{"id":50552,"date":"2021-03-05T15:10:53","date_gmt":"2021-03-05T15:10:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50552"},"modified":"2022-10-04T11:09:50","modified_gmt":"2022-10-04T11:09:50","slug":"decodificare-il-comportamento-di-un-ragazzo-dopo-una-rottura-7-segni-di-sofferenza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/decodificare-il-comportamento-di-un-ragazzo-dopo-una-rottura-7-segni-di-sofferenza\/","title":{"rendered":"Decodificare il comportamento dei ragazzi dopo una rottura (7 segnali di sofferenza)"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that all women would like to know how to decode a guy’s behavior dopo una rottura<\/a>. Sta soffrendo o no? Gli importa qualcosa di voi o non l'ha mai fatto? Ti ha bloccato<\/a>? Potrai mai riunirsi<\/a>? <\/p>\n

Abbiamo queste e molte altre domande su come gli uomini affrontare le rotture<\/a> answered for you in this little guide below. We’ll help you enter into their minds and, if you want to get your ex back, this knowledge of psicologia maschile <\/a>sar\u00e0 sicuramente d'aiuto.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che essere<\/i> in un lungo<\/i>relazione a termine<\/i><\/a> is inevitably going to result in one of two things. You\u2019re either going to spend your life with this person or you\u2019re eventually going to call it quits.<\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just the factual reality of the dating world.<\/i><\/p>\n

And in my own personal experience, I\u2019d much rather rompersi nel tempo<\/a> if I see that the relationship is going nowhere fast, because what\u2019s the point in sticking around if you know that this is not your person?<\/p>\n

This leads me to my second point…<\/p>\n

Ai ragazzi importa qualcosa dopo una rottura?<\/h2>\n

\"uomoNo matter what you\u2019ve read or heard, guys suffer just as much as girls do post-rottura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re only human and if you think your ex-boyfriend has magically risen above his crepacuore<\/a> and entered a new relationship with a healed, happy heart, you\u2019d be dead wrong.<\/p>\n

See\u2026 guys want you to think that things don\u2019t affect them and that they gestire le rotture<\/a> come i macho che sono.<\/p>\n

Ma volete sapere qual \u00e8 la vera verit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Sentono la tua mancanza<\/i><\/b><\/a> ogni secondo di ogni giorno, e i loro <\/i><\/b>autostima<\/i><\/b> subisce un duro colpo (soprattutto se siete stati i dumper<\/a>), but they just don\u2019t have the balls to face their emotions the way girls do!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Conosciamo tutti la procedura quando si tratta di ragazze.<\/p>\n

Si tratta di un'occasione perfetta per riconnettersi con i vostri migliori amici<\/a>. I’m sure you neglected them a bit because of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Go out and have the most fun girls’ night ever. Or, you can stay in and buy copious amounts of wine, then bitch about him on your couch until the wine kicks in and you start feeling like the boss-ass bitch you are and realize you\u2019re better off without him<\/a>.<\/p>\n

(Questo fino a quando non arriva il domani e tutto inizia a sembrare ancora una volta troppo reale.<\/i>).<\/p>\n

Repeat the process for a few weeks until you get your head in order with the help of your support system. Finally, unfollow him on your social media accounts, and pick up your broken pieces without needing anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n

Il dolore emotivo<\/a> is still there, but you\u2019re not denying it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re willing to face your negative emotions and hard times head-on and take relationship advice from your girlfriends knowing they\u2019ve got your back.<\/p>\n

And with time it really does get better. He\u2019s just one guy and this heartache is going to pass if you process it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Nascondersi dal mondo: 5 modi in cui lo si fa e come farsi notare<\/a><\/p>\n

Come affrontano i ragazzi le rotture?<\/h2>\n

\"fotoWith men, things are a little different. Men can\u2019t gestire il bagaglio emotivo<\/a> come possono fare le ragazze, perch\u00e9 le fa sentire meno virili.<\/p>\n

