{"id":48452,"date":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48452"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","slug":"8-problemi-di-relazione-a-distanza-e-come-farli-funzionare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-problemi-di-relazione-a-distanza-e-come-farli-funzionare\/","title":{"rendered":"8 problemi nelle relazioni a distanza (e come farli funzionare)"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s a known fact that maintaining a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> \u00e8 un onere che molti esitano ad assumersi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Conservare un <\/span>relazione romantica<\/span> oltre <\/span>Skype<\/span> con il vostro <\/span>amata<\/span> porta su <\/span>problemi comuni<\/span> che molte coppie non dovrebbero mai sperimentare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al <\/span>fine giornata<\/span>, <\/span>amore a distanza<\/span> doesn’t provide you with that <\/span>faccia a faccia<\/span> che porta calore e sicurezza durante la <\/span>giorni difficili<\/span> e vi nutre durante quelle buone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono <\/span>lavoro duro<\/span> cos\u00ec com'\u00e8. Ma quando la vita vi porta a fare un viaggio lontano dal vostro <\/span>amata<\/span> (a volte anche a diversi <\/span>fusi orari<\/span>), mette alla prova tutto ci\u00f2 che voi e il vostro partner avete costruito.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s extremely emotionally exhausting, and most <\/i><\/b>a distanza<\/i><\/b><\/a> relazioni<\/i><\/b> don’t go the distance (pun intended), particularly for that reason. You need your partner right by your side. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sms<\/i><\/b> isn’t going to cut it when you’re balling your eyes out at midnight<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Telefonate<\/span> can’t replace the touch of your <\/span>altro significativo<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Guardare <\/span>Netflix<\/span> insieme su <\/span>Skype<\/span> diventa cos\u00ec triste, e il tuo <\/span>LDR<\/span> porta a tante cose ingiustificate <\/span>comunicazione errata<\/span> che si finisce per immaginare il proprio imminente <\/span>rottura<\/span><\/a> no matter how hard you’re fighting for your <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>relazione sana<\/span> doesn’t make you feel paranoid and lonely on a daily basis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma un partner a distanza potrebbe iniziare ad avere problemi di <\/span>possessivit\u00e0<\/span> when they can’t be there to <\/span>check-in<\/span> ogni giorno di persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per rendere il vostro <\/span>relazione a distanza funziona<\/span>\u00e8 necessario avere fiducia. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se il vostro <\/span>partner a distanza<\/span> can’t give you that, how long until many other <\/span>problemi di relazione a distanza<\/span> iniziare a tormentare il vostro amore?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo manca al vostro <\/i><\/b>Skype<\/i><\/b> Le sedute si trasformano in accese discussioni su ci\u00f2 che il vostro partner ha visto sul vostro <\/i><\/b>social media<\/i><\/b><\/a> ieri? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo prima <\/i><\/b>messaggi di testo<\/i><\/b> si trasforma in una conversazione passivo-aggressiva che iniziate a temere?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

How long until you realize you’re neglecting your <\/span>le proprie vite<\/span> while trying to salvage what’s left of your <\/span>LDR<\/span>? <\/span><\/p>\n

And before you know it, with tears streaming down your cheeks and barely being able to utter a word, you’re looking for a <\/span>via d'uscita<\/span>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

It shouldn’t be this hard. You love your significant other more than anything and you know you’re with the <\/span>persona giusta<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma come ha fatto a sottovalutare la gravit\u00e0 della distanza? Perch\u00e9 avete pensato che un <\/span>Data Skype<\/span> potrebbe sostituire completamente <\/span>contatto visivo e presenza fisica<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Credeva sinceramente che questo <\/span>sarebbe<\/span>‘t be happening? Were you naive to think that you two could survive this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Come farlo funzionare?<\/h2>\n

\"Quando<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, se l'amore \u00e8 cos\u00ec forte e appassionato come credete, non rinunciare<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le strade diventeranno dissestate, tutte le <\/span>LDR<\/span> problemi cominceranno a confonderti le idee, ma una <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> POTREBBE sopravvivere se voi due foste un fronte unito.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re willing to fight for each other, then all of these problems will be merely obstacles that can’t touch the bond of your commitment to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s foolish to think that you two are going to be the ones to break the mold. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not. Most people realize they’re in way over their heads within the first weeks of their <\/span>LDR<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you can’t make it. It only means you’re going to have to fight a little bit harder and stick by each other, no matter what your head tells you during the <\/span>giorni difficili<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Coppie a distanza<\/i><\/b> sono quelli con i lavori pi\u00f9 difficili. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They don’t have the warmth of their partner’s body keeping them feel safe and protected at night.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They can’t rush over to their partner in times of need and rest their head on their <\/span>amata<\/span><\/a>‘s chest.<\/span><\/p>\n

