interests\u2026<\/p>\n

Alla fine, un giorno, ci si sorprende a sorridere o addirittura a ridere per una cosa a caso.<\/p>\n

You catch yourself waking up in the middle of the night, without feeling like you\u2019re covered in physical wounds, as if there\u2019s a huge, sharp knife stabbed in your stomach.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, in sostanza, la vita \u00e8 andata avanti, anche se probabilmente avete cercato di opporvi inconsciamente. Avete continuato a vivere ed esistere e le emozioni positive hanno avuto la meglio.<\/p>\n

You survived. It seems that you\u2019ve andato avanti<\/a> e superato tutto.<\/p>\n

However, does that mean that you\u2019re fully recovered? Does that mean that your heart has healed, just because you don’t have trouble getting out of bed every single day?<\/p>\n

O siete semplicemente diventati insensibili? Il dolore ha cessato di esistere o avete semplicemente imparato a conviverci?<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that, in these case scenarios, you\u2019re never fully healed, no matter how much time has passed.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, fa ancora male ogni volta che si pensa alla perdita o al dolore del cuore.<\/p>\n

So, no, the emotional pain doesn\u2019t go away, you just learn to live with it. You get used to your scars and they become an inerasable part of you.<\/p>\n

Il dolore non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 l'unica cosa che sentite e smette definitivamente di definirvi, ma \u00e8 certamente ancora presente.<\/p>\n

Si impara semplicemente a gestirlo, a metterlo a tacere e a ignorarlo.<\/p>\n

Even when you do feel better, it is not time\u2019s work. Even when you heal, it\u2019s not time that gets the credit, you\u2019re the one who does it.<\/p>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Forse si impara qualche lezione preziosa; forse la vita accade.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you understand that everything happens for a reason or you grow as a person who is now capable of handling everything bad she\u2019s experienced.<\/p>\n

Forse si va ancora pi\u00f9 a fondo ferite emotive<\/a>, cos\u00ec quelli del passato diventano stolti.<\/p>\n

It could be that you\u2019ve become stronger and braver or  you\u2019ve thought things through and realized they\u2019re not worthy of your tears.<\/p>\n

However, you were the one who took the initiative. Yes, time might have helped you in the process, but you\u2019re the deserving one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who took your entire life in your own hands and did all the work your own way, with time as your ally.<\/p>\n

Colui che ha salvato la vostra salute mentale, che si \u00e8 reso conto che lasciarsi andare<\/a> is the only option you have, who accepted the things you couldn\u2019t change, who decided to rise above the pain.<\/p>\n

Quindi, s\u00ec, il tempo pu\u00f2 servire come efficace antidolorifico.<\/p>\n

The passage of time might serve you as an assistant in healing wounds and it will surely be your best friend while you’re trying to recover. <\/p>\n

Ma non \u00e8 mai il guaritore definitivo. <\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite Significato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando qualcuno dice che il tempo cura tutto, significa letteralmente che il tempo cancella il dolore.<\/p>\n

Significa che a volte si sta soffrendo e si sta attraversando un periodo di crisi. processo di guarigione<\/a> at the same time \u2013 that you are actually doing better with each day that passes, usually without even being aware of it while it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

It means that no matter the pain you\u2019re feeling, the grief that\u2019s consuming you, and the hardship you\u2019ve been through, things will eventually be okay \u2013 you just need to give it some time. Time for the healing process to take its course.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il momento di rendersi conto che lasciare andare \u00e8 qualcosa che si deve fare. Lasciate che le emozioni negative svaniscano, che le ferite emotive si trasformino in tessuto cicatriziale e che queste cicatrici scompaiano completamente.<\/p>\n

In fact, what you have to do is give yourself some time \u2013 to process things, accept them, forgive, get over something or someone, forget, and move on.<\/p>\n

This phrase is telling you that nothing happens overnight. That physical, mental, and emotional recovery is a healing process that lasts and you can\u2019t force it.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t apply to sorrow and sadness only.<\/p>\n

Quando il tempo passa, porta via anche la rabbia e il risentimento, rimuove alcuni problemi di fiducia o traumi da abbandono<\/a> potrebbe avere.<\/p>\n

Questo detto vuole darvi la speranza che nulla \u00e8 permanente.<\/p>\n

Hope that you definitely won\u2019t be feeling this way \u2013 that time will fix you, if nothing else does.<\/p>\n

So, basically, whatever you\u2019re experiencing, the bottom line is that it will go away.<\/p>\n

