{"id":50180,"date":"2019-12-24T21:32:07","date_gmt":"2019-12-24T21:32:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50180"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:23:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:23:57","slug":"non-e-quello-giusto-se-fa-queste-6-cose-quando-non-ci-sei-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-e-quello-giusto-se-fa-queste-6-cose-quando-non-ci-sei-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"Non \u00e8 quello giusto se fa queste 6 cose quando non ci siete"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si tiene a qualcuno, di solito si presta attenzione solo al modo in cui si comporta di fronte a noi e verso di noi.<\/p>\n<p>Date per scontato che sia davvero la persona che finge di essere quando siete soli e raramente indagate pi\u00f9 a fondo sul suo comportamento.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, there is one huge difference between your forever person and the guy who is not the one for you; the latter will do his best to convince you he is your Mr. Perfect but will show his true colors when you\u2019re not around.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, se il vostro partner romantico ha la cattiva abitudine di fare tutte o la maggior parte di queste cose alle vostre spalle, sono chiari indicatori che non \u00e8 la vostra anima gemella.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Parla male di te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50183\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_4574819381.jpg\" alt=\"uomini sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_4574819381.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_4574819381-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_4574819381-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/scegliete-luomo-che-vi-ama-tutte\/\">uomo che ti ama<\/a> sar\u00e0 completamente onesto nei vostri confronti.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, he won\u2019t put you down but he will point out your flaws and will use every opportunity to inspire you to become the best possible version of yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, tutto questo dovrebbe avvenire faccia a faccia, in privato, quando non c'\u00e8 nessun altro intorno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In fact, this guy should have your back, stand by you and defend you in front of the entire world, even when he sees that you\u2019re mistaken.<\/p>\n<p>Poi, una volta rimasti soli, vi dir\u00e0 cosa avete sbagliato.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, your partner is different. He compliments and praises you all the time but changes his story whenever you\u2019re not around.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not perfect but talking trash about you behind your back is, without a doubt, a huge sign of disrespect.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you two are in the middle of a fight or if he is angry at you at a given moment; he should never allow himself to criticize you or to gossip about you to others.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Flirta con altre ragazze<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50184\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_10399972451.jpg\" alt=\"donna che flirta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_10399972451.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_10399972451-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_10399972451-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s world, having a faithful partner is a real blessing.<\/p>\n<p>However, it is not enough for your boyfriend to give you all of his undivided attention only when you\u2019re around and to completely change his behavior as soon as you walk out of the door.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After all, if he\u2019s in a relationship, his status is defined in all possible situations and it has nothing to do with your presence or absence.<\/p>\n<p>It is not acceptable for him to take on the role of a bachelor every time you\u2019re not around and to start hitting on other girls, as if he were single.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Se questo \u00e8 il caso della vostra relazione, vi garantisco che l'unica cosa che impedisce a questo ragazzo di tradirvi \u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-da-fare-dopo-averlo-scoperto-a-tradire\/\">che lo catturi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He is not faithful because he loves you\u2014he is scared that he\u2019ll get caught.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>He is actually calculating things and he just doesn\u2019t want to risk everything you two built for some temporary passion.<\/p>\n<p>So, instead of putting up with his behavior any further, it\u2019s time to give him exactly what he wants\u2014a chance to really become single and a clear path to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-delle-donne-continua-ad-andare-avanti\/\">continuare a inseguire altre donne<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Parla dei dettagli della vostra relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50185\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_1606612731.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_1606612731.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_1606612731-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_1606612731-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everything that happens between you and your boyfriend shouldn\u2019t concern anyone besides you two. This especially applies to your fights and bedroom activities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, entrambi avete degli amici e a volte volete condividere con loro le cose che vi preoccupano.<\/p>\n<p>Volete ascoltare le loro opinioni, seguire i loro consigli o semplicemente avere qualcuno che vi ascolti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, anche in questo caso, dovete fare molta attenzione ai dettagli che tirate fuori. E lo stesso vale per il vostro fidanzato.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, se i suoi amici sanno ogni piccola cosa che \u00e8 successa tra voi due, non \u00e8 l'uomo che fa per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Evidentemente non \u00e8 abbastanza maturo e ha bisogno di qualcuno che gli dia lezioni e gli dica cosa fare in certe situazioni.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Knowing all of this, it is more than apparent that you\u2019re not in a relationship with just him but with his entire entourage as well.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Rimane amico della sua ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50186\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_7656758291.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di lavoro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_7656758291.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_7656758291-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_7656758291-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Rimanere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-motivi-per-cui-gli-amici-ex-vanno-bene\/\">amici di un ex<\/a> non \u00e8 un crimine; anzi, pu\u00f2 essere un segno di vera indifferenza tra due persone che un tempo erano innamorate.<\/p>\n<p>Se ora possono essere amici senza rancori o sentimenti, tutte le emozioni che esistevano un tempo sono scomparse.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>L'importante, in questo caso, \u00e8 che il nuovo partner sia completamente consapevole di questa amicizia, della sua natura e della sua storia.<\/p>\n<p>And that is exactly the issue with your relationship; it is not a problem that your boyfriend stayed on friendly terms with his ex\u2014it is the fact that he is trying to keep it a secret from you.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, questo pu\u00f2 essere un segnale di allarme che indica che c'\u00e8 ancora qualcosa tra i due.<\/p>\n<p>O forse \u00e8 lui che prova ancora qualcosa per questa ragazza, sa di fare qualcosa di sbagliato e di conseguenza ha bisogno di agire di nascosto alle tue spalle.<\/p>\n<p>L'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 un uomo che ha problemi irrisolti con il passato, un uomo che vi sta usando come ragazza di ripiego o che ha un bagaglio emotivo che sta cercando di portare nella vostra relazione.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Fa progetti senza di te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50187\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6396675251.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che fa progetti\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6396675251.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6396675251-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6396675251-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just because you and your boyfriend are a couple, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re tied to one another.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re both allowed to have a life outside of your relationship as well as to hang out with other people.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, se avete una relazione seria e impegnata, non \u00e8 carino da parte sua fare piani importanti per il suo futuro senza includere voi.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about things such as moving away or changing career here only\u2014I\u2019m also talking about, for example, planning his next holiday without even talking about it with you first.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of course, he is an individual and you can\u2019t tell him what to do but if you guys are a team, him not taking your opinion into consideration is definitely sending you a message.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14132819661.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza in attesa \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14132819661.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14132819661-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14132819661-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is nothing worse than dealing with a sweet talker whose actions don\u2019t match his words.<\/p>\n<p>E questa \u00e8 la migliore descrizione possibile del tuo ragazzo; continua a fare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/basta-con-le-parole-dolci-e-le-promesse-vuote-voglio-onesta-e-impegno\/\">promesse vuote<\/a> he doesn\u2019t keep.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what we\u2019re talking about here; if he promises you one thing but continues doing something completely the opposite, he\u2019s not the one for you.<\/p>\n<p>It is not okay if he plays by the book and acts like he agrees with everything you say just while you\u2019re physically present and then suddenly changes his behavior as soon as he sees your back.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-50182\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Non \u00e8 quello giusto se fa queste 6 cose quando non ci siete\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel214.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you care for someone, you usually only pay attention to the way he acts in front of you and toward you. You assume that he really is the person he pretends to be when the two of you are alone and you rarely investigate his behavior any deeper.&nbsp; However, there is one huge difference&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":50181,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_70585513321.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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