Quindi, <\/b>Come si comportano i ragazzi dopo una rottura<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll deny their heartache, enter <\/b>nuove relazioni<\/b> senza elaborare il loro dolore, e utilizzare <\/b>social media<\/b> to make you feel they\u2019re doing better than they actually are.<\/b><\/p>\n

And why? Because they can\u2019t handle being alone as well as girls can, they turn to relazione di rimbalzo<\/a> e gli incontri online alla ricerca di una nuova ragazza invece di affrontare il dolore della loro precedente relazione.<\/p>\n

Vanno nessun contatto<\/a>, instead of resolving their issues with their ex-girlfriends, which doesn\u2019t allow them to truly get over it when the relationship ends.<\/p>\n

Questo compromette le loro relazioni future perch\u00e9 non possono mai andare fino in fondo, a causa della mancanza di chiusura.<\/p>\n

Cuore spezzato<\/i><\/b> \u00e8 qualcosa che richiede sensibilit\u00e0, comprensione della propria psiche e del proprio benessere, insieme a <\/i><\/b>supporto emotivo<\/i><\/b><\/a> dai propri cari.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Accordo tra ragazzi<\/i><\/b> con questo facendo quasi l'esatto contrario.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Saltano i passaggi necessari e si buttano subito nella parte recitativa (bevendo a canna con gli amici, rimorchiando a caso, poi telefonate da ubriachi<\/a> to their exes, calling on their mutual friends and bitching about the other\u2026 etc.)<\/p>\n

E il giorno dopo, quando la realt\u00e0 si fa sentire e si rendono conto di quanto il loro comportamento sia davvero dannoso per la loro guarigione, sopprimono tutto e fanno il secondo round.<\/p>\n

Essi iniziare a sentire la tua mancanza<\/a> and they\u2019re hurting, but they\u2019ll never say it face to face. They go out with their friends, find new hobbies, drown themselves in work… They try everything just to keep you off their mind.<\/p>\n

And the toxic cycle just keeps on turning until they can\u2019t take it anymore and realize that every little thing they\u2019ve done to get over their ex fidanzata <\/a>\u00e8 stato controproducente proprio per questo.<\/p>\n

Guys\u2019 brains are just wired differently. They are supposed to be these strong, macho men (nella propria testa<\/i>) e qualsiasi segno di reale emozione \u00e8 severamente disapprovato.<\/p>\n

Dio non voglia che ammettano che they\u2019re hurting<\/a> e di seguire il processo come farebbe una persona sana di mente, giusto?<\/p>\n

But I\u2019m here to show you that guys really don\u2019t have it all figured out. They just want you to think that they do.<\/p>\n

Potreste vedere <\/i><\/b>il tuo <\/i><\/b>ex fidanzato<\/i><\/b><\/a> durante una serata fuori e pubblicando le foto su <\/i><\/b>social media<\/i><\/b> come un animale da festa, ma quello che dovete sapere \u00e8 questo: L'aspetto da duro con i suoi problemi non \u00e8 altro che un meccanismo di difesa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because if he actually let himself FEEL what he\u2019s feeling, the ground would crumble underneath his feet and his head would shatter from all the unresolved issues he\u2019s been suppressing for so long.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me quando ve lo dico, guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup<\/a> is anything but what they\u2019re letting on.<\/p>\n

Inside, there\u2019s a fragile man with un cuore spezzato<\/a>cercando di ricucire i pezzi nei modi pi\u00f9 sbagliati.<\/p>\n

Quindi, prima di chiamare il vostro ex \"senza cuore\" per andare avanti<\/a> cos\u00ec in fretta, escludendo completamente la possibilit\u00e0 di tornare insieme, considerate i seguenti segnali che dimostrano l'esatto contrario.<\/p>\n

Come si fa a sapere se un ragazzo soffre dopo una rottura?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s a well-known fact that uomini e donne affrontano le rotture<\/a> in modi completamente diversi.<\/p>\n

Women tend to cry and I think it’s the reason why they move one faster than guys. They let all of their negative emotions out almost right after the split happens.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, men don’t want to show that they’re suffering and they keep bottling up their emotions as if they will never come out to the surface. And that’s precisely where the biggest problem arises.<\/p>\n

