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<\/p>\nSe avete un po' di esperienza nel mondo degli appuntamenti moderni, probabilmente pensate che gli uomini peggiori siano quelli che vi trascinano, senza mai darvi il posto che meritate nella loro vita.<\/p>\n
The ones who you never know where you stand with, don\u2019t want anything serious, and run away at the sound of the word \u201cfuture.\u201d <\/p>\n
Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. Even though these guys are douchebags, you should be grateful for their honesty and walk away in time.<\/p>\n
In this case, at least you know what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n
They\u2019re clear about their desire to fool around, without any intention of committing, and if that\u2019s something you don\u2019t want, nobody is forcing or manipulating you to stay.<\/p>\n
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On the other hand, it\u2019s way worse being with a man who convinces you that he wants to grow old with you, makes concrete plans about your life together, and keeps on bringing up a bright future for the two of you.<\/p>\n
Of course, all of this sounds great if we\u2019re talking about a guy who actually fulfills his promises. <\/p>\n
Tuttavia, se \u00e8 tutto chiacchiere e niente azione, raramente va oltre i suoi piani e non si d\u00e0 mai da fare per mantenere le sue promesse, avete un problema.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that he\u2019s future-faking you, just so he can use you in all possible ways. <\/p>\n
But how can you know whether his intentions are pure or he\u2019s a big fat liar? Just read the signs below and it\u2019ll all become crystal clear to you. <\/p>\n
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I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve heard about this phenomena, but bombardamento d'amore<\/a> \u00e8 una delle tattiche pi\u00f9 comuni che i narcisisti usano per attirare le loro vittime.<\/p>\n Allo stesso tempo, \u00e8 una delle tecniche che lascia anche le conseguenze peggiori. <\/p>\n After all those emotionally unavailable men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted, had trouble putting a label on your relationship and defining it, ran away from commitment, and were never clear about their emotions, now you\u2019ve finally met someone who\u2019s completely different. <\/p>\n A man who doesn\u2019t have a problem with telling and showing you how much you mean to him.<\/p>\n Un uomo che ti fa gesti romantici e sorprese fin dal primo giorno.<\/p>\n A man who opens up to you, makes you a part of his life, listens to you, and \u2013 finally \u2013 a man who obviously loves you unconditionally.<\/p>\n Un uomo perfetto che ha incrociato il vostro cammino proprio nel momento in cui ne avevate pi\u00f9 bisogno. <\/p>\n Yes, you might get suspicious. You two have known each other for a very short period of time and despite that, he claims that you\u2019re the love of his life and that he plans on spending eternity with you.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, dimenticate rapidamente i vostri dubbi semplicemente perch\u00e9 volete e dovete credergli.<\/p>\n Ebbene, lasciate che vi dica che questo pu\u00f2 costarvi un sacco di nervi ed \u00e8 probabilmente uno dei vostri pi\u00f9 grandi errori, perch\u00e9 il love bombing \u00e8 uno dei primi segni sicuri che qualcuno vi sta prendendo in giro. <\/p>\n When you first meet a guy who has the intention of love bombing you, you can\u2019t believe that you got so lucky and wonder whether he\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n Ebbene, per quanto mi dispiaccia essere io a rompere la vostra bolla di sapone, la triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che \u00e8 cos\u00ec. <\/p>\n Un altro segnale che indica che un ragazzo sta fingendo per il futuro sono i suoi promesse vuote<\/a>. Whenever you two talk, he has big plans for your relationship and does his best to convince you he\u2019s honest. <\/p>\n Even if he hasn\u2019t proposed, he\u2019s definitely talking about the way your life together should look like, about buying a house \u2013 he even mentions names for your future kids.<\/p>\n Sembra una favola, vero?<\/p>\n Well, sadly, it\u2019s everything but that. <\/p>\n The problem lies in the fact that this man\u2019s actions rarely match his words.<\/p>\n Actually, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll notice that in most situations, he doesn\u2019t stand behind what he preaches and ends up apologizing for his lies, promising he\u2019ll never repeat them. <\/p>\n And I\u2019m not talking about promises regarding the distant future here only.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking short term plans as well, such as proposing a dinner date and then standing you up, planning a vacation and then leaving you hanging, or even lying that he\u2019ll call you back in a few minutes, which never happens. <\/p>\n At first, all of this might seem irrelevant and something you should forgive him for in a blink of an eye, in comparison to all the love he\u2019s giving you.<\/p>\n However, one thing\u2019s for sure: he\u2019s a bugiardo compulsivo<\/a> che sfrutta ogni occasione per ingannarvi. <\/p>\n Let\u2019s be straight: if you can\u2019t rely on him regarding these small things, what can you expect when it comes to something more important?<\/p>\n If he isn\u2019t trustworthy and you can\u2019t count on him fulfilling his promise about taking you out, how can you believe him when he tells you that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you?<\/p>\n Well, the only possible answer is that you can\u2019t. In fact, it seems that he\u2019s doing all of this on purpose.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like he enjoys seeing you looking forward to your plans together, just so he can disappoint you when he crushes all of your hopes and dreams. <\/p>\n L'aspetto peggiore dei future-faker \u00e8 la loro natura versatile.<\/p>\n Questo ragazzo user\u00e0 le sue tecniche subdole per manipolarvi al fine di scoprire cosa volete e vi aspettate dalla vita, solo per poter rispecchiare tutti i vostri desideri e presentarsi come il vostro uomo perfetto.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll analyze your every word and observe your behavior carefully until he gets all the intel he needs.<\/p>\n After he\u2019s done with his investigation, he\u2019ll suddenly show up and tell you that he wants exactly those things. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t notice any of this and instead be certain that you\u2019ve found your soulmate.<\/p>\n After all those wrong men, you\u2019ve finally met someone completely compatible with you. <\/p>\n Obviously, you\u2019ll see it as a sign of destiny. As a sign that voi due siete destinati a stare insieme<\/a> because there\u2019s no other valid explanation for running into a man whose personality is the spitting image of yours. <\/p>\n There\u2019s no doubt that he\u2019s the man you\u2019ve been waiting your entire life for. He\u2019s your other half and your match made in heaven. <\/p>\n Oh boy, how wrong you are. Even though it\u2019s nice having a boyfriend with a similar attitude and outlook to yours, the truth is that it\u2019s utterly impossible to not disagree on literally everything. <\/p>\n La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che questo uomo tossico<\/a> doesn\u2019t have an opinion of his own and even when he does, he carefully hides it because it\u2019s different from yours.<\/p>\n He\u2019s nothing but a people pleaser who\u2019s pretending to be someone he\u2019s not in order to get under your skin with more ease. <\/p>\n At first, narcissists only show you their good sides. According to the first impression, they\u2019re everything a woman could ever wish for: loving, caring, attentive, and kind. <\/p>\n Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, le loro maschere iniziano lentamente a cadere, nonostante le loro straordinarie capacit\u00e0 di recitazione. \u00c8 allora che mostrano i loro veri colori e i loro difetti. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, even when this happens, they won\u2019t allow you to leave them. Instead, they keep on reassuring you that they won\u2019t go back to their old ways.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re involved with a future-faker, he\u2019ll blackmail you that he\u2019ll change<\/a> nel momento in cui, ad esempio, andate a vivere insieme o celebrate il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n However, he isn\u2019t ready to show you any inkling of these changes he keeps talking about at this point of your relationship. <\/p>\nHe promises a lot\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n…but his actions don\u2019t match his words<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nRispecchia i vostri desideri<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPromette di cambiare<\/h2>\n
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