{"id":50479,"date":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50479"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","slug":"come-scegliere-tra-due-uomini-con-laiuto-di-queste-13-domande","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-scegliere-tra-due-uomini-con-laiuto-di-queste-13-domande\/","title":{"rendered":"Come scegliere tra due uomini? Con l'aiuto di queste 13 domande"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m guessing that right now you’re in quite a predicament. You’ve opened up il tuo cuore <\/a>e ha deciso di far entrare finalmente qualcuno.<\/p>\n

Ma cosa didn’t<\/i> L'aspettativa era che due ragazzi entrassero nel tuo mondo e lo mettessero sottosopra.<\/p>\n

In qualche modo, a un certo punto, avete conosciuto un <\/i>nuovo ragazzo<\/i> che si sono sentiti tutti i tipi di destra, fino a quando non hai incontrato il <\/i>secondo ragazzo<\/i>Chi ti ha fatto pensare di aver fatto il <\/i>decisione sbagliata<\/i> earlier… but did you really?<\/i><\/p>\n

Now, you’ve got a great guy you can’t get out of your head but guy number two is seriously proving to be the right man as well.<\/p>\n

E onestamente, per una ragazza che \u00e8 stata single per cos\u00ec tanto tempo, come puoi trovarti ora in un triangolo amoroso che ti impedisce di prendere buone decisioni?<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You’ve always been into monogamy. You respect other people’s choices but you’re a one-man woman and swaying from that never crossed your mind until you met two men who won you over and swept you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Now you’re che <\/i>girl. The girl you promised you’d never be. The kind who seemingly plays with the hearts of two men, trying to make the best out of this situation.<\/p>\n

Only you’re not. You’re not enjoying this. You don’t want to be playing with anyone’s feelings. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You didn’t plan for this to happen. You just wanted to meet <\/i><\/b>Mr.Right<\/i><\/b><\/a> who’d turn out to be a really <\/i><\/b>bravo ragazzo<\/i><\/b> e diventare il vostro <\/i><\/b>migliore amico<\/i><\/b>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Spending time with him would hopefully lead to a long-term relationship and you’d know that loving him would be the right decision.<\/p>\n

But finding TWO of these guys you’d eventually fall in love with was beyond your wildest dreams…<\/p>\n

Come \u00e8 successo?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ti ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo per riuscire a uscire di nuovo con qualcuno dopo la tua ultima relazione seria. <\/p>\n

Vi siete messi in gioco. Siete entrati di nuovo nella scena degli appuntamenti e finalmente avete abbattuto i vostri muri.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 stata una bella sensazione. Stavi iniziando a sentirti di nuovo te stesso e questo ti ha dato la spinta necessaria per andare l\u00e0 fuori con una missione.<\/p>\n

E l'hai fatto. Sembrava che finalmente avessi trovato te stesso <\/i><\/b>a <\/i><\/b>buon uomo<\/i><\/b><\/a>. He was kind, he seemed genuine and he didn’t immediately try to get in your pants. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And in today’s world, that’s a huge plus.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He was easy to talk to and seemed to really like you back. There didn’t seem to be any obvious deal-breakers and you set up a follow-up date and you actually looked forward to it!<\/p>\n

Poi arriv\u00f2 il secondo uomo.<\/i><\/b> <\/p>\n

All'improvviso, un altro ragazzo si \u00e8 avvicinato a te e ti ha parlato. Quell'uomo ci sapeva fare. L'intesa sessuale era fuori scala ed era anche facile parlare con lui.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 successo davvero? Hai davvero incontrato un altro candidato legittimo per conquistare il tuo cuore? <\/p>\n

This felt like a dream. For so long, there didn’t seem to be anyone out there. The extent of a male presence in your life was a good friend.<\/p>\n

And now, you’re actually asking yourself come scegliere tra due uomini<\/i>! La vita \u00e8 davvero un montagne russe.<\/a><\/p>\n

But luckily, you’re in the right place. I’ve had experience on this front (and then some!) so I know just how to help you choose between two men.<\/p>\n

13 domande per aiutarvi a scegliere<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It sucks being in this conundrum but there’s a way out. The only thing is, you’re going to have to devote some serious time and energy toward resolving this and it’s not going to be easy.<\/p>\n

If you feel like one of these two men could end up making you a better person, at the end of the day, that’s all that really matters.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una cosa importante e meritate di trovare il vostro uomo. amore vero<\/a> da questo triangolo amoroso.<\/p>\n

