{"id":49825,"date":"2021-10-01T16:51:46","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T16:51:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49825"},"modified":"2024-10-30T14:34:41","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:34:41","slug":"questanno-mi-concentro-su-di-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questanno-mi-concentro-su-di-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel 2025, butto fuori tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 tossico e mi concentro su di me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not a fan of New Year\u2019s resolutions. I never stick to them. That\u2019s why I am starting now and sticking with it in the next year and the year to come, and the year after that\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is that breaking point in my life when I\u2019ve had enough of everything and anyone, and I\u2019m <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/il-prossimo-anno-non-sara-diverso-a-meno-che-non-lo-si-voglia-far-diventare-tale\/\"> prendere in mano la situazione <\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Addio, mio ex tossico. Spero di non rivederti mai pi\u00f9. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Siete voi che mi avete portato a questa auto-rivelazione e ve ne sono veramente grato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is just so much lousy behavior and mind games a woman can take until she\u2019s finally had enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You crossed every limit I had. You tested my love and patience. You abused my good nature and forgiving spirit until I couldn\u2019t forgive anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hai preso il mio amore e l'hai gettato in giro come se fosse un giocattolo. Hai giocato con me, con i miei sentimenti e con la mia anima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m stopping this because love is not a game.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta su una grande finestra\" class=\"wp-image-108930\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>My heart is not made out of clay and it can\u2019t be mended when it breaks. My mind is not so tough that it can suffer beating after beating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to love you. Maybe I love you still. But I love myself more and I won\u2019t put up with you anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m kicking out all the poisonous people from my life. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadly, my ex wasn\u2019t the only toxic person in my life. I had friends that didn\u2019t turn out to be friends after all. I had friends who make my enemies seem small.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ho avuto amici che mi dicevano le parole pi\u00f9 dolci, per poi infilzarmi con un coltello non appena mi giravo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ho avuto persone nella mia vita a cui ho dato priorit\u00e0, ma che non si sono mai preoccupate di mettermi nella loro lista di priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avevo persone che potevano dipendere da me per tutto, ma non si trovavano da nessuna parte quando ne avevo bisogno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I had people who used to drain energy from me and fill me with negativity and self-doubt. I had those people in my life and I don\u2019t anymore. I am done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m kicking out my own self-sabotaging ways.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna bionda con pensieri profondi\" class=\"wp-image-108931\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Odio ammetterlo, ma ho bevuto veleno dalla mia stessa tazza. Mi sono nutrita di insicurezze che con il tempo sono aumentate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think I can thank toxic people in my life for those as well, but it\u2019s my fault I didn\u2019t stop them sooner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am starting a new life right here. right now. I am silencing the voices in my head that are telling me I can\u2019t and I\u2019m turning them into cans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi guardo allo specchio e mi vedo in una luce molto pi\u00f9 luminosa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m loving all my perfect imperfections and getting more comfortable in my own skin as seconds go by. There is no waiting anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Questo \u00e8 il mio tempo. Il mio giorno. Il mio mese. Il mio anno. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There isn\u2019t anything I can\u2019t do or accomplish. I got this. I am on my way to becoming the best version of me and nothing can stop me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are not New Year\u2019s resolutions \u2013 they\u2019re life resolutions. And I am sticking by them for dear life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Io sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ho-smesso-di-farmi-spezzare-il-cuore-e-tempo-di-nuove-regole\/\"> concentrarsi su di me <\/a> per un cambiamento. Sto reindirizzando tutta l'energia positiva su di me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sto restituendo l'amore che spendevo in modo cos\u00ec sconsiderato per le persone sbagliate e comincio ad amare me stessa ogni giorno di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no more waiting. It\u2019s time to say, <i> \u201cHello December. Hello, 2025. Hello, my new life.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nel 2025, butto fuori tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 tossico e mi concentro su di me \" class=\"wp-image-177348\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not a fan of New Year\u2019s resolutions. I never stick to them. That\u2019s why I am starting now and sticking with it in the next year and the year to come, and the year after that\u2026 This is that breaking point in my life when I\u2019ve had enough of everything and anyone, and I\u2019m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":177352,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49825"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177353,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825\/revisions\/177353"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}