{"id":50711,"date":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50711"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","slug":"smettere-di-innamorarsi-se-lui-smette-di-provarci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-innamorarsi-se-lui-smette-di-provarci\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di innamorarvi se lui smette di provarci"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si dice che il vero amore richieda sforzi e sacrifici. Dovete lottare per la persona che amate ed essere pronti a superare tutti gli ostacoli che la vita vi pone davanti. <\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t let anyone stand in the way of their romance. <\/p>\n

And I couldn\u2019t agree more: no relationship can become healthy overnight. Instead, it takes a lot of hard work, commitment, devotion, trust, and compromise to make things work. <\/p>\n

Of course, most importantly\u2014it takes a lot of love to build it right. <\/p>\n

However, the truth is that sometimes, love isn\u2019t enough, especially if it\u2019s one-sided.<\/p>\n

There is no point if you\u2019re <\/b>l'unico che ci prova<\/b><\/a>L'unico a spingere in avanti la vostra relazione e l'unico a preoccuparsi del suo futuro.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Remember: every relationship is a two-way street, and all of your efforts are in vain if the other person isn\u2019t ready to move his finger for the sake of your romance.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, you will burn out in a matter of time, while your partner will start taking you for granted and assume that you\u2019ll always be there to prevent your relationship from going downhill. <\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, capite che lottare per l'amore e inseguirlo sono due cose diverse. Dare il meglio di s\u00e9 ed essere l'unico a provarci non sono la stessa cosa. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re non chiedere troppo<\/a> just because you want to have a mentally and emotionally present boyfriend who doesn\u2019t consider his job to be done the moment he sees that you\u2019ve fallen for him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not overdemanding for wanting a man who will spend the rest of his life in attempts to win you over with each day that comes. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have too high of a standard for expecting a gentleman who will forever court you\u2014a real man who will never forget your worth and who will consider himself lucky for having a woman like you by his side. <\/p>\n

No, it is not selfish to walk away from someone who stops putting effort around you; leaving a man who obviously couldn\u2019t care less whether you\u2019re around or not is an act of self-care, not a sign of ego-centrism. <\/p>\n

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All of this is a lot easier said than done, I know. However, it seems that you keep forgetting that you\u2019re the ruler of your own emotions, not the other way around. <\/p>\n

Yes, you have what it takes to order your heart to stop loving someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Avete la capacit\u00e0 di smettere di dare tutto voi stessi, senza ricevere nulla in cambio.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, you can\u2014and have to\u2014stop falling in love the moment you see that he isn\u2019t trying to put a smile back on your face anymore or that he doesn\u2019t care whether he is breaking your heart and how his actions are affecting you; the moment you see that this man wouldn\u2019t do anything if you abandon him and that he would never chase you to come back. <\/p>\n

You need to stop falling in love when he stops seducing you and putting effort into reminding you how butterflies feel each day; when he stops paying attention to the little things\u2014when he starts forgetting your birthday or anniversary date, stops noticing that you have a new haircut, and stops caring when he sees that you\u2019re sad. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to call it quits the moment you start feeling like his second choice.<\/p>\n

The moment he puts everyone and everything in front of you, just because he\u2019s certain that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n

It needs to happen when you see that he doesn\u2019t appreciate you anymore; that he is taking you for granted and stops matching your sacrifices. <\/p>\n

Smettete di innamorarvi quando lui smette di essere pienamente coinvolto. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Smettete di dare tutta voi stessa nel momento in cui vi rendete conto che questa \u00e8 diventata una relazione unilaterale; quando iniziate a sentirvi pi\u00f9 sole di quanto vi sentireste se foste single e che quest'uomo \u00e8 solo ufficialmente il vostro partner romantico. <\/b><\/p>\n

Smettete di innamorarvi quando questa relazione inizia a portarvi pi\u00f9 dolore che felicit\u00e0; quando vedete che appesantisce i vostri pensieri e che continua a spezzarvi il cuore. <\/p>\n

Back out when you see that it has a negative impact on your emotional and mental health; once you see that you\u2019re losing yourself, in attempts to save the remains of this already failed relationship. <\/p>\n

Smettete di innamorarvi di lui nel momento in cui vedete che sta per <\/b>disinnamorarsi di te<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Certo, ammettere a se stessi che l'uomo che pensavate fosse la vostra anima gemella vi sta diventando indifferente \u00e8 incredibilmente difficile, ma credetemi, \u00e8 molto meglio farlo prima che sia troppo tardi. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be desperate, and don\u2019t wait for all of his emotions to fade away. Don\u2019t settle for crumbs, and don\u2019t expect things to go back the way they used to be.<\/p>\n

Invece, correte per la vostra vita, senza mai voltarvi indietro.<\/p>\n

Dimenticatevi di incolparvi e di dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 il momento in cui quest'uomo ha smesso di provarci \u00e8 stato il momento in cui ha spezzato la vostra relazione in modo irreparabile. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Smettete<\/p>\n

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They say that true love takes effort and that it demands sacrifices. You should fight for the one you love and be ready to overcome all obstacles life might throw at your feet.  After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":50713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_14626124031.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}