E non vedersi <\/span>faccia a faccia<\/span> diventa sempre pi\u00f9 impegnativo e frustrante ogni giorno che passa.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this is why you work on it twice as hard. This is why you tell your partner you love them even when your heart is breaking in two while saying it. You’ll be feeling sadness you didn’t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

One whole part of you will be far away and you’ll be the only one picking up your pieces. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this isn’t forever. Let that keep you sane during times when you want to explode. <\/span><\/p>\n

Potete salvare la vostra relazione e sopravvivere a questa situazione finch\u00e9 continuerete a mettere l'altro al primo posto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Combattete contro quei fastidiosi <\/i><\/b>fusi orari<\/i><\/b> e attenersi alla propria <\/i><\/b>Data Skype<\/i><\/b> notti. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Keep to your routine and remember that for as long as you persevere in this, you’re one step closer to a permanent solution.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ecco i pi\u00f9 <\/span><\/i>Problemi comuni nelle relazioni a distanza<\/span><\/i> che inizieranno ad insinuarsi in voi prima di quanto pensiate.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But if you’re ready to fight for <\/span><\/i>la tua persona<\/span><\/i><\/a>, you’ll find ways to make it work. Love as strong as yours deserves a fighting chance.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Mancanza di una comunicazione sana<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Comunicazione errata<\/span> \u00e8 uno dei maggiori ostacoli alla un successo <\/a><\/span>LDR<\/span>.  Sure, you’ve got your <\/span>Appuntamenti su Skype<\/span>, costante <\/span>sms<\/span> e comunicare attraverso <\/span>social media<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma nessuno vi dice che spesso le cose si perdono nella traduzione.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you don’t see your <\/span>amata<\/span> regolarmente, sviluppate questo meccanismo di difesa che vi aiuta a navigare in questa nuova realt\u00e0, ma vi rende anche paranoici e sospettosi. <\/span><\/p>\n

There doesn’t even have to be a legit reason for your anxiety, but it still happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il momento in cui ci si sfoga con il proprio <\/span>altro significativo<\/span> in un modo molto poco efficace, invece di condividere apertamente i vostri problemi. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s normal to feel a certain way and to get things stuck in your head that distance makes you believe are true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma spesso, invece di parlarne, si arriva a urla e dichiarazioni offensive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Invece di puntare il dito e attribuire colpe non necessarie, fate un respiro profondo, contate fino a tre e chiedete loro con gentilezza quali sono i problemi che vi preoccupano. <\/span><\/p>\n

If they said something you took the wrong way, don’t accuse them prematurely but rather ask them politely.<\/span><\/p>\n

”<\/span>Sorry, honey, I’m not sure what you meant by that, can you please repeat what you just said?<\/span><\/i>” is how you can put it, and <\/span>il vostro partner<\/span><\/a> will calmly explain what he said and it will all be resolved within seconds. Don’t attack \u2013 ask!<\/span><\/p>\n

If you forego communication right from the start, you’ve got nothing to go on. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'unico modo per sopravvivere \u00e8 parlare apertamente di tutto e non andare mai a letto arrabbiati. <\/span><\/p>\n

Air out all of your qualms and sleep knowing there’s someone out there wishing you were there.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You’re stuck in a rut<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> Se non si fa un discorso troppo lungo, con il tempo gli argomenti di conversazione inizieranno a sembrare sempre gli stessi discorsi aridi ogni giorno.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s no excitement, no novelty, just the same old things at the same time every day that you hope will help you keep your relationship on its feet. But it’s slowly making you feel like there’s nothing left to talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t actually BE with them, hug them, kiss them and feel safe around them, and it’s slowly killing your communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ci si stanca cos\u00ec tanto che si smette di provarci.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questi tipi di problemi sono molto comuni per un <\/span>LDR<\/span>. It’s still frustrating and saddening, though.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

First, you realize that it’s normal not wanting to talk every single day for hours and it’s totally expected to not have anything new to say all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn’t make it weird or worrying, it only means you’re human.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will be dry spells where you’ll talk every few days and there will be times when you’ll talk every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what happens in a relationship, so don’t worry about it. My suggestion is to write down everything you want to share as it comes to mind throughout the day so you don’t forget it!<\/span><\/p>\n

That way when they call you, you won’t be scratching your head wondering what it is you wanted to mention because you’ll have it right there. Help yourself not to forget anything and you’ll go to bed happier.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Impazienza<\/h2>\n

\"Donne<\/p>\n

When you’re in a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span>, la vostra pazienza inizia lentamente a esaurirsi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cose che prima erano l'ultima delle vostre preoccupazioni ora vi infastidiscono da morire. <\/span><\/p>\n

Normally, if your partner doesn’t reply immediately, you don’t even think about it because you know they’ll get back to you asap.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma in un <\/span>LDR<\/span>, you expect an answer immediately and if you don’t get it, you get anxious and start getting insane ideas in your head. <\/span><\/p>\n

