{"id":50269,"date":"2019-12-26T17:39:21","date_gmt":"2019-12-26T17:39:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50269"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:56:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:56:03","slug":"sentimenti-catturati-per-la-persona-sbagliata-6-modi-per-farli-sparire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sentimenti-catturati-per-la-persona-sbagliata-6-modi-per-farli-sparire\/","title":{"rendered":"Provare sentimenti per il ragazzo sbagliato? 6 modi per farli sparire"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando l'avete conosciuto, eravate convinti di aver finalmente incontrato il <\/span>persona giusta<\/span>Il vostro uomo dei sogni, il vostro principe azzurro (ok, credo che abbiate capito il punto) perch\u00e9 era semplicemente DIVERSO e perch\u00e9 faceva tutte le cose giuste! <\/span><\/p>\n

You thought you were dreaming because you couldn’t believe that this was happening to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You couldn’t believe that you finally met that one guy who is a total keeper, right?!<\/span><\/p>\n

You caught feelings quickly, or better said in a record time, out of fear that you’ll wake up and realize that you were in a coma or in a long, awesome dream, and you simply didn’t want to risk losing all of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hai convinto il tuo cuore che questa volta sar\u00e0 diverso, perch\u00e9 questo ragazzo \u00e8 tutto ci\u00f2 che hai sempre voluto e di cui hai bisogno.<\/span><\/p>\n

But now, you actually have no idea where he is, what he’s doing or thinking because this guy, your dream guy, has simply disappeared into thin air. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Or he’s <\/span>sms<\/span> abitudini si sono trasformate in <\/span>testi di una sola parola<\/span><\/a> twice a month because of some super important things he can’t miss, not even if his life was at stake.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only time he’s willing to make a serious effort is when he needs to think of a perfect excuse and make you think that you’re the crazy one (or at least try to).<\/span><\/p>\n

But, you know that all of this is bullshit because you’ve probably been playing detective as every woman out there who is <\/span>sensazione di tristezza<\/span>, ferito e deluso. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know exactly how much time he spends on social networks, and how full of shit he really is, but you don’t understand one thing: <\/span><\/p>\n

Non avete idea<\/b> perch\u00e9 ti permetti di <\/b>catturare i sentimenti<\/b> so quickly for him like he’s the <\/b>solo persona<\/b> nel mondo, come se <\/b>innamorarsi<\/b> equals breathing and you wanted to make sure that you’re getting the right amount of it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Che cosa hai fatto di male? Come hai potuto pensare che fosse <\/span>relazione a lungo termine<\/span><\/a> material when in reality he’s more of a <\/span>FWB<\/span> – ‘<\/span>amici con benefici<\/span>‘, ‘<\/span>incontro occasionale<\/span> material’ or ‘no fucks given’ prick? <\/span><\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 impedire a se stessi di continuare <\/span>catturare i sentimenti<\/span> per la persona sbagliata?<\/span><\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi ricordi una cosa: <\/span>Fare di un ragazzo la vostra priorit\u00e0 fin dall'inizio, senza dargli prima un po' di tempo per meritarselo, non far\u00e0 altro che fargli perdere interesse e darvi per scontate. <\/b><\/p>\n

And that is how your \u201cright guy\u201d becomes the wrong guy!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

So, no matter how much you’re excited about your <\/span>carino<\/span> pie, your new special guy, you can’t act like you just went to a <\/span>negozio di alimentari<\/span> e vi siete trovati una novit\u00e0 perfetta che continuerete a venerare e a trattare con particolare attenzione senza prima verificarne la qualit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because the more you’re going out of your way to initiate things, to surprise him, to always be there when he needs you (and even when he doesn’t), to be just perfect, the more you will push him away from yourself! Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because no one in the world will ever choose to reciprocate if you’re constantly putting them on a pedestal even when they didn’t deserve any of it. And now it’s time to stop doing all of that!<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to smettere di provare sentimenti per le persone sbagliate <\/a><\/span>e di lavorare per preservare il rispetto e l'amore per se stessi. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to look at the other, brighter side of the road which will both help you delete the feelings you caught for the wrong guy and prevent you from repeating it in the future!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Rimanete attivi nella vostra vita sociale e apprezzate le altre connessioni.<\/h2>\n

