{"id":47903,"date":"2019-11-18T21:32:57","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T21:32:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47903"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:17:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:17:13","slug":"non-accontentarti-di-un-uomo-che-sceglie-quando-prestarti-attenzione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-accontentarti-di-un-uomo-che-sceglie-quando-prestarti-attenzione\/","title":{"rendered":"Non accontentatevi di un uomo che sceglie quando prestarvi attenzione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi \u00e8 mai capitato di avere a che fare con un uomo che sembrava troppo bello per essere vero quando lo avete incontrato per la prima volta? <\/span><\/p>\n

Un ragazzo apparentemente romantico, che vi ha prodigato attenzioni e che voi pensavate fosse il vostro <\/span>Mr. Perfect<\/span><\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Poi, all'improvviso, tutto \u00e8 cambiato. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know if something happened or he showed you his true colors, but after a while, the man from the beginning of the story was nowhere to be found.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, he was replaced by a guy who ignores your phone calls and texts,  emotionally neglects you, puts everyone in front of you, and clearly doesn\u2019t give a damn about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poi, dopo un po', tutto \u00e8 tornato al punto di partenza: Lui \u00e8 tornato al suo comportamento iniziale e voi avete pensato che fosse solo una brutta fase che siete riusciti a superare con successo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dopo qualche tempo, vi siete resi conto <\/span>you\u2019re trapped in this endless circle of inconsistency, everything has gone too far, and you don\u2019t have any idea where you stand.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, you can\u2019t help but overthink, as much as you try not to.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s going on? Does this man care for you or is he only using you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Why does he in one moment act like he couldn\u2019t imagine his life next to you, just to give you cold feet the very next?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that one of the most important relationships rules most of us sadly learn the hard way is if someone doesn\u2019t love you all the time, he\u2019s never actually loved you.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not to accept half-assed feelings and effort. It is not to be okay with receiving little, especially when you\u2019re giving a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that a man who\u2019ll dedicate himself one hundred percent to you seems impossible to find. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I promise you that he\u2019s out there and that he\u2019ll find his way to you, when you become ready to welcome him into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should settle for anything less in the meantime. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean you should accept the crumbs of some douchebag\u2019s love and attention just because you still haven\u2019t found the real deal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your obsessive thoughts about ending up alone shouldn\u2019t be the reason for you to lower your standards, and even the love you might feel for him shouldn\u2019t be an excuse to settle for less than you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste your time on inconsistent men who have no clue what they want from life. <\/span><\/p>\n

On men who ignore you when they\u2019re having a blast with their friends, but come crawling back to you whenever they need something.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give them a chance to play with your heart and mind just to boost their own egos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for a guy who refuses to <\/span>etichettate la vostra relazione<\/span><\/a> and doesn\u2019t want to call you his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

For a guy who beats around the bush and doesn\u2019t give you any certainty when it comes to the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept the man who treats you like you\u2019re the love of his life one day just to disappear the next and start acting like he doesn\u2019t know you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Per un uomo che ti fantasma nel momento in cui si presenta un'occasione migliore e che sceglie quando prestarti attenzione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste years of your life on someone who <\/span>ti trova conveniente<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

On a guy who makes you feel like you\u2019re his last resort and doesn\u2019t have the decency to prioritize you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for a man who doesn\u2019t take you on dates or dinners, but calls you every time he gets wasted in the middle of the night asking if he can come over and crash at your place. <\/span><\/p>\n

For a man who doesn\u2019t want the entire package and is only after your body, without giving a damn about your soul, heart, and mind.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept a guy who wants your entire relationship to happen under his terms and couldn\u2019t care less for your needs and wishes.<\/b><\/p>\n

A guy who isn\u2019t interested and fully invested in your life and someone you know you can\u2019t count on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece, <\/span>wait for a real man who\u2019ll be constantly present. <\/b>That man who isn\u2019t going anywhere and loves you, no matter the circumstances.<\/span><\/p>\n

Until then, remember that it\u2019s always better to stay single than give someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you even looking at him a chance to treat you however the hell he wants and the opportunity to keep on breaking your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Have you ever been involved with a man who appeared to be too good to be true when you first met him? A seemingly romantic guy who lavished attention on you and whom you thought was your Mr. Perfect? Then, all of a sudden, everything changed. You don\u2019t know if something happened or he showed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":48077,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_376794838.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47903","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47903"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47903\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48077"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}