What the hell are they doing that’s more important than getting back to you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Stanno scherzando? Sono stanchi di te? <\/span><\/i>sms<\/span><\/i> them? What\u2019s going on?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

That’s just your paranoia talking. You can’t see them, so your need for their presence is stronger than ever, which makes you go mad if they don’t reply promptly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Pensate alla radice del vostro problema. Quali sono le vostre aspettative? Hanno senso o state lasciando che <\/span>l'ansia<\/span><\/a> di avere la meglio su di te? <\/span><\/p>\n

Il vostro uomo vi sta davvero respingendo o siete semplicemente troppo impazienti e insicure per ragionare?<\/span><\/p>\n

La vostra incertezza sui loro sentimenti per voi sta facendo sembrare la cosa pi\u00f9 grande di quanto non sia in realt\u00e0? <\/span><\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 essere che la distanza vi renda bisognosi di una costante convalida e conferma del loro amore?<\/span><\/p>\n

Talk to your partner. Explain how hard it’s become for you to stay sane. Let them know that you really love it when they get back to you quickly because it puts your mind at ease. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if they can’t always talk, they can shoot a simple ”<\/span>Ti amo ma sono troppo occupato per parlare adesso. Ti chiamo pi\u00f9 tardi!<\/span><\/i>” and you’ll know everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Crescere a parte<\/h2>\n

\"Primo<\/p>\n

Just because you’re now in a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span>, it doesn’t mean your individual lives stop progressing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to go through life, accumulate new experiences, and fight your battles by yourself. Those things will change you in ways that will make you grow and drift apart from the person you used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

The same goes for your partner. His life will take him down a different path and who’s to say it won’t be as life-changing as yours might end up being? That’s just life.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the unfortunate thing is, all of this will be happening without them present, which will inevitably make you feel like you’re growing apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll both be in your own lane, not sure where your partner is headed, and that can cause emotional turmoil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Poich\u00e9 si tratta di uno dei pi\u00f9 grandi <\/span>LDR<\/span> assassini, prendetelo molto sul serio e lavorate su quanto segue. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantenete una comunicazione regolare e informatevi reciprocamente su tutto ci\u00f2 che accade, anche se apparentemente irrilevante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Discutete della vostra nuova sistemazione e di come vi fa sentire rispetto a dove vi sta portando il vostro viaggio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rimanete una squadra per tutto il tempo e fatevi visitare il pi\u00f9 possibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stick by each other and if your end goal is a future by each other’s side, keep each other in the loop and never let them question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Fusi orari diversi<\/h2>\n

\"Stile<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can personally do to change the fact that you live in different <\/span>fusi orari<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean it won’t become an issue at some point.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> for too long, it’s so easy to get annoyed at the smallest things, and this will become one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll get <\/span>stufi di<\/span><\/a> always having to talk very early in the morning or late at night. You’re either too tired to have a full-on convo or it’s too early for any type of conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi rendete conto che questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 per cui avete firmato. Quando avete accettato un <\/span>LDR<\/span>Sapevate dove stava andando il vostro partner (o voi stessi) e vi siete ripromessi di farlo funzionare. <\/span><\/p>\n

And now it’s time to accept this as a small sacrifice for your <\/span>altro significativo<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not easy for them either, you know? But if you want to remain in a happy, <\/span>relazione sana<\/span>\u00c8 necessario trovare un compromesso. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’d rather not talk to your SO at all than get up early to see them, then what’s the point?<\/span><\/p>\n

Long-distance is no picnic. Unless you’re ready to face the challenges, you’re only delaying the inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Mancanza di fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Normally, you’re not the type of person who gets paranoid for no reason and questions their partner’s loyalty for no valid reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this distance thing is making you turn into a crazy person. Suddenly you find yourself questioning your partner for every little thing and it’s driving you insane.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust is the basis for every relationship. Without it, it’s <\/span>lavoro duro<\/span> mantenere l'equilibrio. <\/span><\/p>\n

E un <\/span>amore a distanza<\/span> needs extra love and tenderness. Don’t let your <\/span>giorni difficili<\/span> trasformarti in un detective. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know what your partner’s role is in your life, so don’t let distance shake you up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Semplice. Fidatevi della persona che ha promesso di prendersi cura di <\/span>il vostro cuore.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If they weren’t trustworthy, you <\/span>sarebbe<\/span>‘t have even agreed to an <\/span>LDR<\/span> in primo luogo. A meno che il vostro partner non vi stia dando motivi concreti per diffidare di lui, abbiate fiducia in lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Distance can only separate you if you let it. Yes, physically you’re miles and miles away. But if you know that this is the <\/span>persona giusta<\/span> per voi, allora dovreste dargli pi\u00f9 credito. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s difficult for both of you. Don’t make it worse with unwarranted and misplaced outbursts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re both trying to stay in the same lane while being physically far away from each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust and effort are the only ways to make it go the distance. Don’t sabotage a good thing just because it’s getting challenging. Always keep the end goal in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Gelosia improvvisa<\/h2>\n

