{"id":4912,"date":"2020-08-13T08:33:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T08:33:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4912"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:38:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:38:26","slug":"ragazzo-ha-ringraziato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazzo-ha-ringraziato\/","title":{"rendered":"Al ragazzo che ha rinunciato a me, grazie"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi sono fatto credere che tutto il mio mondo gira intorno a te. Mi sono convinto che senza di te non ci sono io. Che senza di te non ero niente.<\/p>\n

Ho creduto che tu fossi un eroe intrappolato in un essere umano. Ho creduto che tu potessi guarirmi. Pensavo che tu potessi far sparire il mio passato<\/a>, that you can make everything that\u2019s bad about me disappear.<\/p>\n

I believed you\u2019re my other half and that with finding you, I got everything I needed to get from this life.<\/p>\n

I actually believed if I made you love me, if I could convince you I\u2019m worthy, you\u2019d never give up on me. And then I\u2019d finally be capable of loving myself too.<\/p>\n

Ma, Dio, mi sbagliavo di grosso.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t convince somebody to love you, and most definitely, self-love has nothing to do with love other people give us.<\/p>\n

When you left, you took my hopes with you. You\u2019ve should fixed me, but you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You should\u2019ve made everything that\u2019s bad in my life disappear, but instead, you were the one that disappeared.<\/p>\n

Quando te ne sei andato, non avevo pi\u00f9 un muro a cui appoggiarmi. Non avevo nulla per cui essere forte.<\/p>\n

Mi sono sentita pi\u00f9 spaventata di quando avevo te. Hai gi\u00e0 aggiunto un'altra crepa in quel vetro rotto.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that by leaving me, you made me open my eyes. When you left, I was left alone.<\/p>\n

Soon, I came to realize that the strong wall which you represented for me, on which I was constantly leaning, wasn’t actually something that was holding me from falling down.<\/p>\n

Era qualcosa a cui ero incatenato e che mi rendeva incapace di muovermi. Fare affidamento su di te era qualcosa che mi bloccava.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, quando tu sei andato avanti, ho sfidato anche me stesso ad andare avanti. Quando hai rinunciato a me, ho deciso di lottare per me stessa.<\/p>\n

I am pushing my limits to see what I\u2019m made of. I\u2019m learning that I\u2019m more than fine the way I am and that I don\u2019t need anybody to fix me.<\/a> I\u2019m learning that I need time to allow myself to heal and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m learning to love myself.<\/a> I\u2019m learning to forgive my past, and I\u2019m learning slowly to move forward.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

I\u2019m allowing myself to be single and to enjoy it. I\u2019m allowing myself to make peace with who I am.<\/p>\n

You giving up on me was the moment I decided to stop giving up on myself. It was the moment when I decided to fight for myself\u2014the very moment when I decided I am worthy no matter what you or anybody else said or will say.<\/p>\n

I survived the thing I thought would kill me. And therefore, if you ever think of reaching out again or saying you\u2019re sorry, there is no need.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned not to hold grudges and to convert each event in my past into a life lesson.<\/p>\n

Ho anche imparato a non guardare indietro. Siete il capitolo del mio libro che ho gi\u00e0 letto.<\/p>\n

There is no need to go back or re-read it\u2014I think I made the best of it.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Grazie per non aver risposto al telefono quando ho chiamato<\/a><\/p>\n

\"AL<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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