{"id":47857,"date":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47857"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","slug":"10-lezioni-importanti-che-la-vostra-quasi-relazione-puo-insegnarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-lezioni-importanti-che-la-vostra-quasi-relazione-puo-insegnarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"10 lezioni importanti che la vostra quasi relazione vi pu\u00f2 insegnare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even if he wasn\u2019t the right one, the pain will still be there <\/h2>\n

Solo perch\u00e9 il vostro partner non era quello giusto, non significa che non soffrirete.<\/p>\n

Era lei a voler far funzionare le cose. Hai dato il tuo cuore e la tua anima per sviluppare forti legami con lui. <\/p>\n

Volevate tutto, ma non avete ottenuto nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n

Tu eri solo un'altra ragazza che lui ha illuso con il suo fascino e le sue dolci parole.<\/p>\n

E tu ci sei cascato.<\/p>\n

You gave all you had and he couldn\u2019t even commit to you.<\/p>\n

So, when he leaves, don\u2019t wonder why your heart is broken.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal that you feel that way. <\/p>\n

But trust me, what doesn\u2019t kill you makes you stronger.<\/p>\n

Maybe you feel bad now, but you\u2019ll soon be so happy that you got rid of someone who could never love you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t make you feel good, you\u2019re allowed to leave <\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Rimanere in una quasi relazione \u00e8 come aggrapparsi a qualcosa che non \u00e8 reale.<\/p>\n

Non si pu\u00f2 che avere il cuore ancora pi\u00f9 spezzato e finire in depressione. <\/p>\n

No man should ever make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n

E se c'\u00e8 uno che vi fa sentire cos\u00ec, dimenticatevi di lui.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be the man of your dreams. <\/p>\n

Non potrebbe mai darvi l'amore che meritate.<\/p>\n

And what\u2019s most important: non potrebbe mai metterti al primo posto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should leave whenever you feel unappreciated.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re ready to invest it all to be happy with him and he doesn\u2019t feel the same way, just leave.<\/p>\n

If he cared enough, he\u2019d pursue you.<\/p>\n

But since he\u2019s not giving you what you want, it is better to end it before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, nessuno vi biasimer\u00e0 se sceglierete di inseguire la vostra felicit\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Meritate di ottenere una chiusura<\/h2>\n

\"bruna<\/p>\n

La chiusura non \u00e8 qualcosa che si deve elemosinare.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something that should happen naturally.<\/p>\n

One of the characteristics of almost relationships is not getting closure because the one who loves less thinks he doesn\u2019t have to justify himself. <\/p>\n

So you end up with all your feelings and you don\u2019t know where to put them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re confused because you didn\u2019t see the red flags and now it\u2019s suddenly all over.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 essere piuttosto duro.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn\u2019t give you any closure, just move on and be happy that you\u2019re free to do what you want. <\/p>\n

Vi siete salvati in tempo e ora potete iniziare un nuovo capitolo della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Ci si pu\u00f2 innamorare di qualcuno che sa amare.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anyone<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you can\u2019t change someone unless they want to do so.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t even try.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste your time and energy on trying to make someone love you. <\/p>\n

Love and friendships shouldn\u2019t be forced.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe venire naturale.<\/p>\n

E se vedi che non vai da nessuna parte, lascia perdere.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e0 meno male, credetemi.<\/p>\n

Quello che dovete fare \u00e8 accettare che non \u00e8 destinato a voi due e andare avanti. <\/p>\n

Once you remove yourself from everything that was breaking you, you\u2019ll see that you did the right thing.<\/p>\n

E la sensazione di essere cos\u00ec orgogliosi di se stessi sar\u00e0 la pi\u00f9 dolce in assoluto.<\/p>\n

Il problema non \u00e8 in voi<\/h2>\n

\"pura<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019ll reach a stage where you believe that the problem lies with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not true. You are not guilty of falling in love with that jerk. <\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how he\u2019d behave toward you.<\/p>\n