I’m going to show you some questions that will help you find what you’re looking for and weed out the one who’s only apparentemente<\/i> giusto per voi.<\/p>\n

I know that right now it feels like it’s both of them but trust me, out of these two guys, there’s a real winner and I’m going to help you find him. Your gut feeling is going to play a vital role here as well.<\/p>\n

Il tuo cuore ti ha messo in questo guaio, ma la tua testa ti tirer\u00e0 fuori. <\/b><\/p>\n

Choosing between two men is a mighty task but after you’re done with this, it’ll all be worth it. Right now there are two guys, one girl and a huge decision to be made. <\/p>\n

One that’s about to change three love lives. Are you ready to make the right decision and find the best man out of the bunch? I hope you are because questo <\/i>is how you’ll do it!<\/p>\n

Cosa l'ha attirata in questi due uomini?<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

What was the thing that made you feel so drawn to the first guy and what was it that you couldn’t resist about the second guy?<\/p>\n

Since you’re in this tricky situation, you must really be into both of these men and the attraction surpasses a physical one. So think about it this way: What was it that drew you to the first guy? <\/p>\n

At first, I’m sure it was his looks (you’re only human) but when you got to talking, you probably realized he was more than just a hunk.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato il suo senso dell'umorismo a coinvolgervi? \u00c8 stato il suo cervello o il modo in cui la sua ambizione brillava mentre vi parlava delle sue iniziative imprenditoriali?<\/p>\n

E ora torniamo al secondo ragazzo. Come ha fatto a rubarti il cuore dopo essere stato conquistato dal primo ragazzo?<\/p>\n

He must’ve really had something special for you to fall for him without wanting to.<\/p>\n

Tornate al giorno in cui lo avete incontrato, pensate bene alle cose che vi attraevano allora e confrontatele con il punto in cui vi trovate ora.<\/p>\n

Which guy made you weak at the knees? Whose personality shined brighter? It might be a close race but it’ll bring you one step closer to finding your guy.<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on one guy?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

This one will tell you a lot. Reminisce about when you’re spending time with one guy and think back to how it made you feel (other than wanting to jump his bones).<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on the other?<\/p>\n

Ti \u00e8 mai capitato di pensare che uno dei due ragazzi si arrabbiasse di pi\u00f9 per aver scoperto il triangolo amoroso rispetto all'altro?<\/p>\n

If so, that could be the guy you’ve forged a stronger bond with, the guy you feel like you’re being unfaithful to.<\/p>\n

Subconsciously, you probably already know which one he is but it doesn’t hurt to reevaluate it again.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, your heart already knows the answer that your brain doesn’t want to accept. Clearly, these two guys are both good men. But which one is l'uomo giusto<\/a> per voi?<\/p>\n

Ascoltate il vostro cuore. Vi ha portato a questa situazione, ma potrebbe aiutarvi a ritrovare la strada.<\/p>\n

Which one makes your heart beat faster? That’s the guy for you.<\/p>\n

Chi \u00e8 pronto a impegnarsi?<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, entrambi gli uomini sono pronti a darvi ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno fino a un certo punto. Ma chi dei due \u00e8 pi\u00f9 in sintonia con le vostre idee e speranze per il futuro?<\/p>\n

You obviously want to build a long-lasting thing here, right? And one guy might be readier to give it to you than the other, it’s just a matter of figuring out which one.<\/p>\n

Have you been able to talk openly about the future with both these guys? Are they both on the same page with you when it comes to your relationship and where it’s going?<\/p>\n

Con quale dei due si ha una vera sintonia quando \u00e8 importante?<\/p>\n

This is really important to figure out because they both seem perfect now. But what you need is someone who’ll remain in harmony with your vision in the years to come.<\/p>\n

Don’t let this current infatuation fool you. With time, it’s going to die down. And then, you’ll be left with two men and less sure of anything than ever before.<\/p>\n

So now is the time to evaluate who’s on your wavelength and who needs to go.<\/p>\n

Quale delle due ti fa desiderare di essere una persona migliore?<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

L'uomo con cui passate la vostra vita dovrebbe farvi desiderare di essere al meglio. Dovrebbe essere la persona che vi spinge a diventare la donna che sa che potete essere e che nel frattempo vi fornisce amore e sostegno.<\/p>\n

Never settle for a man who doesn’t make you amare se stessi<\/a>. Questo \u00e8 un segnale di allarme immediato.<\/p>\n

