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<\/p>\nNon ci sono scuse per avere standard bassi in una relazione.<\/p>\n
Per quanto amiate un'altra persona o abbiate paura di rimanere soli, non dovreste mai accontentarvi di meno di quanto meritate.<\/p>\n
Dimenticatevi di quelli che vi accusano di essere troppo esigenti o di chiedere troppo.<\/p>\n
Avete abbastanza autostima per sapere cosa volete e questo \u00e8 qualcosa di cui essere orgogliosi. <\/p>\n
Tuttavia, come si fa a capire quali sono gli standard che dovrebbero essere i punti di rottura? Come potete sapere a quali cose dovete prestare particolare attenzione?<\/p>\n
Se queste sono le domande che vi frullano in testa, \u00e8 il momento di consultare il nostro elenco di standard relazionali, che rappresenta i requisiti minimi che dovreste ricercare in un potenziale partner. <\/p>\n
Elenco degli standard relazionali<\/p>\n
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Let\u2019s be real: you can\u2019t expect to enter a new relationship with someone you\u2019re not physically attracted to.<\/p>\n
Yes, there are other way more important things to look for while setting relationship standards, but you won\u2019t be able to get yourself to scratch underneath those layers if you don\u2019t first find them attractive.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t mean you necessarily have to be turned on by this person the moment you lay eyes on them \u2013 you just have to like them enough to be drawn to them.<\/p>\n
This person doesn\u2019t have to be beautiful or handsome according to society\u2019s standards \u2013 it is enough for them to be appealing to you.<\/p>\n
Naturalmente, l'attrazione fisica da sola non pu\u00f2 mai essere alla base di una relazione sana.<\/p>\n
Si pu\u00f2 condividere un'incredibile chimica con qualcuno, ma se voi due siete non compatibile<\/a>, things won\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n As much as you shouldn\u2019t limit yourself to just one type and reject a person just because they, for example, have brown hair and you prefer jet black. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t accuse yourself of being shallow or having overly high standards just because of a certain taste when it comes to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re just a human being who\u2019s in a search for a romantic partner, not a best friend.<\/p>\n Nel mondo moderno degli appuntamenti, non mettere un'etichetta su una relazione non \u00e8 niente di straordinario.<\/p>\n Molti uomini e donne passano mesi o addirittura anni a frequentare una persona senza mai chiamarsi davvero fidanzati e fidanzate.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. If both you and your current partner want to keep cose casual<\/a>, there is nothing remotely wrong with that, and it\u2019s not something you should be judged for.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, perdere tempo e aspettare che qualcuno abbia la decenza di decidere su di voi \u00e8 un grosso no.<\/p>\n After all, we\u2019re talking about setting RELATIONSHIP standards here, aren\u2019t we? So the bare minimum is to actually call all that\u2019s going on a romantic relationship before building it any further.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not old-fashioned for wanting to know where you stand and not accepting someone who\u2019ll lead you on.<\/p>\n You need a partner who won\u2019t have any doubts when it comes to choosing you. Someone who\u2019ll be proud to hold your hand in public.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet and you\u2019re completely right for wanting to make things official.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if the other person makes an issue out of this, it\u2019s clear that they don\u2019t match your standards and you shouldn\u2019t spend another minute next to them.<\/p>\n Secondo gli esperti di relazioni, un'altra rottura definitiva \u00e8 quella di frequentare qualcuno che pensa a voi come conveniente<\/a> e nient'altro.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t settle for a partner who\u2019s in your life just because it\u2019s time for a serious relationship or because they can\u2019t seem to find anyone better.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not too picky if you demand someone who won\u2019t treat you like plan B or the person they come to when everyone else turn their backs on them.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be your significant other\u2019s safety net or last resort, and don\u2019t let them equate your relationship to settling for less.<\/p>\n What you want is a partner who keeps on choosing you every day. Someone who can live without you but doesn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n Someone who wouldn\u2019t trade you for millions of other people and treats you not just like their first option, but the only option they\u2019re willing to even consider.<\/p>\n Despite what you might think, true love can\u2019t exist without mutual respect.<\/p>\n Si tratta quindi di uno dei must pi\u00f9 importanti a cui prestare attenzione prima di impegnarsi in qualcosa di serio con un'altra persona.