\"Scatto<\/p>\n

When we’re being ignored, taken for granted or disrespected by someone we’re crazy about, the first thing that comes to our mind naturally is how lonely we are all of a sudden. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s so easy to lose ourselves while chasing someone we believed was the <\/span>persona giusta<\/span> per noi.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, you need to know that you’re not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

Per qualche tempo sei stata accecata perch\u00e9 l'unica cosa a cui riuscivi a pensare era lui. Avete riposto tutte le vostre speranze in questa avventura romantica, tanto da dimenticare che avete anche altri legami. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hai trascorso molto tempo immaginando di accoccolarti accanto a lui mentre guardavi il tuo programma televisivo preferito, <\/span>coccole<\/span> and kissing until you got tired of it, and you probably even imagined how you’re going to spend the next few years and what exactly you will be doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

E anche se non vi ha mai dato alcuna rassicurazione su tutto questo, semplicemente non avete mai smesso di sognare perch\u00e9 vi faceva sentire cos\u00ec bene, giusto? <\/span><\/p>\n

And now that you’re aware of the fact that you caught feelings for the wrong guy, you want to get rid of them ASAP. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ebbene, la chiave per liberarsene sta nel rendersi conto che <\/b>hai la tua vita<\/b><\/a> con persone straordinarie. Tutto quello che dovete fare \u00e8 riconnettervi con loro! <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to recognize the endless possibilities you have at your disposal, and forget that one guy because he doesn’t deserve to be the centre of your universe! <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve tried <\/span>abbastanza volte<\/span> per farlo funzionare e <\/span>hai tutto il diritto di continuare a frequentare altri (e dovresti farlo), anche se ti sembra strano. Perch\u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you never know whom you’re going to meet. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only reason why you think that the guy you caught feelings for is the only guy you should ever consider being with is because you made yourself think so. You wanted to believe it even though it’s a complete lie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t limit your potential because that way, you’ll never learn how to reach greatness! <\/b><\/p>\n

Invece di inseguire ciecamente l'uomo sbagliato, dovreste continuare a frequentare, rimanere attive nella vostra vita sociale e mantenere i legami con i vostri amici. <\/span>migliori amici<\/span> e la famiglia, perch\u00e9 lo dovete a voi stessi!<\/span><\/p>\n

And, trust me, you deserve it. You deserve someone to whom you’ll be the centre of attention, who will spoil you, and who will know how to reciprocate. <\/span><\/p>\n

You deserve someone who will be crazy about you just the way you’re crazy about him!<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>7 Shocking Reasons Why We Chase Those We Can’t Have <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Mettete in discussione i vostri sentimenti (o trovate qualcosa che vi spinga a farlo).<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

The number one reason why is it so hard to stop thinking about someone we shouldn’t be crazy about is because we still think they’re awesome <\/span>(anche se finiamo per essere in un <\/span>friendzone<\/span>)<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We’re convinced that they are the embodiment of greatness because we wanted to believe it and not because it’s true.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve caught feelings for the wrong guy, you need to question those feelings because they are not real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Probabilmente lo avete immaginato come un ragazzo perfetto che vi render\u00e0 felici, che vi far\u00e0 sentire speciali e che lotter\u00e0 per voi perch\u00e9 solo lui \u00e8 in grado di farlo. Oppure lo \u00e8?<\/span><\/p>\n

The sole fact that he’s not reciprocating or at least trying to do so tells a lot about his character and priorities. <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to cut all of this at the very root, and you’ll do it by focusing on his flaws instead of “qualities.”<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s really hard to forget someone<\/a> when you’re constantly focused on imagining a future with them and perceiving them as a god\/goddess because by doing that, you’re downplaying yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

By doing that, you’re convincing yourself that you’re not good enough or that you’re not worthy of being with them and that you need to pursue them even harder in order for them to notice you.<\/span><\/p>\n

No. <\/span>Dovete fare l'esatto contrario.<\/span><\/i> You need to realize that they’re an imperfect human being just like yourself, and they have tons of flaws and negative sides just like everyone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se rimaneste con loro, la vostra relazione sarebbe tutt'altro che perfetta e lontana da come l'avevate immaginata. <\/span><\/p>\n