Prima o poi, tutte queste cose sono schiaccianti, emozioni represse<\/a> trovare una via d'uscita e diventano pi\u00f9 dolorosi di prima. Alla fine, l'evitamento emotivo si traduce in un comportamento piuttosto autodistruttivo.<\/p>\n

Se volete scoprire se il vostro uomo sta soffrendo dopo la rottura, dovete osservare attentamente il suo comportamento e cercare di dargli un senso. Se il vostro <\/i><\/b>ex partner<\/i><\/b> ha mostrato questi 7 segni <\/i><\/b>dopo la rottura<\/i><\/b><\/a>, trust me, honey, he\u2019s hurting big time.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vi ha tolto l'amicizia sui social media<\/h3>\n

\"uomoUn giorno, mentre scorrevate il vostro Instagram, vi siete improvvisamente accorti che la sua presenza non si trovava da nessuna parte.<\/p>\n

So you went to check his profile and what do you know\u2026 he\u2019s deleted you from Insta! Quickly, you go to your other accounts and find out the same shit happened everywhere.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re baffled. After so much time together, he just nonchalantly decides to delete your presence from his online world.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you\u2019re pissed! You take it personally (even though you probably shouldn\u2019t) and immediately call your girls to bitch about this.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t realize is that this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him.<\/p>\n

Ai ragazzi viene insegnato che devono essere insensibili al dolore e al crepacuore <\/a>\u00e8 l'emblema di tutto ci\u00f2!<\/p>\n

So to make it easier on himself, he deletes every trace of you from his social media accounts so as not to have to be reminded of the pain he\u2019s suppressing.<\/p>\n

Or, he may even do it because he doesn’t want to come into the temptation of reaching out and sending you a (probably) SMS da ubriaco<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Guys don\u2019t deal with this shit at all. They just wipe it under the rug and put it on a tough exterior.<\/p>\n

But if he had to see your face every day as he\u2019s scrolling through his Insta, Facebook or Snapchat, his heart would break all over again.<\/p>\n

Gli fa male vedere il tuo volto. Gli fa male sapere ti ha lasciato andare<\/a>. He might even shed a tear over it, but he can\u2019t let it happen. He doesn’t want to see you because he’s actually a coward, a man who can’t face his actions. End. Of. The. Story.<\/p>\n

So he ignores how he feels (heartbroken), deletes any sign of your social media presence, and pretends it\u2019s all okay.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t see you face to face<\/h3>\n

\"coppiaDopo una rottura, di solito le emozioni sono altissime e la logica esce dalla porta.<\/p>\n

Entrambi siete feriti, confusi ed esitanti a lasciare che tutto accada senza dare un senso alla cosa. E gli scatti d'ira sono spesso dovuti alla mancanza di buon senso, cos\u00ec presto... dopo la rottura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With guys, it\u2019s all on an even bigger level. Your ex-boyfriend can\u2019t see you because he hasn\u2019t dealt with what\u2019s happening at all.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s hurt, angry, and perplexed, and very likely to resort to anger and yelling because you are the reason for this pain.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t mean it in a negative way. You\u2019re quello che ha perso<\/a>, and therefore he\u2019s in pain and angry.<\/p>\n

Seeing you only reminds him of how poorly he\u2019s treated you and therefore lost you, so he lashes out big time.<\/p>\n

The very thing he\u2019s so desperately trying to avoid is staring him straight in the eye and trying to have a conversation with him, and he can\u2019t handle it.<\/p>\n

Vuole andarsene, ma ci sono cose da discutere.<\/p>\n

Who gets the dog? Who\u2019s the one who has to move out? Is this davvero<\/i> o avete solo bisogno di una pausa<\/a> per capire come stanno le cose?<\/p>\n

Talking is mandatory because that\u2019s the only way to get closure.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s unable to see you without feeling crappy, and that\u2019s why he avoids seeing you face to face. It brings out so much shit that he\u2019s just not ready to deal with.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Leggete questa frase ogni volta che iniziate a confrontarvi con una ragazza pi\u00f9 carina<\/a><\/p>\n

