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<\/p>\nPer la maggior parte delle persone, l'attaccamento \u00e8 qualcosa da evitare, poich\u00e9 lo collegano a stili di attaccamento malsani che molti di noi tendono ad avere.<\/p>\n
However, what they don\u2019t know is what true, healthy attachment is all about.<\/p>\n
So, what exactly are the crucial differences between a \u201cregular\u201d type of romantic love and an \u201cattachment\u201d kind of love?<\/p>\n
How can you recognize whether you\u2019re experiencing one or another?<\/p>\n
Continuate a leggere per scoprirlo. <\/p>\n
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La prima grande differenza tra l'amore romantico e quello di attaccamento \u00e8 la durata. <\/p>\n
Vedete, l'amore romantico \u00e8 un soluzione temporanea<\/a>\u2014it gives you what you think you need in a given moment.<\/p>\n Aiuta a guarire, a riempire i buchi nel cuore. Vi aiuta a crescere e di solito \u00e8 collegato a una certa fase della vostra vita. Sembra incredibile, vero?<\/p>\n Ebbene, il tipo di amore legato all'attaccamento \u00e8 ancora migliore perch\u00e9 \u00e8 completamente indipendente dalla situazione in cui si trova la vostra vita in questo momento.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t have anything to do with your surroundings, education, career or age simply because it never stops. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that romantic love necessarily has to be short-lasting. However, in comparison to a lifetime, it can be classified as temporary, while attachment love is permanent.<\/p>\n \u00c8 pi\u00f9 probabile che un amore di attaccamento si concluda con il matrimonio e la famiglia, mentre le storie d'amore si concludono pi\u00f9 spesso prima di diventare qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grande. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: this doesn\u2019t mean that the type of relationships based on attachment love can\u2019t be broken.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, anche se accade una cosa del genere, il fatto \u00e8 che essi occupano sempre un posto speciale nella vostra memoria. <\/p>\n You know how you meet a guy and go crazy for him until you get him? How you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to get under his skin and make him completely yours?<\/p>\n However, some time after you reach your goal, your emotions slowly start to fade away. You got what you wanted, and you\u2019re not so head over heels for him anymore. <\/p>\n In fact, he stops being so appealing and interesting to you. After all, you\u2019re certain he isn\u2019t going anywhere, and there is no more need for you to fight for his attention and emotions anymore. <\/p>\n Se questo vi sembra uno schema familiare, \u00e8 un chiaro segno che state vivendo un amore di tipo romantico.<\/p>\n It is actually based on your ego which can\u2019t stand not getting what it wants, and the moment this certain person becomes yours, your feelings start to get colder. <\/p>\n Pertanto, quello che abbiamo qui \u00e8 un tipico esempio di desiderio e brama. D'altra parte, l'amore di attaccamento \u00e8 rappresentato dall'avere. <\/p>\n You feel the same way about your partner when he\u2019s around you and when he is far away.<\/p>\n You enjoy his presence, and you never get bored of him just because you see that he\u2019s fallen for you hard. <\/p>\n Un'altra importante differenza tra questi due tipi di amore \u00e8 il motivo per cui iniziano.<\/p>\n Si dice che i sentimenti romantici siano in realt\u00e0 il risultato di reazioni chimiche nel cervello e che avvengano a causa dell'impatto di alcuni ormoni che rendono attratti dalla persona speciale. <\/p>\n Pertanto, l'insieme di questi elementi d\u00e0 come risultato amore appassionato<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to like your partner\u2019s personality traits.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to agree with him on important life matters, and you two don\u2019t have to get along to get involved in a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n Voi due siete attratti l'uno dall'altro come calamite senza alcun motivo particolare.<\/p>\n Condividete un'incredibile passione e una forte chimica che impedisce a entrambi di ragionare. <\/p>\n While I\u2019m not saying that physical attraction and sex are uinmportant in an attachment kind of love, they\u2019re definetely not its essential components.<\/p>\n In fact, attachment love\u2019s major foundation is compatibility.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t mean that you and your significant other have to be the same person or that you have to agree on literally everything.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario che abbiate atteggiamenti simili e che vogliate le stesse cose dalla vita.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re compatible with someone, your characters match. The other person feels like your missing part of the puzzle, and it is someone you can see yourself growing old next to. <\/p>\n In alcuni periodi della nostra vita, tutti noi desideriamo le farfalle e i fuochi d'artificio.<\/p>\n And you\u2019re no exception: the last thing you would ever settle for is a boring relationship which doesn\u2019t cause a rollercoaster of emotions in your heart and entire body. <\/p>\n You want to be with someone you\u2019re incredibly attracted to, someone you can\u2019t live without, and someone who gives you thrills just by looking at you.<\/p>\n Well, if this is the case, you\u2019re dealing with a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you: this love makes you feel alive more than anything. It makes you enjoy every breath you take, and it awakens all possible emotions within you. <\/p>\n Tuttavia, quando si diventa un po' pi\u00f9 grandi, ci si accorge che c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza fra amare qualcuno ed essere innamorati<\/a> con quella persona.<\/p>\n And this excitement we\u2019re talking about is a sign you\u2019re feeling the latter. <\/p>\n On the contrary, when you\u2019re experiencing an attachment love, you\u2019re overwhelmed with peace.<\/p>\nDesiderio vs. avere<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPassione e compatibilit\u00e0<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEccitazione e pace<\/h2>\n
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