Per quanto ottimistico possa sembrare quando si tratta di cose brutte, \u00e8 anche piuttosto deprimente quando si tratta di emozioni e stati positivi perch\u00e9, secondo questa logica, anche loro se ne andranno, giusto?<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite Origine<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ovunque si guardi, si vede qualcuno con un il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite <\/i>tattoo, quote, bumper sticker, social media post\u2026<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci si potrebbe chiedere chi ha detto che il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite? Quali sono l'origine e il contesto storico di questa frase?<\/p>\n

Anche se non ci sono dati precisi al riguardo, ci sono alcune ipotesi su chi sia stato il primo a pronunciare questa famosa frase e su come sia diventata un proverbio in molte lingue del mondo.<\/p>\n

According to some sources, Glenn McCormick was the name of the man who once said \u201cGod heals all wounds.<\/p>\n

\u201d Nevertheless, after a while, the word Dio<\/i> \u00e8 stato sostituito da tempo <\/i>and that is how we got today\u2019s form of this sentence.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, qualcosa di ottimistico e positivo come questo piaceva alle masse. Dava loro fiducia in un domani migliore e la forza di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

It was a silver lining to many people\u2019s cloud, so it\u2019s no wonder this phrase not only stuck in many cultures, but also became so powerful and common.<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite Bibbia<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'idea che quando il tempo passa, diventa il guaritore, \u00e8 presente in molte religioni e soprattutto nel cristianesimo.<\/p>\n

Anche se la Bibbia non dice mai esplicitamente questa frase, di certo consiglia la pazienza e d\u00e0 speranza.<\/p>\n

For example, in the words of the Psalm 147:3: \u201cHe heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.\u201d<\/p>\n

Qui \u00e8 implicito che sia Dio a curare tutte le ferite, invece del tempo stesso.<\/p>\n

Also, in Jeremiah 33:6, it is said: \u201cBehold, I will bring it to health and healing, and I will hear them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security.\u201d<\/p>\n

Senza dubbio, la parola pi\u00f9 importante in questa frase \u00e8 ATTESA, che in sostanza dice ai credenti di non aspettarsi che il miracolo avvenga da un giorno all'altro.<\/p>\n

So, based on all of this, one can conclude that time alone doesn\u2019t have the necessary power to cure the believers and that time does not heal you. Instead, Jesus Christ sometimes needs time to save them because, according to the Bible, he is the only real healer.<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite Citazioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sono numerosi citazioni profonde e ispirate<\/a> su il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite<\/i>. <\/i>Ecco alcuni dei pi\u00f9 motivanti:<\/p>\n

Dicono che il tempo guarisca tutte le ferite<\/i>. Lasciatemi dire che il tempo non guarisce nulla. <\/i><\/p>\n

You can do the wrong thing for 10 years and it doesn’t equal the right thing for one day. \u2013 <\/i>Phil Mcgraw<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato detto che il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite. Non sono d'accordo. Le ferite rimangono. <\/i><\/p>\n

Col tempo, la mente, proteggendo la propria sanit\u00e0 mentale, li ricopre di <\/i>tessuto cicatriziale<\/i> and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. \u2013 <\/i>Rose Kennedy<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarisce i dolori e i litigi, perch\u00e9 cambiamo e non siamo pi\u00f9 le stesse persone. <\/i><\/p>\n

Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves. \u2013 <\/i>Blaise Pascal<\/p>\n

Il tempo pu\u00f2 guarire tutte le ferite, ma non cancella <\/i>le cicatrici<\/i><\/a>. \u2013 <\/i>Jane Yolen<\/p>\n

I’ve learned\u2026 That love, not time, heals all wounds. \u2013 <\/i>Andy Rooney<\/p>\n

Who said that time heals all wounds? It would be better to say that time heals everything \u2013 except wounds. With time, the hurt of separation loses its real limits. <\/i><\/p>\n

With time, the desired body will soon disappear, and if the desiring body has already ceased to exist for the other, then what remains is a wound, disembodied. \u2013 <\/i>Chris Marker<\/p>\n

The defects and faults of the mind are like wounds in the body; after all imaginable care has been taken to heal them up, still there will be a scar left behind, and they are in continual danger of breaking the skin and bursting out again. \u2013 <\/i>Francois de La Rochefoucauld<\/p>\n

Il tempo non guarisce<\/i> all wounds. It just puts more space between the times you remember the events that gave you those wounds\u2026 There are some hurts that never stop hurting no matter how faded are <\/i>le cicatrici<\/i>.<\/i> \u2013 Charles Watson<\/p>\n

Time doesn\u2019t, as advertised, heal wounds. Although the wrenching immediacy of grief eventually passed, the settled sorrow that replaced it might in its <\/i>modo proprio<\/i> essere ancora pi\u00f9 intenso.<\/i> \u2013 Dean Koontz<\/p>\n

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