\"Primo<\/p>\n

You need your partner to function normally. When they’re away from you, it’s like one whole part of your body is missing and it’s affecting you in big ways.  <\/span><\/p>\n

And since you can’t rest your head on their shoulder while snuggled up in front of the TV anymore, you can’t help but wonder if someone else is.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know it’s crazy. You know there’s no basis for such thinking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma cos'altro dovresti fare se non creare queste versioni incasinate degli eventi nella tua testa?<\/span><\/p>\n

They’re not here to tell you that you’re being silly. They can’t kiss your forehead and soothe you with their presence. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now, all you have left is your jealousy and it’s eating you alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come risolvere il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Ricordate tutte le volte che il vostro partner vi ha dato motivo di fidarvi di lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

S<\/span>Non paragonate quello che avete (una relazione a lungo termine, significativa e con un futuro) a un'avventura superficiale che credete stia avendo il vostro partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Credete davvero che vi tradirebbero in questo modo? O state lasciando correre la vostra immaginazione? <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che vi capita di avere degli scatti di gelosia, fateli esplodere immediatamente e spostate la vostra attenzione su un pensiero pi\u00f9 positivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner is dealing with his own difficulties, so don’t add to them. Stop finding problems where there aren’t any. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smettete di curiosare e di cercare guai. Questo comportamento distruttivo finir\u00e0 per danneggiare il vostro <\/span>LDR<\/span> finch\u00e9 non si attiva la ragione e si disattiva la paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Ostruzionismo<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Relazioni a distanza<\/span> aren’t immune to <\/span>ostruzionismo<\/span><\/a> e altri atti simili di bisogno di controllo passivo-aggressivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m no stranger to such a thing, unfortunately. <\/span><\/p>\n

In case you weren’t sure what stonewalling means, it’s purposefully not answering texts or getting back to a person for a few days as a way of controlling the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s when one partner uses silence as a weapon in the most passive-aggressive way imaginable. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 accadere come risultato diretto di <\/span>comunicazione errata,<\/span> che non \u00e8 raro in <\/span>LDR<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di trovare la pazienza e cercare di capirli per rispondere, si ricorre a un completo silenzio radio che uccide lentamente l'altro partner all'interno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poi arriva il silenzio e l'intestino si agita ogni giorno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’re the partner who’s doing the stonewalling, ask yourself why. <\/span><\/p>\n

State cercando di far soffrire il vostro partner utilizzando questa tattica offensiva? Se lo meritano davvero? <\/span><\/p>\n

Or are you simply activating your defense mechanism and it’s making you do stuff like this because otherwise, you’re going to break?<\/span><\/p>\n

Trattamento silenzioso<\/a> non \u00e8 mai la risposta. Peggiora solo la situazione e fa sentire a entrambi che l'altro si sta allontanando.<\/span><\/p>\n

Communicate even when it’s the hardest. You’re going to thank yourself later.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’re the one who’s being stonewalled, text your partner how disappointed you are that they chose to go this route.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s hurtful and low and you deserve better. Nothing will ever work itself out without healthy communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll probably eventually realize this too and you’ll end up talking it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Tradimento in una relazione a distanza: 15 segni e modi per affrontarli<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"relazione<\/p>\n

This one’s for all the long-distance lovers out there. Nobody understands the burden you bear better than you and your <\/span>altro significativo<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti i problemi evidenziati in questa sede sono il risultato diretto della pressione esercitata da una <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> brings and the constant yearning for a partner who’s not there.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve found yourself in these, don’t let it get you down. I promise you, all long-distance lovers go through these at some point. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il trucco \u00e8 continuare a lottare anche quando si vuole farla finita.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s the distance talking. And if you let it win, you’re going to be even more miserable than you are now. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuare a lavorare. Combattete i problemi e cercate di trovare una via di mezzo, indipendentemente dalla questione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Appuntamenti su Skype<\/span> will be your best friend from now on. I know it’s not ideal and nothing can replace being able to hold your person in the flesh, but it’s the best thing you’ve got right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, where there’s a will, there’s a way. You can do this while knowing that this isn’t forever, that one day you’ll figure it all out. <\/span><\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be waking up next to each other and going to bed together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isn’t that all you really need to keep persevering in making this work? The distance only wins if YOU let it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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It’s a known fact that maintaining a long-distance relationship is a burden many are extremely hesitant to take on.  Preserving a romantic relationship over Skype with your loved one brings on common problems that many couples should never get to experience. At the end of the day, long-distance love doesn’t provide you with that face-to-face…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":48463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48452","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_656530654.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48452"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}