Come i narcisisti trattano le loro ex: 12 modi spudorati<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\nYou will\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n
Sentirsi come Alice nel Paese delle Meraviglie.<\/b> Every new (usually normal) feeling is strange. You feel like you don\u2019t deserve this. After some time of maltreatment, you got used to it. You got used to feeling subordinate to your partner.<\/p>\n
Now that your luck has changed, you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. These new feelings you are experiencing are frightening you because they are not abuse, they are love and you don\u2019t know love.<\/p>\n
Dubitare del suo comportamento.<\/b> Not a day passes by that you don\u2019t suspect things are going to change\u2014that all this nice behavior is just a facade.<\/p>\n
Il ragazzo che vi ha fatto dubitare di tutti e di tutto, all'inizio si comportava in modo gentile e premuroso. Poi, improvvisamente, tutto \u00e8 cambiato.<\/p>\n
So it\u2019s completely natural for you to think this one is going to do the same. You are just waiting for the storm that will bring dark clouds to your relationship to happen.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t hope for the better because you never saw anything but misery. But this time it\u2019s different. Just wait and see.<\/p>\n
Sentirsi confusi<\/b> because your voice is finally being heard. There is actually someone by your side who is interested in what you\u2019ve got to say.<\/p>\n
No one is ignoring you or shushing you. It\u2019s not easy to switch yourself over to that mode.<\/p>\n
Dopo tanto tempo in cui siete state trattate come una merda, finalmente riceverete tutto l'amore e il rispetto che meritate. Il vostro nuovo uomo si preoccuper\u00e0 delle cose che avete da dire, perch\u00e9 si preoccupa veramente di voi.<\/p>\n
Non essere incolpati<\/b> for all the bad stuff that happens in your relationship. You won\u2019t be his punching bag every time he feels like crap. He won\u2019t blame you just because he is unhappy with himself.<\/p>\n
Prima, tutto ci\u00f2 che accadeva di negativo era in qualche modo colpa vostra e, dopo qualche tempo, avete iniziato a crederlo.<\/p>\n
In realt\u00e0 ti sei data la colpa dei suoi errori e del suo comportamento crudele. Ora le cose non stanno cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve met someone who is responsible enough to admit when he is wrong.<\/p>\n
He is man enough to own up to his mistakes, and that\u2019s something you thought you were never going to see.<\/p>\n
Essere reintrodotti al compromesso.<\/b> When a narcissist says something, it\u2019s going to be that way and no other way. You didn\u2019t have the right to propose anything.<\/p>\n
Se era dell'umore giusto per fare qualcosa, bisognava farlo, e nessuno ti chiedeva nulla.<\/p>\n
After you\u2019ve set yourself free from this suffocating and destructive relationship, a man who knows how to take your opinion into consideration comes along.<\/p>\n
Vi insegner\u00e0 cos'\u00e8 il compromesso e com'\u00e8 una relazione sana e felice, perch\u00e9 non avete mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di impararlo.<\/p>\n
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Tutto ci\u00f2 che hai imparato \u00e8 stato ignorare gli insulti e il dolore che ti provocava.<\/p>\n
Abituatevi a tutta la gentilezza.<\/b> L'egoismo \u00e8 stata l'unica cosa che ha conosciuto e sperimentato nella sua precedente relazione. Si trattava sempre di lui.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve been introduced to kindness and sharing\u2014it should have been like that from the start.<\/p>\n
Potrebbe essere difficile per voi abituarvi, ma \u00e8 cos\u00ec che dovrebbe essere l'amore. Dovrebbe essere una strada a doppio senso e non un vicolo cieco.<\/p>\n
Not hear \u2018I\u2019 and \u2018me\u2019 all the time<\/b>. Your new boyfriend is well aware of the things you\u2019ve been through but he will never make everything just about him.<\/p>\n
He will listen to what you\u2019ve got to say because he genuinely cares about your opinion.<\/p>\n
He loves you and he cares about what his better half has got to say, unlike in the past where it was all about one person\u2014the sneaky narcissist.<\/p>\n
Hear \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019.<\/b> Fino a questo punto, l'unico che si \u00e8 scusato \u00e8 stato lei.<\/p>\n
The narcissist made you think you were to blame for everything, so you apologized for everything, all the time\u2014the things that you did and didn\u2019t do because you were afraid of the confrontations and arguments.<\/p>\n
Ammettendo di aver fatto qualcosa di sbagliato, speravate che lui lasciasse perdere, ma non l'ha mai fatto.<\/p>\n
He dragged you in even deeper. Well, things are different now. You will be left in a state of shock when he apologizes the first time, but it\u2019s true, it\u2019s from the heart.<\/p>\n
Real men own up to their mistakes; they don\u2019t hide and blame others like those cowards do.<\/p>\n
Non essere manipolati.<\/b> There is no more of that feeling of accidentally saying something wrong and then BOOM!\u2014a fight breaks out all of a sudden. You can finally relax and trust your partner.<\/p>\n
Maybe not at first, but as soon as you realize he\u2019s not like that manipulative piece of s**t, you are going to look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n
But if you want to do all these things, you have to get rid of the fear and let him find a way to your heart, you have to let him heal you and show you things you haven\u2019t seen thus far.<\/p>\n
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Finalmente vi insegner\u00e0 cos'\u00e8 il vero amore. <\/b>Amore vero<\/b> \u00e8 amare qualcuno in modo incondizionato.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about loving someone with flaws and all. It\u2019s about appreciating someone.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about finding something in that other person that will make you never let go. That person
\n\u00e8 l'unico al mondo ad avere quel qualcosa e voi lo volete.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about picking each other up every time you fall down. It\u2019s about supporting your loved one in everything they do.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about respecting each other. It\u2019s about having endless trust in each other.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about compromising and taking each other into consideration.<\/p>\n
Avete tutte queste cose ora e non le avevate allora. Siete stati sfortunati a imbattervi in qualcuno che si preoccupava solo di se stesso.<\/p>\n
The only thing the two of you had in common was loving the same person\u2014HIM. Tutto questo \u00e8 finalmente scomparso.<\/b><\/p>\n
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