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re a person and an individual before you\u2019re someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve invested too much in building yourself until now, so it\u2019d be silly to allow someone who\u2019s just walked into your life to treat you like you\u2019re not enough or not to respect you.<\/p>\n Significa che la persona amata deve rispettare anche le persone che la circondano.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not under any obligation to love your best friends and family members, but they certainly must respect the place they have in your life and heart.<\/p>\n Not only that \u2013 they also must have enough respect for your time, career, accomplishments, opinions, attitudes, wishes, and desires, as well as for your personal boundaries and space.<\/p>\n Senza rispetto, tutto il resto \u00e8 inutile.<\/p>\n After all, you can\u2019t expect to have a healthy relationship with someone who uses every opportunity to put you down, diminish your worth, or insult you in any way (especially in front of others).<\/p>\n Questi sono tutti enormi bandiere rosse<\/a> di mancanza di rispetto che dovreste tenere d'occhio.<\/p>\n Anche se molte persone confondono i termini rispetto e apprezzamento, gli esperti di relazioni dicono che questi due concetti sono in realt\u00e0 molto diversi, oltre ad avere alcune somiglianze.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re appreciated, your efforts and hard work are not taken for granted and your current partner is aware that everything you\u2019re doing is for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you ought to expect constant gratitude for acting like every normal person should in a relationship.<\/p>\n Il vostro partner non \u00e8 obbligato a baciare la terra su cui camminate per ogni piccola cosa che fate per lui.<\/p>\n That said, it\u2019s nice knowing that you\u2019re not doing anything in vain, and that your efforts are seen and acknowledged.<\/p>\n It\u2019s nice knowing that the other person is thankful for the fact that you\u2019re giving your best, and appreciative of all the hard work you’re putting in this relationship.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, ci sono molte persone che hanno standard pi\u00f9 bassi del dovuto e pensano che la gelosia equivalga al vero amore.<\/p>\n S\u00ec, un po' di gelosia \u00e8 carina, ma quando supera il limite del buon gusto pu\u00f2 essere potenzialmente pericolosa.<\/p>\n Of course, your partner wouldn\u2019t stand still while watching you, for example, kiss another person.<\/p>\n It\u2019s natural for them to be afraid of losing you and therefore have a tiny dose of jealousy in themselves.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s completely different if your current partner is possessivo<\/a> and controlling, and this is the arrangement you shouldn\u2019t accept under any circumstances whatsoever.<\/p>\n This person needs to be aware that you\u2019ve had friends, family members, hobbies, and a life of your own before they tagged along, and that you won\u2019t throw it all away just because they\u2019ve become a part of it now.<\/p>\n It\u2019s insane to have a partner who forbids you to have friends of the opposite sex or hang out with your family members.<\/p>\n Uno che ti sta costantemente addosso, sospetta di ogni tua mossa, ti accusa costantemente di averti tradito senza alcuna prova concreta, controlla il tuo telefono alla ricerca di app per incontri, ti pedina o limita la tua libert\u00e0 in qualsiasi altro modo.<\/p>\n This is not love \u2013 it\u2019s a form of emotional slavery and something you should never put up with.<\/p>\n La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che in molti casi di relazioni sentimentali le persone si aspettano di cambiare l'altro in futuro.<\/p>\n You meet another human being that you think would be perfect for you \u2013 with slight modifications.<\/p>\n Raramente le persone si innamorano di altre persone. Si innamorano invece del loro potenziale e di chi potrebbero diventare.<\/p>\n Needless to say, when the expected change doesn\u2019t happen, problems arise. <\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly why your process of setting standards has to include finding a person who will accept you for who you really are.<\/p>\n Una persona che sar\u00e0 completamente consapevole dei vostri difetti senza mai cercare di cancellarli.<\/p>\n Si tratta di una persona che rafforza la vostra autostima e vi spinge ad andare avanti per diventare il vostro miglior s\u00e9, senza avere il bisogno di cambiarvi.<\/p>\n La persona chi vi ispira<\/a> to engage in more self care and self love, so you become better for yourself \u2013 not for them.<\/p>\n Yes, a healthy relationship is based on compromise, there\u2019s no doubt about that.<\/p>\n There will be hundreds of situations in which you\u2019ll probably have to meet your partner halfway or do some things you would prefer not doing.<\/p>\n Potreste apportare qualche cambiamento alle vostre abitudini o modificare alcune piccole cose che li infastidiscono.