Inizia a presentarsi nei luoghi che frequentate<\/h3>\n

\"uomoSometimes, guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is so transparent. It\u2019s too obvious that he\u2019s going through the motions and he gives it all away with his unorthodox actions.<\/p>\n

Per esempio, si sa che lui mai<\/i> va nella sua caffetteria preferita, soprattutto per oziare e non fare nulla.<\/p>\n

But all of a sudden, there he is. Sitting there, sipping his coffee and pretending to be surprised that he\u2019s bumped into you.<\/p>\n

Like he doesn\u2019t already know that this is where you get your after-work caffeine fix with your girls. So he says hi, chats you up, and marvels at this wonderful coincidence.<\/p>\n

Only it was all planned in advance. See, he can\u2019t get you out of his head, but he also doesn\u2019t want to seem desperate<\/a> chiamandovi e chiedendovi come state.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s too much of a man for that. So he decides to show up at places he knows you\u2019ll be, and have a mini convo to see you and get his fix.<\/p>\n

Actually, there\u2019s nothing wrong with this. The al ragazzo manchi chiaramente<\/a> and since he can\u2019t simply talk to you about his feelings and hash things out if possible, he\u2019ll resort to these measures just to see your face.<\/p>\n

That way, his reputation is untarnished and he\u2019s not letting his negative emotions get the better of him.<\/p>\n

Luckily, you know better and you can enjoy the fact that you\u2019ve left such a big hole in your ex\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n

Inizia a mandarvi messaggi ossessivi<\/h3>\n

\"uomoAvoidance didn\u2019t do the trick since he clearly can\u2019t get you out of his head, and pretending that he\u2019s okay is silly since he can\u2019t lie to himself.<\/p>\n

Quindi chiude il cerchio e torna a voi<\/i>. It\u2019s eating him alive not knowing how you are and what you\u2019re doing, and since nothing else worked, he starts blowing up your phone.<\/p>\n

First, it appears to be just friendly banter \u2013 where you are, how you\u2019re doing, what\u2019s been going on in your life \u2013 and for a minute, it all seems normal.<\/p>\n

Ma poi inizia a rivangare la storia della rottura e a fare il detective con te.<\/p>\n

Why did you guys break up in the first place, how did you let it happen, he might even start blaming you for how it all went down, and all that because he\u2019s hurting and ti rivuole indietro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s over you and turned a new page wouldn\u2019t be blowing you up this way and pinning blame.<\/p>\n

A guy who has his shit together doesn\u2019t reminisce about the breakup and mentions tornare insieme<\/a>, as if it didn\u2019t take you so long to finally move on.<\/p>\n

His behavior is shady but it all comes from a place of misplaced hurt. He still has feelings for you and he can\u2019t process them right.<\/p>\n

So he texts you, calls you and initiates conversations to try to make sense of what\u2019s going on and help himself andare avanti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Crea una falsa narrazione della rottura<\/h3>\n

\"unOne of the most concerning types of guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is distorting the truth about how it all happened.<\/p>\n

Clearly, you know what went down and he does too. There\u2019s no point lying to yourselves.<\/p>\n

Ma quando uno dei due partner non riesce ad affrontare le conseguenze della rottura, tende a creare la propria versione della verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 un meccanismo di coping<\/a> that lets them face what happened easier and look better in other people\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, you\u2019ll start hearing stories about your breakup that bear zero resemblance to what actually took place.<\/p>\n

Se sei stato tu a scaricato<\/a> him, all of a sudden, he\u2019ll turn things around and make it seem as if it was all his idea.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato lui a ha dato il via alla rottura <\/a>because you were suffocating him or he just couldn\u2019t handle your bossy personality anymore.<\/p>\n

Whatever he starts telling people, it\u2019ll be a blatant lie.<\/p>\n

And do you know why he\u2019s doing this? It\u2019s because he\u2019s so hurt and feels betrayed by your breakup that the only way to feel better is to be the victim in other people\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t change what happened but he sure can tell his own version and, in that way, move on knowing he\u2019s no longer il cattivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This behavior is unhealthy and hurtful toward you, so it\u2019s on you to talk to him and make him see how wrong and toxic this is.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Sesso con gli amici? I 10 segreti pi\u00f9 grandi che nessuno ti svela<\/a><\/p>\n

