{"id":49018,"date":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49018"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","slug":"uscire-con-qualcuno-con-figli-9-consigli-per-uscire-con-un-genitore-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-qualcuno-con-figli-9-consigli-per-uscire-con-un-genitore-single\/","title":{"rendered":"Uscire con qualcuno con figli: 9 consigli per uscire con un genitore single"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una delle domande pi\u00f9 importanti che tutti noi ci poniamo \u00e8 se vogliamo o meno dei figli. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alcuni di voi sognano di avere una casa piena di bambini e pensano che essere genitori sia l'unica cosa che d\u00e0 uno scopo alla vostra esistenza. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, there are some people who simply don\u2019t see themselves as good parents and who have no desire to acquire that role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, the choice is all yours and your partner\u2019s. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, cosa succede quando, all'improvviso, un nuovo bambino entra a far parte della vostra famiglia? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vita familiare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even though you probably still didn\u2019t have plans on becoming a parent?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens when you meet someone who is already a parent, while you\u2019re child-free? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo tipo di relazione pu\u00f2 funzionare e come si fa a trarne il meglio?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014dating is chaotic and hard but dating someone with children is even more challenging. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, ci sono alcune cose da tenere a mente prima di prenderla in considerazione: ecco le pi\u00f9 importanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg\" alt=\"famiglia felice\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Uscire con qualcuno che ha figli: pro e contro<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si fa una nuova esperienza di vita<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si finisce per ricevere un sacco di amore sincero<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Metti alla prova il tuo carattere<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ci si prepara al ruolo di genitore&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si ottiene molto meno <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo da soli<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con il vostro partner<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 una prova della vostra pazienza e <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-segnali-rivelatori-che-non-sei-mentalmente-forte-ma-ti-stai-solo-comportando-da-duro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">forza mentale<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porta molto stress<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It causes you more problems than a \u2018regular\u2019 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova relazione<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>9 cose da tenere a mente prima di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-da-tenere-a-mente-quando-si-esce-con-un-uomo-con-figli\/\">Uscire con un genitore single&nbsp;<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1. I bambini sono un pacchetto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg\" alt=\"famiglia che gioca insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-300x252.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alcuni dei pi\u00f9 importanti <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consigli per gli incontri<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you mustn\u2019t forget when you consider a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-fattori-di-rottura-per-evitare-di-iniziare-una-nuova-relazione\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova relazione<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uscire con qualcuno che ha un figlio in arrivo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) \u00e8 che non si ottiene mai un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; i loro figli arrivano sempre nel pacchetto, che vi piaccia o no. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non importa quanti anni abbiano i loro figli, essi rimarranno sempre la parte pi\u00f9 importante di loro e se decidete di condividere la vostra vita con questa persona, anche questi figli diventeranno parte di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">frequentare una persona con un figlio con bisogni speciali<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (for example, if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">frequentare una persona con un figlio affetto da sindrome di Down<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or some other mental or physical disability); this kid will need their parent\u2019s help and guidance for the rest of their life and that is simply something you have to accept.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re in the initial stages of your relationship and if you still haven\u2019t met the kids; just because they\u2019re not physically present in front of you every day, it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it certainly doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll manage to \u2018get rid\u2019 of them in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un milione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> anni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 vero che si tratta di una responsabilit\u00e0 enorme, ma \u00e8 anche qualcosa a cui dovete pensare subito, prima che le cose si facciano serie. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, nobody knows what will happen and whether your relationship will work out but you need to figure out whether you\u2019re ready to become a potential <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore adottivo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o non subito.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t worry\u2014nobody will judge you if you realize you\u2019re not cut out for something like this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inoltre, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 onesto dire <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la verit\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> subito dopo il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primo appuntamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (o alcuni messaggi scambiati su un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">incontri online<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sito) piuttosto che tirarsi indietro in una fase successiva del processo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. It won&#8217;t be easy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ogni pezzo di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consigli per gli incontri<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vi dir\u00e0 che essere in un&nbsp; <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-cose-che-fara-solo-se-siete-impegnati-in-una-relazione-seria\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione impegnata<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 difficile. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Richiede molti dubbi su se stessi e ancora pi\u00f9 pazienza ed energia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s face it\u2014maintaining a healthy romantic relationship with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is hard enough, let alone when there are children involved. However, it doesn\u2019t make it impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 sufficiente essere perfettamente consapevoli di tutto ci\u00f2 che si \u00e8 sottoscritto. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ricordate di essere sempre solidali, comprensivi e di mantenere i nervi calmi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, nobody forced you to get yourself involved in this and now it\u2019s your chance to play your cards right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ec, ci saranno momenti in cui desidererete non esservi mai trascinati in questo pasticcio. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moments when you\u2019ll want to give up and run for your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, on the other hand, when the beautiful times come and when the sun starts to shine again, you\u2019ll see that all of the hardships were worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Il vostro partner \u00e8 stato ferito nella sua precedente relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste in panchina\" width=\"800\" height=\"551\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-768x529.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter whether this person you\u2019ve started dating was officially married or this kid was born in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione precedente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014the bottom line is the same; they\u2019ve been through a lot. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ve experienced a nasty divorce or a painful break-up and something like that would leave a mark on anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, ogni rottura di un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione impegnata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 difficile. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra la perdita di una persona che si amava e il ritorno alla vecchia vita. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-vita-da-single-non-ha-scelto-ha-scelto-la-vita-da-single\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vita da single<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> subito dopo e ritrovarsi con un essere umano completamente nuovo di cui doversi occupare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person wasn\u2019t only heartbroken and abandoned\u2014they also developed serious trust issues and emotional traumas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, il loro partner, che aveva promesso di rimanere per sempre nella loro vita, li ha lasciati, quindi \u00e8 naturale che abbiano difficolt\u00e0 a far entrare qualcuno di nuovo nel loro cuore, senza aspettarsi lo stesso risultato.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, they are probably over everything that happened by now but that doesn\u2019t make them emotionally baggage-free. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That doesn\u2019t mean their pain is wiped away or that they can live as if these painful experiences never happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, bisogna ricordare che tutto questo li ha resi molto pi\u00f9 forti di tutti gli altri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They didn\u2019t have time to grieve or feel sorry for themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In effetti, l'intero processo di guarigione \u00e8 stato molto diverso da quello di una semplice rottura.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They couldn\u2019t focus on the pain they were feeling because they had to put all of their energy into dragging their kid out of all this unharmed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person didn\u2019t just manage to repair their broken heart\u2014they also raised a child in the process, which is worthy of admiration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t be surprised by their strength of character when you notice it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The hell they\u2019ve been through toughened them up and if their inner power intimidates you, it is time to rethink your choices.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Devi comportarti come un adulto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg\" alt=\"donna in rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'ultima cosa che qualsiasi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vuole \u00e8 un altro figlio che devono crescere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> They don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t know what they want or a person who will bring unnecessary drama into their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cosa <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ci-vuole-un-uomo-forte-per-conquistare-il-cuore-di-una-mamma-single\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mamme single<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I pap\u00e0 e le mamme cercano un adulto che sia il loro partner in tutti i sensi. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vogliono qualcuno che sia alla loro altezza, che abbia la capacit\u00e0 di attraversare la vita fianco a fianco con loro, invece di un bambino immaturo e viziato che si aspetta costantemente di essere guidato da loro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pertanto, se si considera <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">frequentare una persona con un figlio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, devi riconsiderare la tua maturit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sei in grado di essere un adulto o ti aspetti che qualcuno ti faccia da bambino?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Don&#8217;t rush things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg\" alt=\"incontri di coppia\" width=\"800\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-768x492.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Di pi\u00f9 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un buon consiglio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 quello di prendere le cose con calma e di rispettare sempre questa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019s personal boundaries. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Attenzione al fatto che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mamme single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and dads can\u2019t afford to get themselves in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione a lungo termine<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with just about anyone overnight and if you\u2019re not ready to give them the time you need, it is better to walk away right away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questa persona dovr\u00e0 valutare la vostra personalit\u00e0 su pi\u00f9 livelli. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-che-dovrebbero-accadere-prima-di-impegnarsi-con-un-ragazzo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prima di impegnarsi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a voi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avete forza di carattere? Dove sta andando la vostra vita e come influirete su di essa? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siete abbastanza seri da fare importanti progetti per il futuro? Oppure vivete la vostra vita giorno per giorno, seguendo la corrente?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siete responsabili? Mantenete le vostre promesse?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 noto per essere un piantagrane? Sei finanziariamente stabile o intendi vivere di rendita?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sareste un buon modello di comportamento per i vostri <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s child<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Sei una persona che potrebbe essere un buon <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">matrigna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o patrigno dei loro figli?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questi sono tutti i dilemmi che ogni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> deve affrontare prima di iniziare qualcosa di serio. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, the last thing they plan on doing is bringing someone who can\u2019t be trusted into their children\u2019s lives, without doing a detailed background check on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, don\u2019t rush things when it comes to getting to know your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">figliastri<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Their parent will know when it is the right time to take such a huge step and you can\u2019t expect it to happen after the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primo appuntamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o qualche messaggio scambiato su un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">incontri online<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sito.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Don&#8217;t expect them to put you in first place<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg\" alt=\"donna con vista incredibile\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una delle cose che molte persone che sono in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazioni a lungo termine<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mamme single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e i pap\u00e0 fanno pi\u00f9 fatica ad accettare il fatto che non avranno mai <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primo posto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their partner&#8217;s life, as much as they love them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is simply a fact that you can\u2019t change (and shouldn\u2019t even want to) and something you have to deal with from the very start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019ll be <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-segnali-che-indicano-che-siete-stati-trascurati-emotivamente-da-bambini-e-come-questo-si-ripercuote-su-di-voi-oggi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">trascurato emotivamente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o ignorati in questo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ma \u00e8 necessario sapere che i loro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I bambini vengono prima di tutto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a prescindere da tutto. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They will always love them more, take care of them more and put their needs in front of your relationship\u2019s well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t get all surprised when, for example, they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-qualcuno-cancella-i-piani-allultimo-minuto\/\">annullare i piani al <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-qualcuno-cancella-i-piani-allultimo-minuto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ultimo minuto<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because one of the children got a fever or when they don\u2019t answer your text at the exact moment you sent it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t freak out when your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s children<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> unirsi a voi durante qualche romantico <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo da soli<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you\u2019ve planned, simply because they couldn\u2019t find a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">babysitter<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in tempo (o se il loro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">babysitter<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> li ha messi in piedi al <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ultimo minuto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To put things simply, don\u2019t expect to have a full-time boyfriend or girlfriend who will only be dedicated to your relationship because, whether you like to hear this or not, there is always something going on in their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they\u2019re also thinking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">frequentare qualcuno con un figlio disabile<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hanno in mente che hanno <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un milione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> responsibilities you know nothing about and that in the back of their mind, there is always a part of them worrying about their kid\u2019s health and future.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Don&#8217;t interfere with their parenting methods<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49025\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg\" alt=\"ma con un bambino\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite the fact that you\u2019re in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione seria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con il proprio partner, un pezzo di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un buon consiglio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not to forget that you\u2019re still not a part of this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">famiglia mista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il che significa che non avete il diritto di intromettervi in alcuni aspetti della loro vita. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vita familiare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo vale soprattutto per le interferenze con i loro metodi genitoriali.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quello che bisogna ricordare \u00e8 che questi bambini hanno un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mamma e pap\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e non \u00e8 compito vostro allevarli. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you can help your partner when they ask you to but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to make some important decisions regarding these <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Molti <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">matrigne<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e patrigno commettono l'errore di essere troppo amichevoli nei confronti dei loro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">figliastri<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensando che questo sia un modo sicuro per arrivare al loro cuore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though becoming pals with these children is awesome, that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re entitled to skip the rules their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mamma e pap\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> imposto, solo per apparire pi\u00f9 cool o per dimostrare il vostro amore per loro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, you don\u2019t have the right to punish or discipline them in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Infatti, se vedete che si comportano in modo inappropriato, che fanno qualcosa di proibito o che vi trattano con mancanza di rispetto, \u00e8 vostro compito informare i loro genitori e loro prenderanno in mano la situazione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your views on your partner\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/questo-metodo-e-indispensabile-quando-si-e-genitori-con-un-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">metodi genitoriali<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> non sono rilevanti. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you can always offer them your advice but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to question their child-rearing strategies or to judge them because you think you would do something better.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. You&#8217;ll have to deal with their ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oltre a ottenere un intero <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">offerta pacchetto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which includes your partner&#8217;s kids, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la verit\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is that you\u2019ll also get their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex moglie<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o marito, in un modo o nell'altro. Dopo tutto, loro due sono <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">co-genitorialit\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> insieme e questa persona \u00e8 ancora una parte inevitabile della loro vita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'ultima cosa che dovreste mostrare \u00e8 una stupida gelosia nei confronti del vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new partner\u2019s ex-wife<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o marito pensando che tra i due ci sia ancora qualcosa. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have in mind that they will be these kids\u2019 parents for the rest of their lives, even when their kids become <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adulti<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that you won\u2019t get rid of your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s ex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> presto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, I\u2019m sure you also think that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I bambini vengono prima di tutto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e che anche voi volete il meglio per queste creature innocenti. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siete perfettamente consapevoli che una sana <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/family\/5-consigli-di-successo-per-la-co-genitorialita-con-un-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">co-genitorialit\u00e0<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 la cosa che aiuter\u00e0 questo bambino a crescere come la migliore persona possibile, quindi chi sei tu per dire qualcosa contro?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Se si abbandona, si abbandona anche il bambino<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg\" alt=\"famiglia nel bosco\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciare una persona che si ama \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili che ognuno di noi ha dovuto fare. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, allontanarsi da pi\u00f9 persone che amate (e che vi amano a loro volta) \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 difficile, soprattutto se una di queste persone \u00e8 un bambino a cui vi siete affezionati.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo \u00e8 un altro aspetto di cui \u00e8 necessario essere consapevoli prima di farsi coinvolgere da un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">genitore single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014if you leave, you\u2019re not only abandoning your lover, you\u2019re also abandoning a child who embraced you into their life and who accepted you a part of their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">famiglia mista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that\u2014you&#8217;re also leaving a void in this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e dell'anima.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-forzata\/\">costretti a rimanere in una relazione<\/a> that doesn\u2019t work just because of the kids; I\u2019m just pointing out that ending a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione seria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> porta con s\u00e9 pi\u00f9 responsabilit\u00e0 di quanto non faccia una normale rottura.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, this situation would be more painful for you as well, because you won\u2019t only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/160-citazioni-emotive-mi-manchi-per-lui-e-per-lei-da-inviare-alla-persona-amata\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sentire la mancanza del proprio fidanzato o della propria fidanzata<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014you\u2019ll also miss the kids.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-49028\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uscire con qualcuno con figli: 9 consigli per uscire con un genitore single\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most important questions all of us face is whether we want kids or not. There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best. Some of you dream of having a house full of children and think&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":49029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/affection-baby-baby-girl-beautiful-377058.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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