{"id":49781,"date":"2019-12-18T16:24:24","date_gmt":"2019-12-18T16:24:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49781"},"modified":"2021-11-05T11:46:17","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T11:46:17","slug":"come-dimenticare-un-ragazzo-14-passi-per-dimenticarlo-in-poco-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-dimenticare-un-ragazzo-14-passi-per-dimenticarlo-in-poco-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Come dimenticare un ragazzo: 14 passi per dimenticarlo in poco tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come dimenticare un ragazzo che<\/span> just broke up with, who doesn’t love you back or a <\/span>ragazzo che non hai mai<\/span> davvero? <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, mi preme sottolineare che l'amore \u00e8 una delle emozioni pi\u00f9 complesse che esistano al mondo e una delle emozioni pi\u00f9 complesse che esistano al mondo. <\/span>cuore spezzato<\/span> \u00e8 uno dei sentimenti pi\u00f9 dolorosi che si possano provare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il <\/span>fine di una relazione<\/span> o  <\/span>primo amore<\/span>, realizing that he doesn’t like you back and that he’s just not good for you, all result in a painful <\/span>crepacuore<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Realizing that you don’t have a future with him and that you never had is the easy part, but getting over him and forgetting him like nothing happened is the hardest one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seguirlo su <\/span>social media<\/span> diventa un lavoro quotidiano perch\u00e9 per <\/span>non amico<\/span> him means to delete your hope, and you’re simply not ready for that yet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sms<\/span> il tuo <\/span>amici comuni<\/span> is a risky venture (but it’s definitely on the list). Spending the majority of your time watching <\/span>Netflix<\/span> e mangiare tonnellate di <\/span>gelato<\/span> aiuta effettivamente, ma solo per un breve periodo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siti di incontri<\/span> are out of the question because you’re sick of guys and everything that has to do with them.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, have you ever thought that maybe that’s exactly what you need to do? <\/span><\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che fare tutto questo non ha mai aiutato nessuno a dimenticare un ragazzo, n\u00e9 tantomeno a iniziare il percorso di crescita. <\/span>processo di guarigione<\/span> perch\u00e9 ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 ACCETTARE la verit\u00e0 e <\/span>emozioni negative<\/span>EMBRACCIARE la verit\u00e0 e GODERE del momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

ACCETTARE, ABBRACCIARE, GODERE.<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

I know it sounds like some low-budget commercial for anxiety pills, but trust me, it’s actually the only answer to the question: <\/span>Come dimenticare un ragazzo?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>Si tratta di un processo intensivo di <\/span>cura di s\u00e9<\/span> e di potenziare il vostro <\/span>autostima<\/span> perch\u00e9 \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno quando un <\/span>la relazione termina<\/span> o quando si \u00e8 aspettato troppo a lungo per qualcosa che non \u00e8 nemmeno iniziato.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to accept the truth, focus on yourself, and boost your <\/span>endorfine<\/span> con attivit\u00e0 salutari, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unica cosa che vi aiuter\u00e0 a dimenticare il vostro <\/span>ex fidanzato<\/span>, quasi amante o <\/span>idiota che ti ha appena fatto perdere tempo<\/span><\/a>! <\/span><\/p>\n

And in case you’re wondering how to do it, don’t worry because you will not have to waste large amounts of your time looking for <\/span>esperti di relazioni<\/span> e <\/span>consigli per gli incontri<\/span> dai terapeuti. Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 proprio davanti a voi! <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, fate un respiro profondo e leggete con attenzione il seguente elenco di cose e passi che vi aiuteranno a dimenticarlo in poco tempo!<\/span><\/p>\n

COME DIMENTICARE UN RAGAZZO: 14 PASSI PER DIMENTICARLO IN POCO TEMPO<\/h2>\n

1. Accept that it’s over or it will not happen<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Il primo passo per superare un <\/span>ragazzo tu<\/span> just broke up with or you’ve never been with is accepting that it’s over, that it has ended or it will not happen no matter how much you still want it. <\/span><\/p>\n