Diventa uno stronzo<\/h3>\n

\"donnaGi\u00e0. A volte i ragazzi si trasformano in stronzi completi <\/a>after the breakup and they\u2019re the only ones who can make any sense of that shitty behavior.<\/p>\n

They look at it this way: \u201dYou\u2019re the one who dumped me, so now I get to hurt you back.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

They become obnoxious and unbearable. Anytime they\u2019re around their ex-girlfriend, they start calling her names, being nasty, and acting as if she\u2019s a bitch simply because she couldn\u2019t handle being around his sorry ass anymore.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il peggior comportamento che un ragazzo possa mostrare dopo una rottura.<\/p>\n

It shows his lack of respect for his ex and it proves my point \u2013 guys suck at handling their emotions post-breakup!<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who stood by his side while he was going through shit.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who held his hand when it wasn\u2019t easy for him. And how does he repay you?<\/p>\n

By hurting you and treating you like an enemy. I don\u2019t know how much this is going to help, but the only reason he\u2019s doing it because deep down he\u2019s still hurting.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not over you and he can\u2019t accept how things ended, so he turns you into his enemy.<\/p>\n

For some guys, this only lasts for a short amount of time until they realize how childish and cruel they\u2019re being. Here\u2019s hoping that yours is among them!<\/p>\n

Si butta in una nuova relazione<\/h3>\n

\"coppiaOne of the weirdest guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is moving straight into a new relationship.<\/p>\n

What the hell is up with that? It doesn\u2019t even have to be an actual, relazione seria<\/a>. Pu\u00f2 anche essere un incontro o un'avventura di una notte che si trasforma in qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Ma purtroppo questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che il suo ego maschile gli dice di fare. Usano questa convalida come un cerotto per la loro scarsa autostima.<\/a> Unfortunately, they don’t know that it’s nothing but a short-term solution.<\/p>\n

Invece di affrontare i suoi problemi, sente il bisogno di mostrare a tutti quanto \u00e8 duro e virile e il modo migliore per farlo \u00e8 farsi vedere con un'altra ragazza.<\/p>\n

Why? Because then, he\u2019ll show everyone just how strong and impervious he is.<\/p>\n

Nulla lo pu\u00f2 toccare, n\u00e9 voi n\u00e9 il suo cuore spezzato. E la sua nuova relazione \u00e8 l'inizio di un nuovo lui.<\/p>\n

Only, that\u2019s just a front. He\u2019s anything but equipped to handle a new GF since his old one is still clearly taking the top spot in his heart.<\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s affrontare il dolore<\/a> doesn\u2019t do anything rash.<\/p>\n

A guy who has his ducks in a row doesn\u2019t feel the need to impress the public with his array of new chicks. He just doesn\u2019t care <\/a>quello che qualcuno pensa!<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his life and his choices. The only person whose opinion he should consider is his own and yours.<\/p>\n

Peccato che gli uomini tendano a essere cos\u00ec ostinati nella loro presunta virilit\u00e0 da non vedere quanto ci\u00f2 li renda infantili. Ironico, eh?<\/p>\n

So if your ex-boyfriend is parading around town with his new girlfriend, don\u2019t take it too personally (even though it hurts like fuck, I know). He\u2019s acting out and pretending to be okay.<\/p>\n

Ma sappiate che un giorno il suo dolore volont\u00e0<\/i> catch up with him and he\u2019ll finally be forced to face his demons.<\/p>\n

Without it, he’ll never be able per andare avanti<\/a>, because the fact is that he can’t move on before he actually goes through the healing process. And he can’t heal until he’s ready to face all of his emotions.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 8 problemi nelle relazioni a distanza (e come farli funzionare)<\/a><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo ci vuole perch\u00e9 un ragazzo si penta di essersi lasciato?<\/h2>\n

