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<\/p>\nSo, you’re in love with a married man.<\/p>\n
Per quanto foste convinte che non avreste mai potuto innamorarvi di un uomo sposato e nonostante il rispetto che avete per un'unione matrimoniale, \u00e8 successo comunque.<\/p>\n
I’m sure you’re already aware of how wrong this affair is and in how many ways this new relationship could go south.<\/p>\n
Ma questa \u00e8 una storia vecchia come il mondo.<\/p>\n
Falling in love comes naturally to all humans, and sometimes you end up developing feelings you shouldn’t for a married person.<\/p>\n
There isn’t a part of the world or a culture where it hasn’t happened and, as much as it hurts so many people, it’s all too common in its occurrence.<\/p>\n
Especially if this is the first time you’ve engaged in such a complex scenario and you’re scared and disappointed in yourself for not trying harder to find a healthy relationship with a man who’s actually available.<\/p>\n
I’m not going to pretend that I understand or am privy to the ins and outs of your <\/b>relazione d'amore<\/b> con un <\/b>uomo sposato<\/b>. <\/b><\/p>\n
I’m not going to sit here and judge you for choosing to ignore your <\/b>amata<\/b>‘s <\/b>stato civile<\/b> per continuare ad amarlo in segreto.<\/b><\/p>\n
Ma io sono <\/i>vi infonder\u00f2 alcune parole di saggezza, per il bene della vostra autostima e del vostro benessere.<\/p>\n
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La mia intenzione non \u00e8 quella di interrompere la vostra relazione illecita, ma di servirvi alcune dure verit\u00e0 sul vostro uomo sposato che la vostra infatuazione vi impedisce di vedere.<\/p>\n
Regardless of how you two crossed paths, there\u2019s only one way this is likely to end.<\/b><\/p>\n
And it’s not ideal.<\/b><\/p>\n
Forse eravate migliori amici al liceo, oppure vi siete conosciuti sui social media, attraverso incontri online o messaggi di testo.<\/p>\n
Anyone of these doesn’t justify the nature of your relationship, although it’s understandable how easy it can be to fall in love with a married woman (or man) when experiencing relationship problems.<\/p>\n
You got tired of going through the same thing with those toxic losers day in and day out and you needed something better \u2013 something full time.<\/p>\n
Meaningless hookups aren’t your thing anymore and you simply need a uomo<\/i>, non un ragazzo.<\/p>\n
You’ve been on numerous dating sites which led to a bunch of potential boyfriends, and they all ended up being not good for you.<\/p>\n
E poi ti sei imbattuto in <\/b>lui. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Vedi anche: Come porre fine a una relazione con integrit\u00e0 e aiutarvi a lasciarla per sempre<\/a><\/p>\n You didn’t plan it. It sort of just happened and you were just as surprised as anyone else would be.<\/p>\n Con questo ragazzo \u00e8 scattata la scintilla.<\/p>\n Non c'erano bandiere rosse (evidenti), ti ha persino detto che ti ama (e tu sapevi che lo pensava davvero).<\/p>\n Siete stati trattati con amore, cura e devozione e, in fin dei conti, cosa pu\u00f2 chiedere di pi\u00f9 una ragazza?<\/p>\n Dopo l'ultima rottura, questo ragazzo \u00e8 stato una boccata d'aria fresca.<\/p>\n He showed you how it feels to be in a healthy relationship (or so you thought…) and never once did it occur to you that he was having a physical and emotional affair with anyone other than you.<\/p>\n Fast forward to now: You’re stuck between a rock and a hard place. You don’t want to be caught in the middle of this.<\/p>\n You don’t want to be in love with a married man. This is not you.<\/p>\n But now, you’re here and you need to find a way to get out of this situation without causing any further damage.<\/p>\n Yet\u2026 You just can’t help but ask yourself: How did he have so much free time to spend with you if he’s got a wife?<\/p>\n Dov'era durante tutte le vostre telefonate notturne? Tutti gli uomini tradiscono?<\/p>\n Vedi anche: Agli uomini sposati mancano le loro amanti? 7 motivi per cui lo fanno<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n There are so many conflicting emotions that are plaguing your mind right now and you’re in desperate need of good <\/b>consigli sulle relazioni<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Dovreste porre fine a questa relazione di quasi un anno?<\/p>\n Riesci a immaginare di vederlo faccia a faccia senza lasciarti disarmare ancora una volta dal suo fascino da chiacchierone?<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 a volte innamorarsi \u00e8 cos\u00ec straziante?<\/p>\n You were so sure that he loves you and now you know nothing. The first time you think you’ve met an actual decent guy, this is what happens.<\/p>\n Your self-esteem is at an all-time low and you don’t trust yourself with anything anymore.