{"id":48868,"date":"2020-09-29T14:05:57","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T14:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48868"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:18","slug":"7-modi-per-lasciar-andare-qualcuno-che-ha-gia-lasciato-andare-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-per-lasciar-andare-qualcuno-che-ha-gia-lasciato-andare-te\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per lasciare andare qualcuno che ha gi\u00e0 lasciato andare te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lasciare andare qualcuno <\/a>you still love can be the hardest thing you\u2019ll ever do.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s what you actually need to do in order to move on and be happy. <\/p>\n

Prima di farlo, dovete pensare se \u00e8 quello che volete veramente e agire di conseguenza.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you and say that it won\u2019t hurt that much.<\/p>\n

Lo far\u00e0. Ma potete farcela.<\/p>\n

Se non siete sicuri di come iniziare, controllate alcuni dei seguenti elementi che potrebbero rendere l'intero processo molto pi\u00f9 semplice. <\/p>\n

Rimanete fermi sulla vostra decisione <\/h2>\n

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La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 attenersi fermamente alla propria decisione.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t say that you\u2019ll let go of someone one day and change your mind the next. <\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll just be hurting yourself more.<\/p>\n

Una volta capito che non si pu\u00f2 tornare indietro, dovreste bruciare tutti i ponti tra voi due.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa non avere contatti con quella persona. <\/p>\n

Non si controllano i loro siti di social media, non li si chiama e non si risponde ai loro messaggi.<\/p>\n

You should act like they don\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

Solo cos\u00ec potrete superarli senza ulteriori stress e sofferenze. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give second chances <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Le persone innamorate fanno cose folli.<\/p>\n

They do things that they never thought they\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

Si lasciano calpestare dagli altri in nome dell'amore.<\/p>\n

But what they don\u2019t see is that love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s supposed to make you feel good in your skin.<\/p>\n

Se non \u00e8 quello che sentite, allora dovreste lasciar perdere.<\/p>\n

Let it go and the only reason you should look back is to see how far you\u2019ve come. <\/p>\n

The golden rule is not giving second chances to people who don\u2019t deserve them.<\/p>\n

And please don\u2019t let nostalgia and some sweet memories make you feel differently. <\/p>\n

If you give a second chance to someone who doesn\u2019t respect you, you\u2019ll cry again over them, sooner or later.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should firmly decide that nothing will stop you from leaving them. <\/p>\n

Reagire alla situazione <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che possiate fare \u00e8 imbottigliare le vostre emozioni.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the last thing you should do.<\/p>\n

Se vi sentite in colpa, mostratelo.<\/p>\n

Fate le cose che volete fare.<\/p>\n

Se volete parlarne con qualcuno, fatelo.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to do that, take some time just for yourself. <\/p>\n

Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi fa sentire bene.<\/p>\n

Accept the fact that you\u2019ll feel differently each day<\/p>\n

Each day will be like a new chapter where you\u2019ll have to learn how to act.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll need to cope with the new situation and learn to live on your own. <\/p>\n

There\u2019ll be things that you\u2019ll change about yourself and you\u2019ll realize that you should\u2019ve made them earlier.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s all a part of the process and your new beginning. <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t stop loving someone overnight <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to still feel something for people who are no longer a part of your life, especially if they meant a lot to you.<\/p>\n

If you still love your ex, just know it\u2019s normal to feel like that. <\/p>\n

Superarli sar\u00e0 un processo lungo, ma che vale la pena di affrontare.<\/p>\n

Bisogna darsi il tempo di lasciare andare qualcuno, perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 una cosa che si fa in un minuto o due.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 durare settimane o mesi. <\/p>\n

And once you think you have completely let go of them, you\u2019ll realize you still have feelings for them.<\/p>\n

Quindi, concedetevi il tempo necessario per lasciarli andare.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 una cosa da fare in fretta.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something that needs to happen naturally.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only way it\u2019ll work out. <\/p>\n

Perdonate loro, ma perdonate anche voi stessi. <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa da fare \u00e8 perdonarli per andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Ma quando li perdonate, assicuratevi di perdonare anche voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Vi chiedete perch\u00e9? <\/p>\n

Dovreste perdonare voi stessi per esservi aggrappati a qualcosa che ha smesso di essere reale molto tempo fa.<\/p>\n

Perdonate voi stessi per tutte le volte in cui avete deciso di metterli al primo posto, per tutte le notti insonni e per essere stati dati per scontati. <\/p>\n

After that, forgive them for all the pain they caused you because that\u2019s the only way you\u2019ll be able to move on.<\/p>\n

And once you finally do that, you\u2019ll see that you are much better off without them. <\/p>\n

Circondatevi delle persone che amate <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Once you decide to let go of someone you love, you\u2019ll need all the support that you can get.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s really important to surround yourself with friends and family. <\/p>\n

They\u2019ll be with you so you don\u2019t think about your loss as much.<\/p>\n

They know what you\u2019re going through and they\u2019ll know how to act accordingly.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really nice to have good people when life is good but it\u2019s also important to have them when things aren\u2019t going well. <\/p>\n

State con loro, parlate e frequentateli.<\/p>\n

Trust me, that\u2019s the best way dimenticare qualcuno <\/a>and accept what\u2019s happening in your life. <\/p>\n

Essere abbastanza forti da andare avanti<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve gone through all the stages of the grieving process, you\u2019ll know how to move on.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really important that you do that without being involved in any kind of romantic relationship. <\/p>\n

If you try to find someone to give you comfort or to avoid being alone, you\u2019ll just be making a bigger mistake.<\/p>\n

But if you face your fear and reality alone, it\u2019ll make you stronger.<\/p>\n

Questa esperienza vi insegner\u00e0 che potete sempre contare su voi stessi e che dovete mettervi al primo posto.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be hard but it\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

Once you learn how to move on and when you finally learn how to be satisfied on your own, you\u2019ll be truly happy.<\/p>\n

And after the painful experience that you had, you\u2019ll learn not to make the wrong choices again or at least to recognize the red flags in case you end up with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

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