Quindi ora dovete considerare quale di questi due ragazzi vi fa venire voglia di raggiungere le stelle.<\/p>\n

Quale dei due vi fa desiderare di raggiungere l'impossibile e vi fa sentire effettivamente in grado di farlo?<\/p>\n

Be with the guy who’s the wind beneath your wings, not the guy who cuts them off.<\/p>\n

Come si collocano questi due uomini rispetto alle vostre esigenze?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Pensate a ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno e alle cose che volete da un uomo. Chiedetevi di che tipo di uomo avete veramente bisogno nella vostra vita e iniziate a fare un confronto. <\/p>\n

Fate un elenco e controllate punto per punto tutte le caselle in cui si trova ciascun uomo. Come si posizionano? Chi controlla pi\u00f9 caselle?<\/p>\n

The guy who fits better on paper is probably the guy you’ll have a more promising future with.<\/p>\n

At this point, you know exactly what you need in a man and what you don’t have time for. So help yourself by weeding out the guy who doesn’t have what it takes to go the distance.<\/p>\n

Sure, it’s all rainbows and butterflies now but will it stay that way in the foreseeable future? It’s vital to think ahead.<\/p>\n

Which of them has more qualities that you need in a man? You’ve been settling for far too long.<\/p>\n

Now, choose the man who’ll never make you settle again.<\/p>\n

Quanto conosci davvero questi ragazzi?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to choose between two men, this could be the deal-breaker. I know this isn’t ideal to hear but ask yourself how well you truly know them.<\/p>\n

Quali informazioni hanno condiviso con voi finora? Li conoscete a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo o pi\u00f9 superficiale?<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, l'intesa sessuale \u00e8 fantastica, ma una relazione a lungo termine va ben oltre il sesso.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 un ragazzo che conoscete un po' meglio dell'altro? Hanno mai parlato del loro background familiare?<\/p>\n

These are all crucial boxes to check before deciding. Don’t get involved in a serious relationship with a guy who isn’t willing to share his life story with you.<\/p>\n

Con quali difetti \u00e8 pi\u00f9 accettabile convivere?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Okay, so it goes without saying that by now you must’ve come across certain flaws with each man.<\/p>\n

Nobody’s without their imperfections and it’s only a matter of whose flaws are less detrimental to your lifestyle.<\/p>\n

What is it that you don’t like about man A and what puts you off man B?<\/p>\n

Does it feel possible to accept both these guys’ shortcomings and live that way without going insane or is there one of these guys whose flaws are less annoying?<\/p>\n

Nobody’s judging here. We’re all deeply flawed human beings. But this is YOUR life we’re talking about. You’re the one who has to live life alongside one of these men.<\/p>\n

So why not make it easier on yourself and choose the guy who doesn’t make you want to rip his head off every other day?<\/p>\n

E l'intesa sessuale?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ora arriviamo alla parte pi\u00f9 succosa. Chi vi fa venir voglia di salirgli addosso nel momento stesso in cui vi guardate? Chi capisce tutte le vostre esigenze sessuali senza che voi dobbiate dire una parola?<\/p>\n

Which one makes you forget about the outside world and pleases you in a way you haven’t experienced in a long time?<\/p>\n

I’m guessing both of them are good in the sack, otherwise you wouldn’t be in such a dilemma but when you really think about it, there HAS to be a clear winner here.<\/p>\n

Sexual chemistry is a huge part of a relationship. Which one gets your rocks off the moment you see them? Answer this and you’re so much closer to the right decision.<\/p>\n

Which one would you choose if they weren’t physically attractive?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Take away their looks. Imagine you couldn’t see their faces at all. Now think about it this way: Which guy would you go for if all you had to go on was what you hear and feel when you’re near them?<\/p>\n

Chi \u00e8 pi\u00f9 affascinante quando vi parla? La presenza di chi vi mette a vostro agio?<\/p>\n

You’re looking for an emotional and physical connection. Now that you’ve taken physicality out of the equation, which guy wins il tuo cuore<\/a>? <\/p>\n

A quale ragazzo siete pi\u00f9 legati emotivamente? Chi rende pi\u00f9 facile essere vulnerabili e crudi con loro?<\/p>\n

Cosa pensa la tua migliore amica di ogni ragazzo?<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Questo mi ha aiutato molto. Ammettetelo, il tuo migliore amico<\/a> knows you better than almost anybody else and she’d die for you. <\/p>\n