<\/p>\n There’s a married woman out there who has no idea you’re intruding on her marriage and you’ve never felt so angry at yourself for letting yourself be pitted against another woman.<\/p>\n If you’re in a tough spot right now and in dire need of relationship advice, I’m here to offer you some tough truths.<\/p>\n Il vostro uomo sposato potrebbe facilmente ingannare sia voi che sua moglie, e Dio solo sa cos'altro potrebbe fare alle vostre spalle.<\/p>\n In order to get a full grasp of this complex situation, here’s what you need to take into account before making an educated decision that will resolve your situation with this <\/i>persona sposata<\/i> e aiutarvi a ritrovare voi stessi.<\/i><\/p>\n Vedi anche: Come vivere in pace e armonia con l'aiuto di questi 5 passi<\/a><\/p>\n As difficult as it is to comprehend this, if this dude is already cheating on his wife with you, one needs to ponder whether or not you’re the only one he’s cheating with?<\/p>\n If he’s so good at sneaking around and doing the nasty with you behind his wife’s back, there could very well be another ”other” woman.<\/p>\n Il che mi porta al secondo punto. Come potete fidarvi di lui?<\/p>\n He’s already lying to one woman.<\/p>\n What’s to stop him from making a fool of you?<\/p>\n These types of men who cheat and so easily get away with it can’t really stop themselves from pushing the boundaries and testing out how many times they can actually successfully pull this off.<\/p>\n Are you sure you’re the only mistress in his life?<\/p>\n Can you declare with utmost certainty that he’d leave his wife for you one day?<\/p>\n Fate attenzione a questo ragazzo.<\/p>\n He could be selling the same BS to another poor girl who’s buying it just like you are.<\/p>\n A married man can tell you what he wants and you’ll believe it because you want it to be true.<\/p>\n But here’s a tough truth.<\/p>\n Gli uomini sposati raramente lasciano la moglie per l'amante.<\/p>\n Ti riempiono la testa di cose che sanno che hai bisogno di sentire e continuano a vivere la loro vita coniugale, mentre tu ti siedi impaziente ad aspettare la sua telefonata.<\/p>\n \u00c8 giusto? No. Continuate ad aspettare? Si. Allora dovete chiedervi perch\u00e9 e per quanto tempo.<\/p>\n When will it become obvious to you that you’ll always come second? He’s got his priorities (his wife and family) and you must focus on yours!<\/p>\n You’ll never get to sleep beside him and wake up next to him happy because he’ll always have to go back to her.<\/p>\n E ogni volta che questo accade, il vostro cuore si spezzer\u00e0 un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n Don’t do this to yourself. Pick yourself up, choose yourself, and leave him for your own well-being.<\/p>\n You deserve more than someone’s sloppy seconds and his wife deserves a man who won’t step out on her.<\/p>\n Vedi anche: Ecco come smettere di sentirsi gelosi di una ragazza pi\u00f9 bella<\/a><\/p>\n Let’s assume he actually leaves his wife and commits to you.<\/p>\n Sceglie lei e prende questa decisione straziante per la sua famiglia.<\/p>\n For a while, you’ll be on cloud nine. You’ll have everything you ever wanted. He’s finally all yours.<\/p>\n You don’t have to share him with anyone and you don’t have to keep your relationship a secret.<\/p>\n Potete passeggiare per strada e tenervi per mano.<\/p>\n You can go on a couple’s getaway and not hide under fake names. But deep down, you’ll always wonder if he’s faithful to you.<\/p>\n You can’t lie to yourself \u2013 you know he’s already cheated, so how do you know he won’t do the exact same thing to you?<\/p>\n He can sweet-talk you all he wants, but when you know someone, it’s a different story.<\/p>\n So yeah, things will appear great and you’ll think you’re happy.<\/p>\n Ma questa sensazione non smetter\u00e0 mai di assillarvi, facendovi mettere in discussione ogni giorno la vostra relazione e la sua credibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Ne vale la pena?<\/p>\n Un uomo sposato ha sviluppato una tattica subdola che gli permette di continuare a prendervi in giro e di farvi credere a tutte le bugie che vi racconta.<\/p>\n This isn’t the first time he’s doing this.<\/p>\n Sa come conquistarvi e tenervi incollati.<\/p>\n You might feel special and like there’s actual hope for your relationship, but as I said, in this situation, married guys rarely choose the other woman.<\/p>\n Words mean nothing when they’re not supported by actions.<\/p>\n E cosa ti hanno detto le sue azioni finora? Vi ha detto qualcosa e l'ha fatto accadere?<\/p>\n Sta facendo progressi rispetto alla promessa di lasciare la moglie?<\/p>\n You might be in love with a married man, but if the feeling was truly reciprocated, he’d show it to you by doing something about the situation.