So che pu\u00f2 sembrare duro, ma dovete tagliare tutte le speranze perch\u00e9 \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 grande che vi impedisce ancora di andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 c'\u00e8 speranza, non smetterete mai di perseguitarlo su <\/span>social media<\/span>aspettando che cambi idea o che si scusi con voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 spererete ancora, non raggiungerete mai <\/span>distanza emotiva<\/span> che \u00e8 l'ingrediente chiave del <\/span>processo di guarigione<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is why you need to accept that what you had with him is gone, and that it’s for your own good because no one deserves to realize too late that you just weren’t meant to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devi accettare che quello che vuoi con lui non accadr\u00e0 mai, perch\u00e9 probabilmente c'\u00e8 qualcosa di meglio che ti aspetta.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Concentrarsi sui propri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Invece di scappare da <\/span>emozioni negative<\/span> e <\/span>vita reale<\/span>, fare l'esatto contrario! <\/span><\/p>\n

Open your eyes, feel your pain and focus on your feelings! Why? Because the more you’re trying to fight them or hide them, the longer you’ll feel miserable and in pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

Accept the fact that it’s not your fault things ended the way they ended. <\/span><\/p>\n

Qualsiasi cosa facciate o diciate, non sarete in grado di cambiare nulla, perch\u00e9 alcune cose non sono destinate ad accadere. <\/span><\/p>\n

A volte bisogna attraversare una tempesta per ritrovare se stessi e ricevere le cose che si meritano. Ed essere arrabbiati con se stessi non \u00e8 certo una di queste cose. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, focus on what’s real, what exactly happened, and how you feel about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

The longer you practice this, the sooner you’ll be able to replace those feelings with other more fulfilling things like a <\/span>nuovo hobby<\/span>, <\/span>serata tra ragazze<\/span>e simili.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Prendete le vostre ragazze e andate in citt\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"Gruppo<\/p>\n

So, after you’re done with focusing on your feelings, it’s time to occupy yourself with other more exciting things than just watching <\/span>Netflix<\/span>. It’s time to grab your girls and hit the town!<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that this is the last thing you can think of at the moment, but it’s totally necessary. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ballare con il tuo <\/span>migliori amici<\/span> vi scuoter\u00e0. Parlare dell'ingiustizia dell'amore vi far\u00e0 sentire meglio e stare in pubblico vi impedir\u00e0 di pensare troppo. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s a perfect distraction and a necessary step when it comes to proceeding with the <\/span>processo di guarigione<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Fate un elenco di cose buone e cattive su di lui.<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

You’re probably confused about this one because who in their right mind would want to write something good about the person they’re trying to forget, right? But, in this case you’re doing it for valid reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete fare una lista di cose positive su di lui, perch\u00e9 questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a cancellare tutte quelle cose dal vostro cervello.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una volta che li avete messi su carta, provate a immaginare di cancellarli dalla vostra testa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, l'elenco delle cose negative \u00e8 quello che dovete continuare a leggere per ricordarvi le cose negative di lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

The longer you look at the list, the more you’ll feel at ease and at peace with yourself because you will no longer be blind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you will start thinking reasonably because you will see that everything is just as it’s supposed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Se la vostra guarigione fa troppo male, leggete qui<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

5. Viziare se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"Emozioni<\/p>\n

When was the last time that you did something for yourself? I’m sure it was a long time ago, and that is why it’s time to change that. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to enjoy long bubble baths, find a <\/span>nuovo hobby<\/span>cambiare l'acconciatura, comprare un vestito sexy, leggere un buon libro, bere il vostro cocktail preferito e rilassarvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to stop dwelling on your past and enjoy the present. <\/span><\/p>\n