<\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow them to try and cambiamento<\/a> l'essenza della vostra personalit\u00e0 e vi trasforma in una persona completamente diversa.<\/p>\n Se ci\u00f2 accade, entrambi finirete per essere insoddisfatti.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll never be able to truly change you, which will make them unhappy while you\u2019ll be uneasy in the constant struggle between the person you really are and the person you ought to become according to their standards.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you see that your partner can\u2019t seem to accept the true you, walk away in time and save both of you a lot of unnecessary headaches, because they’re definitely not your soulmate.<\/p>\n Non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nell'avere una relazione senza legami, a patto che entrambi abbiate deciso che le cose siano cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, l'ultima cosa che si dovrebbe sperimentare \u00e8 quella di essere una chiamata per la persona che si ama veramente e con la quale si vuole qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n A mature relationship is much more than sex. It has to be based on other things as well. The same goes with intimacy \u2013 it\u2019s not only physical. It\u2019s built on many other levels.<\/p>\n Quindi, no, tu don’t have high standards<\/a> if you\u2019re content with a partner who pretends they like you just to get in your pants.<\/p>\n You should never settle for crumbs of someone\u2019s love and connect it with the attention they give to your body only.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re a whole package and if someone has a problem with that, they don\u2019t deserve getting parts of you either.<\/p>\n Se una persona vuole il vostro corpo, deve impegnarsi per conquistare anche il vostro cuore e il vostro cervello.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that good quality sex is not required for a well functioning love life \u2013 it definitely is.<\/p>\n You probably won\u2019t notice its importance while everything is in perfect order, but if it happens that things in the bedroom start going downhill or if you experience lack of sex, you\u2019ll immediately notice that your entire relationship is affected.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight. There\u2019s no such thing as people who are good or bad at sex, only ones who suit you or not. That\u2019s why you always have to have a sexually compatible partner. <\/p>\n Pertanto, avere le stesse preferenze sessuali, essere appassionati di cose simili e avere lo stesso desiderio di provare cose nuove (o meno) \u00e8 uno dei must di ogni relazione.<\/p>\n If that\u2019s not the case, neither of you will be happy under the sheets, which will sooner or later reflect on other aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n Also, when you’re setting standards, pay attention to the effort your partner puts in in the bedroom.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t be with someone who looks after their needs only and doesn\u2019t give a damn about your satisfaction.<\/p>\n Tutti noi abbiamo un bagaglio emotivo ed esperienze di vita amorosa che ci hanno plasmato per diventare ci\u00f2 che siamo oggi.<\/p>\n When you reach a certain age, it becomes impossible to find a person without any romantic history, and this isn\u2019t something you should factor in when setting relationship standards. <\/p>\n And you shouldn\u2019t try looking for them either, because someone’s past is not necessarily a red flag.<\/p>\n Whatever happened before you and whoever was a part of your partner\u2019s life before you came along doesn\u2019t endanger your place in it and shouldn\u2019t bother you.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you mustn\u2019t allow your partner to compare you to anyone, especially to their exes.<\/p>\n Let them know that you are a separate individual, have no intention of copying their past relationships, and are no one\u2019s rebound or replacement.<\/p>\n Besides, wherever you look, you\u2019ll find people who might be more attractive or smarter than you.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t mean that your partner should constantly compare you to any of these people or make you feel bad for not being someone else.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re special and unique just the way you are. If someone doesn\u2019t see it \u2013 their loss. They don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n Un importante standard di relazione che dovete stabilire fin dall'inizio \u00e8 l'impegno.<\/p>\n Non dovreste mai accontentarvi di un partner romantico che non si dedica completamente alla vostra relazione, nonostante l'amore che potreste provare per lui.<\/p>\n Dovete semplicemente sapere che questa persona \u00e8 emotivamente e mentalmente presente al cento per cento nella vostra relazione in ogni momento.<\/p>\n You have to be certain that your romance is as important to them as it is to you, and see that they\u2019re ready to put in the same amount of effort you are.