Question your feelings, question your investment, and do a reality check because it’s the only way to realizing that you deserve better than what you’re accepting in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Stabilite degli obiettivi personali e lavorate per raggiungerli<\/h2>\n

\"concetto<\/p>\n

You know what’s the best cure for everything and especially for forgetting the guy you caught feelings for? It’s distracting yourself and being busy. But, not any kind of being busy. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s about being busy for the sake of improving your life, <\/span>raggiungere importanti obiettivi di vita<\/span><\/a>e di diventare la versione migliore di se stessi. Pensateci in questo modo:<\/span><\/p>\n

If you continue constantly thinking about some guy who doesn’t even know you exist or who doesn’t bother knowing that you exist or reciprocating, you will waste large amounts of your time that no one will ever return to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can return the dresses you just bought in every shop, you can apologize and make up for something you’ve done wrong, but you can never turn back time, no matter what you did. <\/span><\/p>\n

Time is the only thing more worthwhile than anything in the world, and you how to be careful of how you’re using it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wasting it on thinking about ‘What if’ or ‘I should have’, make some personal goals, and work toward them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di perdere tempo a pensare al ragazzo che volete dimenticare, concentratevi sull'arricchimento della vostra vita con prospettive diverse, imparando nuove lingue, trovando nuovi hobby e diventando la versione migliore di voi stessi!<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you are all you\u2019ve got, and wouldn’t it be better to use your potential and turn your life into an awesome story instead of using it to keep regretting something that wasn’t even meant to be?<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Pi\u00f9 lo inseguite, pi\u00f9 vi fate del male da soli<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. Don’t act on any of your impulses<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Se volete dimenticarlo e cancellarlo dalla vostra vita, dovete imparare a non agire su nessuno dei vostri impulsi! Che cosa significa?<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa controllare l'impulso a mandargli un sms per la centesima volta, controllare l'impulso che vi spinge a chiamarlo, a smettere di perseguitarlo sui social media o a esprimere qualsiasi tipo di dichiarazione d'amore e di affetto per lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete capire la differenza tra i vostri impulsi e i vostri sentimenti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gli impulsi sono quelle piccole voci nella vostra testa che vi costringono a fare le cose solo per soddisfare voglie incontrollabili e irragionevoli che sono tossiche per il vostro benessere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che sentite un forte desiderio di vederlo, chiamarlo o mandargli un messaggio, ricordatevelo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remind yourself that what you’re feeling is not real, and, therefore, you should not be acting on any of it because these are just impulses that can be IGNORED. <\/span><\/p>\n

Capite che questo non ha nulla a che fare con i vostri veri sentimenti e ripetete spesso questa frase:<\/span><\/p>\n

“I’m aware of the fact that <\/span><\/i>Ho preso<\/span><\/i> sentimenti per lui, e ancora <\/span><\/i>i miei sentimenti<\/span><\/i> are the ones preventing me from letting go, thus making me do stupid things.”<\/span><\/i> <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Triste<\/p>\n

Per il <\/b>prima volta<\/b> in your life, delete him from every social media app, turn off your phone, and the most important thing – STOP HOPING that things will change magically somehow.<\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe they will, maybe they won’t, but one thing is sure: Nothing will ever change as long as you’re still chasing him and acting on your impulses!<\/b><\/p>\n

You need to detach yourself from these toxic urges to still be a part of his life because it’s not healthy, and it will not bring you anything good. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t deserve to waste your life on waiting for someone to start noticing you or to change their behavior and start reciprocating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate di essere felici nel momento, di notare tutte quelle piccole cose che vi portano gioia, di bere le vostre bevande preferite, di ballare con la vostra musica preferita e di divertirvi come non mai con i vostri amici. <\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate di vivere una vita spensierata e di essere guidati dall'eccitazione e da tutte le cose belle che la vita pu\u00f2 offrire. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, say \u2018yes\u2019 to freedom and say \u2018no\u2019 to acting on your impulses! Say \u2018yes\u2019 to happiness and say \u2018no\u2019 to torture!<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>Dimenticatevi di lui a meno che non sia disposto a fare queste 7 cose per voi<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

