{"id":4932,"date":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4932"},"modified":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","slug":"lettera-aperta-la-ragazza-ha-smesso-di-amare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-aperta-la-ragazza-ha-smesso-di-amare\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera aperta alla ragazza che ha smesso di amare se stessa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei una ragazza che continuer\u00e0 a dare finch\u00e9 non avr\u00e0 pi\u00f9 nulla.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014<\/span>VOI. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Le persone pensano di poterti calpestare perch\u00e9 non hai stima di te stesso. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think that you are doing good by giving all the love you have to others, that love is not sincere. It can\u2019t be, and it won\u2019t be until you<\/span> imparare ad amare se stessi.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Dopo aver imparato ad amare e apprezzare se stessi, l'amore per le persone a cui si tiene sar\u00e0 puro e onesto.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard for you to put a stop to everything all of a sudden, but don\u2019t let le persone ti usano.<\/a> People are a-holes, at least most of them. They will use any opportunity they get to suck you dry. If you are a good person, and you are, they will destroy you. They will be needing more and more each day\u2014<\/span>fino a non avere pi\u00f9 nulla da dare loro. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t let everyone else be better and more important than you. Nessuno ha il diritto di controllare la vostra vita.<\/a> Volete invecchiare e rimpiangere di aver permesso agli altri di spingervi dietro le quinte della vostra vita, quando il vostro posto \u00e8 in prima linea sul palcoscenico?  <\/span><\/p>\n

In your life, you are the most important\u2014you are playing the starring role and the world revolves around you. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to say, \u2018No\u2019. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You will not let anybody down if you don\u2019t jump to grant their every wish. If you don\u2019t feel like going out and if you feel like staying home\u2014stay at home. After all, if any of those people were your true friends, they would get it. But, no, these are the leeches who need your energy to feed off of. Otherwise, they would die.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that you need to take care of yourself. It\u2019s perfectly ok to just stop and rewind yourself. Reconsider some things. Find those that really matter to you because after all, you matter. Don\u2019t forget that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate soli e amate prima di tutto voi stessi. Tutto il resto torner\u00e0 al suo posto.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> A tutte le ragazze: Innamorati prima di tutto di te stessa<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are a girl who will continue giving until she has got nothing left. You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014YOU. People think they can walk all over you because you lack self-appreciation. Although you think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":4933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/kristina-flour-185595.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}