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<\/p>\nQuando la vedrete, vi ricorder\u00e0 la neve: bella all'esterno, fredda al tatto. \u00c8 questo che l'avete trasformata. Non \u00e8 sempre stata cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Aveva una personalit\u00e0 brillante e solare, un'energia incredibile, un livello di compassione e comprensione difficile da trovare. <\/p>\n
Ma a poco a poco hai rubato la sua scintilla, hai rubato la sua solarit\u00e0 interiore.Lei \u00e8 stata la sua pi\u00f9 grande debolezza. <\/b>She never learned to say \u201cNo!\u201d to you.<\/p>\n
She was always there when you would call.She\u2019d drop everything to be with you. She took from herself and gave to you because she thought that was the right thing to do.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s what you do when you love somebody as much as she loved you. <\/p>\n
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She got tired at times, she wasn\u2019t getting anything in return, so she would make her stand.She\u2019d demand to be treated right, but never follow through. <\/p>\n
Ti ha sempre perdonato, anche se non hai mai detto di essere dispiaciuto. <\/b>As soon as she\u2019d see you, she\u2019d forget about all the bad.<\/p>\n
You had control over her that she couldn\u2019t withstand. She could never stay mad at you for too long.No matter what you did.<\/p>\n
No matter how hard she cried or how you made her feel one sweet word, kiss, and hug and she\u2019d ignore everything else. <\/p>\n
I giorni passavano senza una sola parola da parte tua, poi senza alcun preavviso tornavi nella sua vita come se non fosse successo nulla. <\/b><\/p>\n
Per un breve periodo, tutto era perfetto. Poi, boom, eri di nuovo via. Scomparivi nel nulla. Ogni volta che lo facevi, il suo cuore si spezzava un po' di pi\u00f9. <\/p>\n
She\u2019d tell you how awful she felt every time you did that.Tell you how it hurts and how she\u2019s crumbling from the inside.<\/p>\n
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But you didn\u2019t really care. Sure, you would listen.You would say a sweet word or two on how it\u2019s never going to happen again. <\/p>\n
But the moment she started feeling safe and happy again, you would pull the safety net and she\u2019d fall flat on her face. <\/p>\n
La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non ti \u00e8 mai importato di lei. <\/b>L'unica persona che contava per voi era voi stessi. <\/b><\/p>\n
Non l'hai mai trattata bene, non le hai mai dato il rispetto, l'amore e la comprensione che lei ti dava, hai solo preso, preso e preso finch\u00e9 non le \u00e8 rimasto nulla da dare.<\/p>\n
Le sue emozioni erano prosciugate, la sua anima era stanca. E in quello stato, le hai dato un ultimo colpo: hai smesso di tornare. <\/p>\n
She can\u2019t really tell if that was what broke her or she was broken long before that. <\/b><\/p>\n
All she knew was that she had to accept what she couldn\u2019t change.All she knew was that even though she was so damn tired, she had to keep on going. <\/p>\n
She had to pick herself up from the ground and continue her life.She had to find the strength she didn\u2019t even know she had inside. <\/p>\n
La cosa pi\u00f9 bella \u00e8 che alla fine ha capito che la tua assenza \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che le sia capitata. <\/b><\/p>\n
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The bad thing is she doesn\u2019t know if she is ever going to find someone she can trust and feel safe with. <\/b><\/p>\n
She is all out of understanding now.She is all out of love. She\u2019s become numb.She\u2019s become cold. She\u2019s become a shadow of the woman she once was. <\/p>\n
Although deep down, warmth is still a part of her heart, it\u2019s just covered with titanium walls and a thick layer of ice. <\/p>\n
It\u2019s her defense mechanism.It\u2019s a way of making sure no one ever hurts her again as you did. <\/b><\/p>\n
Ma sai una cosa, una volta ero quella donna. Ho amato una persona tossica come te e sono sopravvissuta per raccontarlo. Sono sopravvissuta e ho imparato a fidarmi di nuovo. Lo far\u00e0 anche lei. <\/p>\n
Ero rotta e piegata, avevo toccato il mio minimo emotivo, avevo paura di amare, avevo paura di fidarmi, e ci sono riuscita. Ho trasformato il mio dolore nella mia arma pi\u00f9 forte.<\/p>\n
Ho lavorato per rendere la mia vita pi\u00f9 grande di quanto fosse mai stata e ci sono riuscita. Ho imparato a essere felice da sola. A un certo punto ho anche trovato le mani giuste che mi hanno sorretto.<\/p>\n
I found the heart that melted the ice and revived my warmth. Trust me, she will too.Trust me, you will want her back.Trust me, she won\u2019t even care. <\/p>\n
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