{"id":48759,"date":"2019-11-28T12:31:23","date_gmt":"2019-11-28T12:31:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48759"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:36:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:36:45","slug":"6-cose-che-dovreste-sapere-sui-narcisisti-introversi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-che-dovreste-sapere-sui-narcisisti-introversi\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose che dovreste sapere sui narcisisti introversi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sono certo che avete sentito parlare dei narcisisti che ci circondano. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also familiar with their manipulation techniques, the things they tend to do in order to destroy their victim\u2019s lives, and the emotional scars they leave on anyone they get their hands on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if you\u2019ve ever dealt with covert introvert narcissists, you know that this is an especially dangerous subtype of this personality disorder, which in some cases, at first glance bear no similarities to \u201cbasic\u201d narcissists. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco quindi le 6 cose pi\u00f9 importanti da sapere su questo sottotipo, che possono aiutarvi a riconoscerli in tempo e a gestirli con maggiore successo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Non hanno empatia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48760\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085.jpg\" alt=\"Concentrazione selettiva solitudine giovane donna asiatica seduta sul pavimento della camera da letto vicino al balcone. Depressione tristezza rottura ragazza adolescente asiatica seduta da sola abbracciando le ginocchia chiudendo gli occhi e pensando.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una delle prime (e allo stesso tempo peggiori) caratteristiche di questo sottotipo di narcisisti \u00e8 la loro totale mancanza di empatia. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non \u00e8 che queste persone siano solo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lui\/immature\/9-passi-per-affrontare-il-fidanzato-egoista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">egoista<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, egocentric, and look after their own needs, they are also completely indifferent to anyone else\u2019s emotions, suffering, or troubles, unless they affect them personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever doesn\u2019t directly influence a covert introvert narcissist is of no importance whatsoever for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece, si concentrano solo su se stessi, sul soddisfacimento dei propri desideri e sul fatto che le cose siano in perfetto ordine nel loro microcosmo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nonostante quello che sta succedendo nella vostra vita, i loro problemi sono sempre i peggiori e quelli che devono essere affrontati subito. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re the centre of their own universe and expect everyone else to treat them that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Ma sono estremamente sensibili<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazzo di colore che parla al telefono con emozione arrabbiata \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ironia della sorte, anche se i narcisisti introversi non hanno compassione per gli altri, si offendono quando assaggiano la loro stessa medicina e quando qualcuno inizia a trattarli nello stesso modo in cui loro trattano lui o lei. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anche se fanno del loro meglio per nasconderlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che queste persone sono estremamente sensibili e i loro sentimenti possono essere feriti in un batter d'occhio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, if you ever find yourself in any type of relationship with this kind of person, you\u2019ll be expected to walk on eggshells around them, while they\u2019re allowed to treat you the way they want.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, narcissists don\u2019t see these double standards they\u2019re trying to set as something troubling. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che sono e se qualcuno vuole un posto nella loro vita, deve solo affrontarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. They\u2019re passive aggressive<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che litiga seduta sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to many, the worst problem with handling a narcissist is the fact that they refuse to tell you when they\u2019re offended and hurt (despite these being the emotions they feel most of the time). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a covert introvert narcissist is bothered by something, they\u2019ll never put effort into resolving the problem the mature way, nor tell you what is wrong directly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al contrario, questa persona vi far\u00e0 il trattamento del silenzio, vi ignorer\u00e0 e applicher\u00e0 altri metodi di lavoro. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segnali-relazione-passiva-aggressiva\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">passivo aggressivo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tattica senza mai darvi una spiegazione o una chiusura adeguata. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Naturalmente, questo comportamento lascia la vittima in colpa e si chiede quale sia stato il suo errore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, a covert introvert narcissist thinks it is beneath them to face you and tell you that something you did got to them, because they\u2019re scared that if someone knows they can be influenced, it\u2019d give this person power over them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, they prefer holding grudges, acting like they\u2019re above the situation and completely unharmed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. They\u2019re indirectly superior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo di successo e di bell&#039;aspetto vicino all&#039;auto.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il pi\u00f9 comune <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-lui-presenta-questi-10-tratti-potreste-essere-vittima-del-suo-abuso-narcisistico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tratto di tutti i narcisisti<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is their superiority over others \u2013 or at least, their belief that they\u2019re the most important people in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Without any concrete reason, these people tend to think they\u2019re better than anyone else and are convinced that they\u2019re entitled to more than their victims.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, many narcissists don\u2019t hide the way they feel. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re completely open about the fact that, according to them, you\u2019re beneath them and that no one could ever reach their level.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, a covert introvert narcissist is different. This is a person who\u2019ll never directly insult you or tell you that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, far\u00e0 del suo meglio per farvi sentire cos\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll use every opportunity to humiliate you and make you feel bad about yourself in different sneaky ways, which makes you, as his victim, feel that much worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. They\u2019re paranoid<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48764\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di un uomo dalla barba brutale che cammina per strada. Giovane hipster elegante in posa, occhiali da sole, baffi, papillon, bretelle. Uomo d&#039;affari che guarda la macchina fotografica all&#039;aperto.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un'altra caratteristica di tutti i narcisisti occulti \u00e8 la paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sapete che tutti noi guardiamo le cose dal nostro punto di vista, aspettandoci che gli altri si comportino come noi?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, this is exactly what narcissists do as well. They don\u2019t trust anyone because they in turn know they\u2019re not trustworthy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They expect the worst from the people around them because they\u2019re aware of all the evil things they\u2019re capable of doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondo un narcisista introverso, tutti sono pronti a colpirlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Questa persona \u00e8 sempre all'erta perch\u00e9 \u00e8 convinta che anche le persone pi\u00f9 vicine possano inaspettatamente ferirlo e tradirlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His paranoja doesn\u2019t allow him to believe in anyone\u2019s honesty or good intentions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you treat him in the best way possible, he\u2019ll always second guess you and assume that there\u2019s some hidden agenda deeply rooted behind your behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Hanno bisogno di ammirazione e attenzione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia di successo che sorride, donna abbraccia uomo in interni, bokeh\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contrariamente al modo in cui si comportano, la verit\u00e0 che tutti i narcisisti introversi cercano di nascondere al resto del mondo (compresi loro stessi) \u00e8 che hanno bisogno di approvazione, ammirazione e attenzione da parte delle loro vittime. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In sostanza, quest'uomo rester\u00e0 al vostro fianco finch\u00e9 sapr\u00e0 di essere grande ai vostri occhi e voi vi innamorerete del suo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-sottili-segnali-di-manipolazione-in-una-relazione-di-coppia\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipolazioni<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though they\u2019re introverts by nature, ignoring them is what spiritually kills them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can\u2019t stand noticing that their actions have no impact whatsoever on their victims, and as soon as this happens, they move on in search for new prey.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, it appears that a narcissist has no real control over his victim \u2013 things just appear that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Instead, his victim is in charge of him because he\u2019s the one who is emotionally dependent on her reaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 cose che dovreste sapere sui narcisisti introversi\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m sure you heard about narcissists who are all around us. Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also familiar with their manipulation techniques, the things they tend to do in order to destroy their victim\u2019s lives, and the emotional scars they leave on anyone they get their hands on. However, if you\u2019ve ever dealt with covert&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":48766,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_228417220.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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