5. Aumentare la cura di s\u00e9 e imparare ad amarsi di pi\u00f9<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

One of the sad reasons why we often lose ourselves at some point in our lives is because we’re not satisfied with ourselves. <\/span><\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, tendiamo a cercare la convalida degli altri per sentirci di nuovo degni. \u00c8 per questo che tendiamo a innamorarci in fretta e a tempo di record di qualcuno che percepiamo come un ideale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensiamo che se riusciamo a farci notare da loro, automaticamente aumenteremo il nostro valore e tutto andr\u00e0 al suo posto. Vogliamo sentirci amati, apprezzati e vogliamo diventare completi. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we feel that way, it’s so easy to get lost in chasing the wrong people and wrong ideals, and that is why you need to up your self-care and learn to love yourself more! <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to admit to yourself that you’re an imperfect human being with lots of flaws and that’s exactly what makes you so unique and beautiful!<\/span><\/p>\n

Viziatevi con lunghi bagni di schiuma, rileggete i vostri libri preferiti, praticate quotidianamente affermazioni positive, andate in palestra e concentratevi solo sulle cose positive. <\/span><\/p>\n

Amate voi stessi abbastanza da non permettere che qualcosa nella vostra vita vi prosciughi o vi faccia sentire meno degni.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love yourself enough to forgive yourself for not treating yourself like a priority. Love yourself enough to stop only focusing on other people’s happiness\u2014learn to be the master of your own!<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Trovare la forza di accettare le cose che non si possono cambiare<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili da fare nella vita \u00e8 trovare la forza di accettare le cose che non si possono cambiare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever we\u2019re having difficulties in our life, we instantly focus on finding the reason why this is happening to us and how can we make it right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma a volte, o per essere pi\u00f9 precisi, la maggior parte delle volte, l'unica cosa che dobbiamo fare \u00e8 ACCETTARE. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dobbiamo trovare la forza di accettare le cose che non possiamo cambiare. <\/span><\/p>\n

So what if he’s not answering your calls,<\/span> sms<\/span> indietro<\/span><\/a> o di mostrare affetto? <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of being mad at yourself, the people around you and Lord knows whom else, decide to find the strength to accept it because you can’t change it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il <\/b>solo persona<\/b> who can change his behavior is himself, and if he still hasn’t decided to do so, there’s no need to bother yourself with it, to overthink or to constantly keep finding solutions that will help you change things. <\/b><\/p>\n

A volte, l'unica cosa saggia da fare \u00e8 non fare nulla e accettare le cose cos\u00ec come sono.<\/span><\/p>\n

A volte \u00e8 necessario cadere per rialzarsi e diventare pi\u00f9 forti, pi\u00f9 saggi e imparare a volersi pi\u00f9 bene. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il <\/span>linea di fondo <\/span> is you need to give up on expecting things, and focus on what you already have in front of you\u2014focus on what’s real and worthy of your time and effort! <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to treat yourself with respect, and work on boosting your self-love because that’s the only way to finding true happiness!<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che ci si trova <\/span>catturare i sentimenti<\/span> per la persona sbagliata, dovete fare un respiro profondo e concentrarvi sull'apprezzare tutto l'amore e le cose che avete gi\u00e0 nella vostra vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devi rimanere attiva nella tua vita sociale e devi continuare a mettere in discussione i tuoi sentimenti per lui, invece di lasciare che ti divorino.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete porvi degli obiettivi personali e sforzarvi di raggiungerli, invece di vivere nell'illusione, sperando segretamente che lui cambi idea da un giorno all'altro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete continuare a vivere la vostra vita migliore e nel momento in cui inizierete a farlo, anche tutto il resto andr\u00e0 al suo posto! <\/span><\/p>\n

Nel frattempo, concentratevi sulla cattura di altre cose, come suggerisce la seguente citazione sui sentimenti catturati: <\/span>“Catch flights, not feelings!” – <\/span><\/i>Sconosciuto<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/span>11 Things To Do When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Him<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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