You KNOW she’d never let you be with a guy undeserving of you so if she has a strong opinion on each guy, I’d listen to her!<\/p>\n

She sees them more clearly than you do and since she knows you to your core, she’ll know which of these two guys brings out the best in you.<\/p>\n

If she’s ever seen you with them or listened to you talking about them, she can easily help you choose the guy who’s a better candidate for your love.<\/p>\n

Ask her and know that she’s probably right, no matter what her opinion is.<\/p>\n

Con quale ragazzo puoi essere tranquilla ma a tuo agio?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If I’m with a guy, I have to be able to sit in silence with him and be completely comfortable, otherwise what’s the point?<\/p>\n

Non sempre si ha voglia di essere chiacchieroni, quindi bisogna stare con un ragazzo che possa stare in silenzio con voi e divertirsi e viceversa.<\/p>\n

Quando siete a corto di cose di cui parlare, quale ragazzo vi fa venire voglia di andarvene e quale invece vi fa venire voglia di rimanere l\u00ec a godervi il silenzio mentre vi coccolate comodamente?<\/p>\n

State con l'uomo con cui potete essere una chiacchierona un giorno e con cui non dovete nascondere la vostra riluttanza a parlare di qualsiasi cosa il giorno dopo.<\/p>\n

It’s so vital to be able to share the silent moments with each other!<\/p>\n

Un ragazzo che capisce il tuo silenzio e resta al tuo fianco \u00e8 un ragazzo per cui vale la pena lottare<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Il nome di chi si illumina sullo schermo vi rende pi\u00f9 felici?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You know that feeling when you’re texting with a guy and you just can’t wipe that smile off your face? Well, that says everything about how he makes you feel and more!<\/p>\n

Quale ragazzo vi fa venire voglia di saltare di gioia quando vedete il suo nome sul vostro telefono? Quale vi fa mantenere quel sorriso sciocco per tutta la conversazione?<\/p>\n

In a serious relationship, it’s SO important to still have that almost childlike joy around each other.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it such a reassuring feeling to know that after a lot of time has passed, you STILL get excited when you see or hear his name?<\/p>\n

And you just can’t get rid of that inner happiness because it makes you glow! Which guy makes you feel this way?<\/p>\n

Which guy can you talk to for hours on end without ever getting tired of them? THAT\u2019S your guy!<\/p>\n

Come vi trattano gli uomini?<\/h2>\n

\"il<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated like the amazing, kind woman you are. You’ve spent a lot of time considering their qualities, appearances and flaws. But what about how they are with YOU?<\/p>\n

Which guy treats you better? Which one makes you feel safe and taken care of (emotionally)? It’s important that you’re treated with the respect and effort that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Pensate a quelle piccole cose da gentiluomini che fanno. Come aprirvi le porte e spostarvi la sedia a cena.<\/p>\n

Taking your coat when you come over and being there for you emotionally whenever you’re struggling.<\/p>\n

Sono tutte chiare indicazioni di un uomo gentile, stabile e maturo che sa come una donna merita di essere trattata.<\/p>\n

Quale ragazzo vince questo round (estremamente importante)? Chi ti fa vedere un futuro insieme in base al suo comportamento nei tuoi confronti?<\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"\"How to choose between two men? That’s a question to wrap your head around, isn’t it? Being stuck on two guys really makes you wonder how the hell you’re supposed to choose just one!<\/p>\n

But deep down, you probably already know which guy is Mr.Right. You just can’t force yourself to make the right decision out of fear of making the wrong one.<\/p>\n

This is why I’m here. To help you make the right choice without a shadow of a doubt! These questions are designed to help you find your way out of a love triangle. <\/p>\n

Sono qui per aiutarvi a vedere questi uomini per quello che sono e per capire quanto le loro personalit\u00e0 si adattino alla vostra!<\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, avete bisogno di un uomo che vi garantisca stabilit\u00e0 e impegno serio. Certo, sulla carta sembrano entrambi fantastici. Ma solo uno \u00e8 quello giusto nel lungo periodo.<\/p>\n

And by answering the above 13 vital questions, you’re going to get the answer you’re looking for. As long as you’re being honest with yourself, you’ll get the right guy.<\/p>\n

Letting go of one of them feels like a nightmare right now. But once you make this tough choice, it’s going to feel like so much weight has been lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\n

Buona fortuna e ricordate di fidarvi sempre del vostro istinto!<\/p>\n

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