{"id":47894,"date":"2019-11-18T21:17:45","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T21:17:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47894"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:40:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:40:02","slug":"4-cose-che-il-vostro-ex-traditore-fara-per-provare-a-riconquistarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-cose-che-il-vostro-ex-traditore-fara-per-provare-a-riconquistarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cose che il tuo ex traditore far\u00e0 per cercare di riconquistarti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere traditi \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 dolorose e umilianti che una donna possa sperimentare in una relazione. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il vostro cuore \u00e8 in frantumi, il vostro ego \u00e8 spezzato e la vostra dignit\u00e0 \u00e8 lesa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, nonostante tutto questo, ci sono molte donne che riprendono i loro ex traditori. Perch\u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte <\/span>imbroglioni<\/span><\/a> sono anche abili manipolatori. <\/span><\/p>\n

Utilizzano diverse strategie e tecniche per attirare le loro vittime verso di loro, ed eccone 4 tra le pi\u00f9 comuni.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Negare la sua relazione<\/h2>\n

\"Silhouette<\/p>\n

At first, when you find out that your partner has been unfaithful, he will do his best to deny his affair, and he\u2019ll never admit his wrongdoings if he thinks he has a chance of getting away with them. <\/span><\/p>\n

He might even try to convince you that you\u2019re crazy for suspecting him and try to make you feel guilty for not believing him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Attenzione: in questo modo, egli sta in realt\u00e0 utilizzando la psicologia inversa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vuole togliersi tutte le colpe di dosso e farvi sembrare un cattivo ragazzo, anche se entrambi sapete di non aver fatto nulla di male.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you catch him red-handed and even if you have all the evidence which proves his infidelity, he\u2019ll still deny that he is guilty. In fact, he\u2019ll probably tell you that things aren\u2019t as they seem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Naturalmente, nessuna donna sana di mente comprerebbe le sue stronzate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Purtroppo, per\u00f2, molte ragazze cadono in queste scuse vuote e in questi inganni semplicemente perch\u00e9 vogliono credere al proprio partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vogliono preservare la loro relazione a tutti i costi e per loro \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile mentire a se stessi che affrontare la brutale verit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Presentarlo come irrilevante<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, when a cheater doesn\u2019t have anywhere to go and when he sees that you are not believing in his lies, he will have to admit his infidelity. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, even when he does this, he\u2019ll try his best to present it as something unimportant, something that never mattered in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably tell you that this was nothing but a moment of weakness and that it is not something that should have any effect on your relationship whatsoever. <\/span><\/p>\n

Secondo lui, questo non \u00e8 degno di distruggere ci\u00f2 che voi ragazzi avete costruito per anni e sicuramente non \u00e8 qualcosa su cui dovreste porre tanta attenzione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il motivo per cui questa strategia funziona in molti casi risiede nel fatto che la maggior parte delle ragazze si diverte a sentire queste parole dai loro ex traditore<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

They want to believe him when he says that all other girls in his life are just temporary and that they\u2019re the only ones who matter.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Incolpare voi per questo<\/h2>\n

\"Singolo<\/p>\n

Un'altra tecnica che il vostro <\/span>ex traditore<\/span><\/a> Probabilmente, nel suo tentativo di tornare con voi, cercher\u00e0 di addossarvi tutta la colpa delle sue azioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably accuse you of not giving him enough attention or for killing the flame and the passion in your relationship, which made him look for comfort somewhere else.<\/span><\/p>\n

He wants to completely turn the tables and present you as the one who should be apologizing for the fact that he deliberately and consciously chose to hurt you. This is something you shouldn\u2019t allow at all costs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se la vostra relazione ha avuto dei problemi, non pu\u00f2 essere una scusa per l'infedelt\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, he had the possibility of leaving you if he saw that you guys aren\u2019t functioning together which is always a better option than betraying you in this way.<\/span><\/p>\n

So instead of allowing him to convince you that you\u2019re guilty, be aware of one fact: this guy is not only a cheater, he is also a toxic manipulator who doesn\u2019t know how to take responsibility for his actions.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Vi prometto il mondo<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

L'ultima strategia, ma sicuramente non la meno pericolosa, che il vostro ex traditore user\u00e0 senza dubbio per convincervi a riprenderlo \u00e8 quella di farvi false promesse. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that he is ready to do whatever it takes for <\/span>un'altra possibilit\u00e0<\/span><\/a>, that this was a mistake he doesn\u2019t plan on repeating, and that he\u2019ll be the best possible boyfriend in the future, if you just give him the opportunity to repent. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, probabilmente sta solo cercando un via libera per continuare a farvi del male.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, it is up to you whether you\u2019ll forgive a cheater and take him back, but I\u2019m just begging you to take into consideration the fact that most cheaters continue with their misdeeds even after endless second chances. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is probably not sorry for cheating on you\u2013he is only sorry that he got caught.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, le persone cambiano raramente, e il vostro ex non sar\u00e0 probabilmente un'eccezione. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you forgive him this time, he\u2019ll probably keep on cheating on you because he\u2019ll see your forgiveness as a sign of approval.<\/span><\/p>\n

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