{"id":49009,"date":"2019-12-02T21:06:11","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T21:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49009"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:43:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:43:32","slug":"4-conseguenze-dellandare-avanti-prima-di-guarire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-conseguenze-dellandare-avanti-prima-di-guarire\/","title":{"rendered":"4 conseguenze dell'andare avanti prima di guarire"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si attraversa una rottura dolorosa, il desiderio numero uno \u00e8 quello di rimettersi in piedi e di continuare la propria vita il prima possibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Volete dimenticare tutto quello che \u00e8 successo, cancellare tutti i vostri ricordi dolorosi, rialzarvi e rendere il vostro cuore spezzato di nuovo intero.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s perfectly normal. After all, who enjoys being overwhelmed by sadness and having their life put on standby?<\/span><\/p>\n

Your desire to move on is actually a good thing \u2013 it means you still have hope for a better tomorrow and optimism to go back to your old self. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s dangerous to believe that things will be fixed and you\u2019ll recover overnight.<\/span><\/p>\n

Andare avanti troppo in fretta e cercare di farlo senza prima guarire pu\u00f2 causare pi\u00f9 danni che benefici.<\/span><\/p>\n

In effetti, ecco le conseguenze pi\u00f9 comuni che ci\u00f2 pu\u00f2 comportare.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. You complicate your life by jumping into a rebound relationship\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'errore numero uno che la maggior parte delle persone commette subito dopo una dolorosa rottura \u00e8 <\/span>lanciarsi troppo presto in una nuova relazione<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, ci sono situazioni in cui sostituire l'ex partner romantico con qualcuno di nuovo \u00e8 il miglior rimedio per il vostro cuore infranto e a volte pu\u00f2 essere il modo pi\u00f9 efficace per dimenticare il vostro ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, in most cases, people only deceive themselves, thinking they\u2019re completely ready to step into a new relationship, when they\u2019re actually nowhere near it. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, this kind of arrangement can only complicate your life further on and this is the last thing you need at this point \u2013 you already have too much weight on your back.<\/span><\/p>\n

As long as you don\u2019t care who your new boyfriend will be and are only concerned with getting yourself involved in a fresh relationship, it\u2019s more than an obvious sign that you\u2019re not in a search of a new love \u2013 you\u2019re looking for a rebound. <\/span><\/p>\n

Before you know it, you\u2019ll find yourself in a situationship you haven\u2019t thought through and have trouble getting out of.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of putting your entire focus on making yourself feel better and getting over your ex, whether you like it or not, you\u2019ll simply have to invest some energy in your new relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

This relationship can\u2019t have a future because it isn\u2019t built on a healthy foundation, which means a breakup is inevitable. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 qualcosa di cui avete davvero bisogno in questo momento?<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …which can be toxic<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, what\u2019s even worse than getting yourself involved in a <\/span>relazione di rimbalzo<\/span><\/a> that has no future is the fact that you lower your standards when you\u2019re trying to andare avanti troppo velocemente<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Volete trovare a tutti i costi un nuovo partner e l'unica cosa che vi interessa \u00e8 non rimanere soli, cosa che non potr\u00e0 mai portare nulla di buono nella vostra vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

This way, you can easily find someone who\u2019ll take advantage of your vulnerabilities and deepen your emotional wounds even more. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can find yourself stuck with a man who\u2019s wrong for you in more ways than one, but you\u2019ll fail to see that in time because your desire to move on right away has blindsighted you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, il bagaglio emotivo che vi portate dietro in questa relazione la rende tossica. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can never give your entire heart to this new person if you still have feelings for your ex. You can\u2019t give him your trust if you still have issues from your past. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t give him your undivided attention if your thoughts are elsewhere. You can\u2019t give him your entire self if parts of you are still trapped in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, this kind of arrangement is unfair towards your new boyfriend, who doesn\u2019t have a clue what he\u2019s facing but has to deal with your emotional baggage. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re leading him on and by doing so, you\u2019re becoming just like your ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You try healing in all the wrong ways\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La peggiore conseguenza del tentativo di <\/span>andare avanti<\/span><\/a> in an unhealthy way lies in all the things you actually do while you\u2019re subconsciously trying to heal. <\/span><\/p>\n

You engage in meaningless affairs, one night stands, in potentially dangerous sexual behavior\u2026 Not only that \u2013 there are some people who get themselves involved with drugs or other addictions.<\/span><\/p>\n

You might think that piling on the work or hitting the gym can\u2019t be bad, but that\u2019s also a form of destructive behavior if you overdo it and do it for all the wrong reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenersi occupati durante il processo di guarigione \u00e8 il consiglio numero uno che tutti gli esperti di appuntamenti vi daranno, ma dovete anche dedicare un po' di tempo a elaborare i vostri sentimenti invece di scappare da essi.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s clear that you\u2019re trying to repress your emotions and act like they don\u2019t exist. And we both know that\u2019s never a solution.<\/span><\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, questo tipo di comportamento pu\u00f2 causare pi\u00f9 danni a lungo termine di quanto si possa pensare, causando potenzialmente depressione, ansia e altri problemi di salute mentale.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …but your pain gets to you sooner or later<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

What everyone moving on without healing forgets is that you can\u2019t expect the pain and the <\/span>bagaglio emotivo<\/span><\/a> to magically disappear just because you decided to pretend it\u2019s not there. <\/span><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t erase them by burying them \u2013 in fact, you\u2019re just digging them deeper and with time, they\u2019ll become a part of you and start defining you as a person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, the point is that all of these issues and feelings will reappear on the surface when you least expect them to, after you think they\u2019re long gone. <\/span><\/p>\n

One day, they\u2019ll hit you out of nowhere and you won\u2019t know what happened.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che le emozioni negative si accumulano nel tempo se le ignoriamo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, the pain that\u2019ll catch up to you in the future will be much more intense than it is now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sooner or later, your past demons will come knocking on your door to remind you of the things you owe them \u2013 to destroy the happiness it took you so long to build.<\/span><\/p>\n

And when that happens, they\u2019ll be so strong and so close that there\u2019ll be no point in trying to escape them.<\/span><\/p>\n

In a nutshell, there\u2019s no need for you to play all tough because repressing your emotions actually only makes you a coward. <\/span><\/p>\n

Invece, affrontarli per tempo e fare le cose in modo sano, un passo alla volta, \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che fa di voi una persona matura e forte.<\/span><\/p>\n

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