{"id":50169,"date":"2021-11-30T23:02:52","date_gmt":"2021-11-30T23:02:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50169"},"modified":"2024-10-30T14:49:14","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:49:14","slug":"svegliatemi-quando-la-stagione-delle-vacanze-finisce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/svegliatemi-quando-la-stagione-delle-vacanze-finisce\/","title":{"rendered":"Svegliami quando finisce la stagione delle vacanze"},"content":{"rendered":"

For most of you out there, we\u2019re currently in the middle of the most beautiful time of the year. Everyone is cheerful, you hear music and see shiny decorations wherever you go.<\/p>\n

Si comprano e si ricevono regali. Si ottiene un po' di tempo libero dal lavoro e dalla scuola e, soprattutto, si ha la possibilit\u00e0 di trascorrere del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con i propri cari.<\/p>\n

Chi pu\u00f2 chiedere di pi\u00f9?<\/p>\n

Purtroppo non tutti ci sentiamo cos\u00ec durante le feste. In effetti, per me, e credo che molti siano d'accordo, questo \u00e8 il periodo pi\u00f9 deprimente di tutto l'anno e preferirei dormire per tutto il tempo.<\/b> .<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, svegliatemi quando la stagione delle vacanze finisce, cos\u00ec posso andare avanti con la mia routine quotidiana, le mie abitudini e la mia vita di tutti i giorni.<\/p>\n

Lasciatemi dormire in questa depressione, ansia e solitudine, e datemi la possibilit\u00e0 di smettere di notare che tutti stanno meglio di me. <\/b><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not jealous or envious. And I\u2019m certainly grateful for all the blessings I have in my life.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, durante questa stagione, sembra che le cose e le persone che mi mancano in qualche modo risalgano in superficie, senza l'intenzione di andarsene.<\/p>\n

Sembra che tutte le emozioni, comprese quelle che vogliamo evitare come la malinconia e la tristezza, diventino pi\u00f9 intense rispetto al resto dell'anno.<\/p>\n

Sembra che tutto e tutti quelli che non ho pi\u00f9 inizino improvvisamente a farmi pi\u00f9 male e a darmi pi\u00f9 fastidio. Sembra che tutti i miei dolori e le mie sofferenze siano un po' pi\u00f9 forti. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t expect me to come to your New Year\u2019s party. Don\u2019t expect me to get in the mood and put a wide, phony smile on my face because it\u2019s the last thing on my mind right now.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ask me to spend the entire night smiling and chitchatting with random people when I would rather be alone in my bedroom, wrapped in a cozy blanket, watching TV, as it is just another, usual night of the week.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ask me to pretend to be happy when I\u2019m actually at my lowest. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

No, I won\u2019t do it for your sake. I won\u2019t go with the flow to please everyone around me or to fit the rest of the society.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t do it because I appreciate my mental health more than what people might think of me; <\/b> because I know what\u2019s best for me, and I because I put self-care above everything else.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accuse me of being the Grinch who stole Christmas, and don\u2019t judge me for not feeling the holiday spirit. Instead, I beg you to understand me. <\/b><\/p>\n

Vi supplico di darmi abbastanza spazio per poter tornare a essere il mio vecchio me stesso.<\/p>\n

I promise you that this won\u2019t last long\u2014it is just a phase, and as soon as January comes knocking on my door, everything will be normal.<\/p>\n

Per favore, svegliatemi quando la stagione delle vacanze sar\u00e0 finita.<\/p>\n

Wake me up when I\u2019m no longer expected to essere felici <\/a> all the time\u2014when I\u2019ll be allowed to have a bad day, when I can cry, and when it will be acceptable for me to be grumpy or not in a good mood.<\/p>\n

Wake me up when this nostalgia which is tearing up my chest is long gone\u2014 quando smetter\u00f2 di sentire l'assenza del mio <\/b>persone care<\/b><\/a> cos\u00ec intensamente, quando i ricordi smetteranno di perseguitarmi, quando smetter\u00f2 di rigiocare il mio passato felice avanti e indietro nella mia testa e quando smetter\u00f2 di sentire cos\u00ec tanto la mancanza di tutti coloro che non ci sono pi\u00f9. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Wake me up when my depression and anxiety go back to their usual levels\u2014when they let me function and when they stop consuming and overwhelming me to the point I can\u2019t breathe.<\/p>\n

Wake me up when I regain the ability to repress the feelings I don\u2019t like and when I am strong enough to act as if they don\u2019t exist again.<\/p>\n

When I stop feeling the need to recapitulate this entire past year, just to figure out that I haven\u2019t accomplished much and that I didn\u2019t stick to almost any of my New Year\u2019s resolutions<\/b> \u2014when I stop lying to myself that in 2025, I will be better and do everything differently.<\/p>\n

Quando smetter\u00f2 di fissare il telefono in attesa di una telefonata che so non arriver\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

Wake me up when I stop feeling like a weirdo for not having my special someone\u2014 quando la solitudine smetter\u00e0 di essere cos\u00ec dolorosa e quando mi ricorder\u00f2 che in realt\u00e0 vivo una vita straordinaria. <\/b><\/p>\n

Svegliatemi quando tutti i miei demoni del passato smetteranno di perseguitarmi e torner\u00f2 a dormire!<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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