{"id":49074,"date":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49074"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","slug":"non-inviare-quel-messaggio-di-buon-natale-al-tuo-ex-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-inviare-quel-messaggio-di-buon-natale-al-tuo-ex-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Non inviate quel messaggio di \"buon Natale\" al vostro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La nostalgia sta prendendo il sopravvento e la vostra mente e il vostro cuore continuano a tornare a quel luogo felice che condividevate con il vostro ex.<\/p>\n<p>State pensando al calore di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/4-cose-possono-trovare-gli-abbracci-dei-ragazzi\/\">il suo abbraccio stretto<\/a>Voi due accoccolati davanti alla TV a guardare un film di Natale.<\/p>\n<p>You miss him, you miss all those moments of pure joy and you keep forgetting that it wasn\u2019t all that perfect.<\/p>\n<p>All you want to do is reach out and make contact and you think a Merry Christmas text gives you the perfect excuse to casually start the conversation off and maybe even fix what\u2019s already broken.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t do that.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Don\u2019t send that \u201cMerry Christmas\u201d text because he isn\u2019t worth it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> He isn\u2019t worth a minute of your time or efforts. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Avete una fantasia perfetta su come avverr\u00e0 la messaggistica.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108757\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che guarda il telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Scrivete qualcosa di accattivante e sentito e augurate a lui e alla sua famiglia un buon Natale.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, vi aspetterete da lui la migliore reazione possibile al vostro testo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Vi aspetterete di ricevere lo stesso calore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Vi aspetterete che vi dica che gli mancate, che ora sa che \u00e8 stato un gigantesco idiota e che ha fatto il pi\u00f9 grande errore della sua vita quando si \u00e8 allontanato da voi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Purtroppo, le possibilit\u00e0 che questo scenario si realizzi sono scarse o nulle.<\/p>\n<p>At best, you will get \u201cThanx.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nel peggiore dei casi, verrete ignorati.<\/p>\n<p>In ogni caso, far\u00e0 un male cane.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow him to make you feel small once more.<\/p>\n<p>Attenersi al <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/recupero-della-rottura-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto-per-90-giorni\/\">regola del divieto di contatto <\/a>e non romperlo mai.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata in piedi accanto alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Ricordate, ha avuto la sua occasione, ha avuto tutte le occasioni del mondo per essere l'uomo che meritate e le ha sprecate tutte. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pensate a tutte le volte che vi ha fatto un torto.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate a quanto vi ha deluso anche prima della vostra rottura.<\/p>\n<p>It was all one-sided, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Sei stata tu a fare tutti gli sforzi, a iniziare conversazioni e messaggi, a fare progetti e a fare l'impossibile per renderlo felice e far s\u00ec che ti ami di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>So, whenever you want to text him, whether it\u2019s Christmas or not, keep in mind that you don\u2019t actually miss him, you miss the person you created him to be in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Il vero lui non ha nulla a che vedere con la vostra versione edulcorata di lui.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t even have the potential of becoming that man one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Si pu\u00f2 fare molto meglio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Molto, molto meglio. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t you ever forget that for a second! <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Spostare l'attenzione su se stessi e diventare il meglio che si possa sognare di essere.<\/p>\n<p>Guardate dentro di voi, guardate la persona che siete veramente e rendetevi conto una volta per tutte che meritate una persona migliore.<\/p>\n<p>Siete degni di essere amati.<\/p>\n<p>Siete degne di un uomo che voglia stare con voi in ogni momento e che vi tratti nel modo in cui meritate di essere trattate.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quindi, con il Natale alle porte, prendete la ferma decisione di non mandare messaggi di buon Natale o di buone feste al vostro ex. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Above all, respect yourself and don\u2019t sell yourself short.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si gode lo spirito natalizio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg 5000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu sei degna del vero amore, non dell'impegno a met\u00e0 che ti stava dando.<\/p>\n<p>Sii pi\u00f9 forte della tua nostalgia e dei tuoi sentimenti e fermati ogni volta che ti viene voglia di mandargli un messaggio.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete il vostro ex per quello che \u00e8 e non per quello che vorreste che fosse.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta fatto questo, vedrete che non \u00e8 l'uomo con cui dovreste passare la vostra vita per sempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t send that text, don\u2019t make that call, don\u2019t browse through his social media, kick him out of your life and he will, with time, disappear from your heart too. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non contattate pi\u00f9 nessuno durante le vacanze e garantitevi un inizio pulito, sereno e pi\u00f9 felice per il nuovo anno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108754\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non inviate quel messaggio di &quot;buon Natale&quot; al vostro ex\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nostalgia is getting the best of you and your mind and your heart keep going back to that happy place you and your ex used to share. You are thinking about the warmth of his tight hug, you two cuddled up in front of the TV watching a Christmas movie. You miss him, you miss&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":108767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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