You believed all he said and thought he\u2019d provide you with that fairytale he was talking about.<\/p>\n

You gave him all you had and he didn\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n

You waited for him to get his shit together but he didn\u2019t change. <\/p>\n

E non ha alcuna intenzione di farlo.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel bad after you leave him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just jump over to another victim and do the same to her.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think you\u2019re the guilty one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one to blame.<\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t you ever forget that.<\/p>\n

L'amore non ha pi\u00f9 lo stesso significato per voi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

After you get your heart broken, you don\u2019t have the same outlook on love.<\/p>\n

When you escape an almost relationship, you\u2019re so scared that every next man who enters your life will do the same to you. <\/p>\n

Pensate a questo ogni volta che qualcuno attira la vostra attenzione.<\/p>\n

E poi si scappa ogni volta dall'amore.<\/p>\n

And even if you know that you\u2019re not doing the right thing, you\u2019ll be a prisoner of your own mind for so long. <\/p>\n

You think that true love doesn\u2019t exist until you find a man who makes all your doubts go away.<\/p>\n

Solo allora sarete finalmente la vecchia versione di voi stessi. <\/p>\n

Imparate a rispettarvi di pi\u00f9 <\/h2>\n

After all that you\u2019ve gone through in your almost relationship, you actually learned one thing well: how to respect and love yourself.<\/p>\n

Now you know that if you don\u2019t respect yourself enough, others won\u2019t do it either. <\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what you are proud of currently.<\/p>\n

Vi rendete conto che qualsiasi uomo malvagio cercher\u00e0 di trascinarvi e di approfittarsi di voi se glielo permettete.<\/p>\n

Ma poich\u00e9 avete vissuto l'orrore di stare con qualcuno che voleva tutto senza darvi nulla in cambio, ora sapete come comportarvi. <\/p>\n

Non permetterete mai a nessun uomo di maltrattarvi o di darvi per scontate.<\/p>\n

Ora si vuole tutto o niente.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re staying single<\/a> finch\u00e9 non otterrete ci\u00f2 che meritate davvero. <\/p>\n

Si supera prima di quanto si pensi <\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t believe that you\u2019ll get over your almost relationship, but you will.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, accade prima di quanto si pensi.<\/p>\n

I know that you are confused now and don\u2019t know how to move on, but you\u2019ll learn to live with it over time. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go through different phases and learn new things about yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re no longer the same person and the change you went through actually helped you. <\/p>\n

Maybe you didn\u2019t end up with the love of your life, but you learned to get over some things faster.<\/p>\n

You discovered a new strength within yourself and are now so proud of the woman you\u2019ve become. <\/p>\n

You no longer compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives <\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quando si finisce una quasi relazione, si imparano un paio di cose.<\/p>\n

You learn that you shouldn\u2019t compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives. <\/p>\n

You realize that every love story is individual and you can\u2019t expect the same thing to happen to you as to your best friend.<\/p>\n

If you continue doing that, you\u2019ll end up depressed every time someone else gets what you wanted. <\/p>\n

Inoltre, ci sono persone che sanno mentire bene e fingere che tutto vada bene.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s one more reason to stop trusting all that you see.<\/p>\n

Prima lo capite, pi\u00f9 facile sar\u00e0 per voi.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno vi ama, vi inseguir\u00e0 <\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

It is pretty simple. You know if someone loves you if they\u2019re prepared to chase you.<\/p>\n

Punto. Tutto il resto \u00e8 solo un gioco.<\/p>\n

So, when you notice that a man you\u2019re seeing wants boyfriend benefits but doesn\u2019t want to be your boyfriend, just know it\u2019s a red flag. <\/p>\n

If someone truly cares about you, he\u2019ll make some effort.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll try to make you feel good and nothing will be too much for him.<\/p>\n

So, next time someone tries to lead you on just because they\u2019re your weak spot, just move on. <\/p>\n

Chi vuole pi\u00f9 di quanto d\u00e0 non \u00e8 abbastanza degno di far parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

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