<\/p>\n Avere un partner impegnato significa avere un partner che sa che la costruzione di una relazione \u00e8 un lavoro di squadra e che metter\u00e0 sempre il vostro amore in cima alla sua lista di priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n It\u2019s having someone who is ready to fight by your side, won\u2019t back out on you on the first sign of the slightest inconvenience, and will be there for you whenever you need them.<\/p>\n Tutti noi abbiamo il diritto di disinnamorarci delle nostre persone significative e il vostro partner non fa eccezione.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, se ci\u00f2 accade, hanno la possibilit\u00e0 di andarsene con dignit\u00e0 e il tradimento non \u00e8 mai un'opzione.<\/p>\n Remember: When a person loves you, they won\u2019t cheat on you. Everything else is empty excuses and lies.<\/p>\n This is something that shouldn\u2019t be especially noted; it\u2019s something that\u2019s a minimum requirement for every relationship.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, per\u00f2, ultimamente molte persone dimenticano l'importanza della fedelt\u00e0, per cui \u00e8 evidente che \u00e8 necessario ricordarla come uno standard a cui non si deve mai pensare di rinunciare.<\/p>\n What\u2019s also vital to keep in mind is that cheating is much more than sex or some other physical contact.<\/p>\n It includes flirting, using dating apps, and searching for someone new while you\u2019re still taken, as well as having an relazione emotiva<\/a>.<\/p>\n These are all the things you shouldn\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n Because if you tolerate it once, you\u2019re just giving the other person the green light to keep on hurting you, continue sneaking behind your back, and make you a fool once more.<\/p>\n Ogni relazione di successo, soprattutto quella sentimentale, \u00e8 una partnership con i suoi membri alla pari.<\/p>\n Therefore, one of your relationship standards should also be finding a partner who won\u2019t act as if they are above you in any way or expect you to always be the dominant one.<\/p>\n Dovete prendere tutte le decisioni insieme e avere la capacit\u00e0 di assumervi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle vostre azioni.<\/p>\n One person shouldn\u2019t be in charge and carry all the weight on their back, nor should anyone be treated as inferior.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll be intimidated by your success or use every opportunity to put you down and treat you like you\u2019re their servant.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll follow you or go ahead of you. Look for a partner who will walk through life next to you, shoulder to shoulder, holding your hand.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, ci sono situazioni in cui emotions simply aren\u2019t enough<\/a>, per quanto vogliamo che lo siano.<\/p>\n You can love someone with all of your heart, but if the two of you aren\u2019t compatible, there\u2019s no point in fighting for this relationship.<\/p>\n Le persone intelligenti cercano un partner che abbia una visione del mondo simile alla loro, la cui personalit\u00e0 si adatti al loro carattere, con il quale condividano obiettivi futuri comuni e che desideri le stesse cose dalla vita.<\/p>\n Doesn\u2019t sound overly romantic, I know, but it\u2019s reality and the only way a relationship can actually work out.<\/p>\n For example, if your lifelong dream is to become a parent, you can\u2019t expect to be happy with someone who doesn\u2019t plan on having kids.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t believe in marriage, you can\u2019t plan a future with a person who\u2019d never live with you unwed.<\/p>\n Lo stesso vale per la vostra attuale attenzione.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re into building a career right now, you can\u2019t get along with a partner who took a year off from work and decided to go and travel the world. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 all of us have our differences. But we\u2019re talking about some crucial disagreements here.<\/p>\n Pertanto, vi prego di tenere a mente una cosa quando stabilite gli standard della vostra relazione: Gli opposti si attraggono, ma le somiglianze durano.<\/p>\nConoscere la propria posizione<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNon \u00e8 conveniente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEssere rispettati<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEssere apprezzati<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNon essere controllati<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEssere accettati<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNon viene usato per il sesso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nMa fare del buon sesso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNon essere paragonati a nessun altro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nImpegno<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFedelt\u00e0<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAvere un partner paritario<\/a><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nVolere le stesse cose<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBuona comunicazione<\/h2>\n
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