<\/p>\n No matter the relationship problems in his marriage, if he isn’t showing any will to leave her, you should beat him to it.<\/p>\n I know you’ll never admit this to yourself or anyone else, but there’s something truly hot and sexy about sneaking around and finding new, creative ways to go about your affair.<\/p>\n Vi fa sentire importanti e pieni di risorse e, a volte, orgogliosi.<\/p>\n I don’t expect you to own up to this, but you have to admit that there’s a tiny bit of truth there.<\/p>\n La sua vita era piuttosto di routine fino a quando non ha incontrato il suo uomo sposato.<\/p>\n And ever since, you’ve been living a completely different type of life \u2013 one that requires you to be sneaky and smart while keeping this huge secret under wraps.<\/p>\n It’s thrilling and exciting almost as much as it’s wrong and regretful.<\/p>\n Every day is a risk and a new adventure, and the fact that you never know where and when you’ll see him next is downright salacious.<\/p>\n You’re feeling the thrill of the whole thing while being cautiously aware of how wrong you are to feel this way.<\/p>\n And yet, you’re not doing anything to change it. What does that tell you?<\/p>\n Vedi anche: Sesso con gli amici? I 10 segreti pi\u00f9 grandi che nessuno ti svela<\/a><\/p>\n Se il vostro uomo sposato ha dei figli, la situazione pu\u00f2 diventare ancora pi\u00f9 spiacevole.<\/p>\n In primo luogo, se lasciasse la moglie per lei, i suoi figli si risentirebbero per la rottura della loro famiglia.<\/p>\n Do you want to take on this huge responsibility of being a major part of their life, all the while knowing they’re unlikely to warm up to you?<\/p>\n Every time they see you, they’ll be reminded that you were the reason for their mom and dad’s break-up.<\/p>\n Questo potrebbe causare molti conflitti e amarezze, che saranno dannosi anche per la vostra relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n Being in love with a married man is one thing\u2026 but when there are kids involved, it’s simply playing with fire.<\/p>\n Siete pronti a scottarvi?<\/p>\n A bad marriage is never just one partner’s fault.<\/p>\n It takes two to tango. And you’re never going to get the full story behind their failed marriage and how it all came about.<\/p>\n He can tell you whatever he wants, but do you really think that he didn’t play a part in his marriage crashing and burning?<\/p>\n If he’s bad-mouthing his wife, don’t you feel sorry for her?<\/p>\n Isn’t there a part of you wondering if she’s truly as possessive and controlling as he’s making her sound?<\/p>\n O forse lui \u00e8 manipolatore e tossico e non le ha dato altra scelta che essere cos\u00ec?<\/p>\n Ci sono tanti problemi che potrebbe nascondervi, ma sua moglie li conosce fin troppo bene.<\/p>\n Pensateci prima di impegnarvi con lui. La vostra relazione potrebbe fallire con la stessa facilit\u00e0 del suo matrimonio.<\/p>\n La tua vita vale questo pasticcio? Vale la pena che LUI sacrifichi la tua dignit\u00e0 e si fidi ciecamente di lui?<\/p>\n Has it ever occurred to you that you might simply be his temporary saving grace while he’s struggling with his marital issues?<\/p>\n Men cheat and people lie. That’s a fact of life.<\/p>\n E voi potreste essere la vittima della sua manipolazione.<\/p>\n Forse vi siete convinti che si tratta di una storia d'amore grandiosa e che siete destinati a stare insieme.<\/p>\n But it’s far more likely that you’re just someone with whom he gets to enjoy himself and forget about the world and his broken marriage.<\/p>\n At first, it’s sexy, fun, and thrilling.<\/p>\n Ma con il tempo diventa difficile, impegnativo e disastroso.<\/p>\n Cominciate a vederlo per quello che \u00e8 veramente e a capire che he doesn’t really love you.<\/a><\/p>\n He loves what you give him \u2013 relief from his relationship problems and a good time.<\/p>\n He doesn’t love voi<\/i>ama la sensazione di essere temporaneamente libero.<\/p>\n![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-typing-in-bed-while-woman-sleeping.jpg\")
<\/p>\nPotreste non essere gli unici<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou shouldn’t be sitting around waiting for him to decide<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nWhat he’s doing to his wife, he could easily do to you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe’s highly unlikely to choose you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re probably secretly enjoying the thrill of this<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nIl fatto che abbia dei figli rende tutto molto pi\u00f9 complesso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’ll never know the other side of the story (his wife’s)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re a temporary fix for a broken marriage<\/h2>\n
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