\"unPurtroppo n\u00e9 io n\u00e9 nessun altro pu\u00f2 darvi una risposta certa a questa domanda. Tuttavia, la maggior parte degli esperti di relazioni concorda sul fatto che possono essere necessari fino a sei mesi perch\u00e9 un ragazzo raggiunga il punto di rimpianto.<\/p>\n

We already saw that men deal with heartaches and breakups in a totally different way than we do. They skip all the ‘normal’ things that usually come after a breakup, all those negative feelings and deep emotional pain.<\/p>\n

It’s just like their stubborn pride doesn’t allow them to show to their ex-partner and to the rest of the world that they’re suffering.<\/p>\n

Cercano di trovare il tanto desiderato conforto tra le braccia di un'altra donna o facendo festa con gli amici tutto il giorno. Purtroppo, il risultato \u00e8 solo molto comportamento autodistruttivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They skip the whole healing process and think (or at least want to think) that they’re ready to move on. After some time, it all hits them big-time and that’s when regrets creep upon them.<\/p>\n

Finalmente accettano tutte le loro emozioni, sia quelle positive che quelle negative, e si sentono pronti ad affrontarle tutte.<\/p>\n

Alla fine capiscono che il loro stupido ego maschile potrebbe costare loro la perdita della donna che amano sinceramente e iniziano a che lottano per il loro amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It may take some time, it may take even more than six months, but once a man reaches this ‘regretting phase’ he’ll do just about everything to win you over again.<\/p>\n

However, the thing you should really think about is the reason why he’s coming back into your life again. Does he miss you because ti ama<\/a>? Oppure \u00e8 tornato perch\u00e9 gli manca avere nella sua vita qualcuno che si preoccupi veramente per lui?<\/p>\n

So, the question shouldn’t be WHEN is he going to regret the breakup, but WHY… What are the reasons that made him change his mind and come back into your life…<\/p>\n

Come ottenere la chiusura?<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomoBy realizing that you can\u2019t change the past, but you pu\u00f2<\/i> prendere il controllo del vostro presente. I ragazzi saranno ragazzi.<\/p>\n

Se siete stati abbastanza fortunati da uscire con un vero gentiluomo<\/a>, you\u2019ll decode your guy’s behavior after the breakup very easily.<\/p>\n

Alcuni ragazzi gestiscono sorprendentemente bene le rotture e trattano le loro ex fidanzate con il massimo rispetto, e cos\u00ec dovrebbero fare!<\/p>\n

Ma ci sono ragazzi il cui comportamento inizia a essere estremamente dannoso per il loro benessere e si riflette molto male anche su di voi.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s an unfortunate instance, but your main takeaways should be these:<\/p>\n

1. If he\u2019s acting out, making rash decisions and behaving like a completely different person, it\u2019s all because he\u2019s hurting on the inside and he\u2019s refusing to face all those <\/b>sentimenti negativi<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t take it personally. It has everything to do with him and nothing to do with you.<\/p>\n

2. Vederlo con una nuova ragazza \u00e8 una delle pillole pi\u00f9 difficili da mandare gi\u00f9, soprattutto poco dopo la rottura.<\/b><\/p>\n

MA, questo significa solo he\u2019s not over voi<\/i><\/a>,<\/i> guys who process their emotions in a healthy way don\u2019t just jump from one relationship to another. They\u2019ve got heart.<\/p>\n

3. Non seguirvi su <\/b>social media<\/b> means that it\u2019s too painful for him to see the face of the girl he let go on a daily basis.<\/b><\/p>\n

So instead of clearing the air with you and by being frank, he deletes all traces of you online, thinking it\u2019ll help him cope (Hint: it won\u2019t, at least not in the long run).<\/p>\n

4. E infine, quando i ragazzi si trasformano in veri e propri idioti <\/b>post-rottura<\/b>, it only means they\u2019re too immature to handle their demons like adults.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cercando di apparire macho, fa l'esatto contrario. Quando lo vedete cos\u00ec, allontanatevi e provate pena per lui.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one who\u2019ll have to face his shitty actions one day, not you.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che una persona che vi ama veramente non rischierebbe mai di trovarsi nella posizione di perdervi.\"Decodificare<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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