Considerare anche <\/span>incontri online<\/span> se \u00e8 qualcosa che vi diverte. E <\/span>quindi cosa<\/span> se si incontra un <\/span>nuovo ragazzo<\/span> there? It’s not the end of the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 chiacchierare e <\/span>flirt<\/span> con chiunque vogliate, e pi\u00f9 socializzerete e amplierete la cerchia dei vostri amici, pi\u00f9 entrerete in contatto con voi stessi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vivere appieno la propria vita impedisce di cercare di cancellare le conseguenze della propria vita. <\/span>amore vita<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, fare <\/span>sicuro che tu<\/span> viziarsi per il proprio benessere nel <\/span>primo posto<\/span>e tutto il resto seguir\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Guardare le cose da una prospettiva diversa<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Invece di arrabbiarvi con voi stessi per aver permesso che tutto questo accadesse, cercate di guardare le cose da una prospettiva diversa. Che cosa significa? <\/span><\/p>\n

Significa rendersi conto che questa \u00e8 stata probabilmente la cosa migliore che vi sia mai capitata (per quanto possa sembrare sbagliato), perch\u00e9 non sprecherete pi\u00f9 il vostro tempo con qualcuno che non \u00e8 degno di voi, che non \u00e8 pronto a stare con voi o che avrebbe potuto farvi pi\u00f9 male se foste rimasti con lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordate che tutto \u00e8 nella vostra testa. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think that what you’re going through is the worst thing that happened to you, think again. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sbarazzarsi di una persona che non si \u00e8 mai avuta \u00e8 la cosa peggiore o la cosa migliore che vi sia capitata?<\/span><\/p>\n

7. It’s not only your loss\u2014<\/span>It’s his, too (and he’ll probably regret it)<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

No matter how much you were crazy about him and no matter how painful it was to end your relationship, understand that it’s not only your loss\u2014it’s his, too. Why? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you still cared about him and thinking about him just proves that you’re a person with a big heart and hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even though you have no chance of being with him, you’re still fighting it and trying to find reasons why it happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re a beautiful, sensitive soul<\/span><\/a>, and you should never think that you’re the only one who lost something or someone. <\/span><\/p>\n

He’s the one who lost you as well, and once you find someone who will treat you the way you deserve and with whom you’ll be compatible, he’ll probably regret losing you, but unfortunately it will be too late. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, there’s no need to bother yourself with imagining that he’s drinking cocktails and enjoying the high life while you’re being miserable within your four walls. <\/span><\/p>\n

Probabilmente la sua coscienza lo sta tormentando, ma voi sapete che questo non \u00e8 sufficiente per farvi riconsiderare la possibilit\u00e0 di tornare insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Essere felici per lui<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

I know how hard it is to be happy for someone whom you’re trying to get over and forget, but you need to do it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to be happy or at least pretend that you’re happy for him because that’s the only way to block all the negativity and prevent jealousy outbursts.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you happen to see that he’s found someone new, don’t immediately freak out or hit him (or her) with the nearest object.<\/span><\/p>\n

Piuttosto, sorridete (per il vostro bene) e congratulatevi con lui, se necessario. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do whatever you need to, but don’t let him see your weak side because you don’t want to get back to repeating all the initial stages of healing.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need to convince yourself that you’re already over him (even if you’re not) because when your mind is convinced of something, it will start believing it and acting accordingly. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Non mandategli messaggi e non perseguitatelo sui social media.<\/h2>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

This is a big no-no. I know it’s hard to delete someone all of a sudden from your life, but what’s even harder is prolonging the pain. <\/span><\/p>\n

E da <\/span>sms<\/span> lui, pedinandolo su <\/span>social media<\/span>, liking his every picture, waiting impatiently for his posts and secretly hoping to hear the sound of likes on your pictures, you’re preventing yourself from moving on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, spegnete il vostro telefono, cancellate i suoi profili su <\/span>social media<\/span>, go outside, meet your friends or do anything else, but just DON’T stalk him on <\/span>social media<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che sentite l'impulso di farlo, occupate la vostra mente con qualcos'altro che sar\u00e0 dieci volte pi\u00f9 produttivo e migliore per voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Leggete questa frase ogni volta che vi viene voglia di mandargli un messaggio, anche se sapete che non dovreste farlo.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

10. Stop thinking about ‘Could have’ and ‘What if’<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

‘What might have been’ is a sentence you need to seriously ignore because it will only bring you back to the past\u2014something you want to forget. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will repeat, whatever you could have said or done, it wouldn’t have changed anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

You could have been the perfect girlfriend (even though this doesn’t even exist) and you could have done everything in your power to get him to like you, to change him and to save your relationship, and still something would happen and disrupt everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, there’s no need to bother yourself with thinking about what you could have done nor about what you can do today. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s gone, it’s over and it’s good that it’s over, so occupy yourself with positive people and exciting things, and live a life as you please because you sure as hell deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Concentrarsi sulle cose buone che si hanno gi\u00e0 nella vita<\/h2>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Remind yourself that you don’t need a man to make you happy because you’re perfectly happy on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

Circondatevi di persone che vi amano e si preoccupano per voi, siate grati per tutto ci\u00f2 che avete gi\u00e0 nella vita e abbracciate ogni cambiamento futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di concentrarti su di lui, devi concentrarti su tutte le cose buone che hai gi\u00e0 nella vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t think that your life will be more fulfilling and better with him in it because it’s not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be happy for who you are and be grateful for what you have because that’s all that matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Rendete voi stessi una priorit\u00e0<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Se volete imparare Come dimenticare velocemente un ragazzo<\/a>Dovrete fare di voi stessi una priorit\u00e0 invece che un'opzione. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensare costantemente alla vostra relazione passata o a lui vi lascia meno tempo per pensare anche a voi stesse. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why it’s necessary to make yourself a priority. Look at it this way: <\/span>At the end of the day, you’re your longest commitment. <\/b><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is how you’re feeling about yourself and not how you’re feeling about some guy who perhaps doesn’t even know that you exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stop treating people who don’t belong in your life as a priority because they’re just not worthy of your time and nerves. <\/span><\/p>\n

Concentratevi su voi stessi e sull'oggi invece che su ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo.<\/span><\/p>\n

13. Perdonare se stessi <\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Forgive yourself for everything you wanted to say or do but didn’t. Forgive yourself for forgetting that you’re good enough and that you deserve a lot more than you think.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perdona te stessa per non esserti amata abbastanza e per avergli permesso di giocare con la tua mente. <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to forgive yourself for everything that happened because it’s the only way to move forward and accept the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n

14. Trovare il coraggio di accettare le cose che non si possono cambiare.<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

L'ultimo passo consiste nel trovare il coraggio nel proprio cuore di <\/span>accettare tutte le cose che non si possono cambiare<\/span><\/a> o influenza nella vostra vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

This includes finding the courage to accept that you two were not meant to be, that you’re ten times better off without him, and that he’s not worthy of being your priority.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trovate il coraggio di accettare la vostra <\/span>cuore spezzato<\/span>, le vostre lacrime e le vostre notti insonni, e abbracciatele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Accoglietele perch\u00e9 fanno parte del cambiamento necessario per evolvere e diventare pi\u00f9 forti e pi\u00f9 saggi in futuro!<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Superare un <\/span>ragazzo tu<\/span> appena lasciata o un <\/span>ragazzo che non hai mai<\/span> non \u00e8 certo un compito facile. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s a long process that requires lots of patience, devotion, and effort. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, if you follow all of the steps above and stay persistent, there’s nothing you should worry about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il <\/span>ragazzo tu<\/span> couldn’t stop thinking about will soon become the <\/span>guy you\u2019ve<\/span> dimenticato esiste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 credere che ce la farete e che arriveranno giorni migliori, perch\u00e9 vi posso assicurare che arriveranno! <\/b><\/p>\n

And when that happens, you will laugh at everything you’re worrying about now. <\/b><\/p>\n

You will realize that no guy is worthy of your tears, effort, and love if he’s not ready to reciprocate. <\/span><\/p>\n

E aspetterete colui che far\u00e0 di tutto per dimostrarvi che meritate di essere amati appassionatamente, follemente e incondizionatamente!<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>3 modi per dimenticare una persona che non ha mai saputo come amarvi<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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