{"id":50781,"date":"2020-01-07T23:34:30","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T23:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50781"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:27:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:27:24","slug":"se-vi-sentite-sconfitti-e-persi-queste-10-cose-vi-aiuteranno-ad-affrontare-la-situazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-vi-sentite-sconfitti-e-persi-queste-10-cose-vi-aiuteranno-ad-affrontare-la-situazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi sentite sconfitti e persi? Queste 10 cose vi aiuteranno a risollevarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling defeated is something we&#8217;re all familiar with, no matter how much we try to deny it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If at this very moment you&#8217;re struggling with <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensieri negativi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e ti senti come se il tuo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is severely hit, know that you&#8217;re not alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo \u00e8 un aspetto con cui mi scontro spesso.&nbsp; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un po' di tempo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Da qualche tempo ho iniziato a notare che il mondo mi sta cercando. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, I know this isn&#8217;t really the case, but it genuinely feels that way sometimes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le cose che dovrebbero essere buone e aiutarmi nella vita finiscono per essere enormi delusioni. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La gente mi dice sempre che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">passer\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lavoro duro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the key to happiness. But honestly, there&#8217;s so much more to it than that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can&#8217;t control life&#8217;s circumstances. You can&#8217;t control feeling strong <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scoraggiamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> quotidianamente e perdendo di vista <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Potete scegliere come farvi condizionare dalle difficolt\u00e0, ma in modo da permettervi di sperimentare il vostro dolore per trovare il modo migliore di superarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>It&#8217;s okay to feel anxious, perplexed, and lost.<\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sentirsi sconfitti non \u00e8 una cosa di cui vergognarsi.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50782\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_376794838.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza sola che pensa a qualcosa vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_376794838.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_376794838-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_376794838-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> want to create a new narrative where people stop thinking they know what you&#8217;re going through when they have no clue.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Voglio che tutti smettano di citare <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oprah<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> every time I&#8217;m going through the motions.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life sucks sometimes, so let me go through my stuff and don&#8217;t make me feel bad about it. And I&#8217;m pretty sure I&#8217;m not alone in feeling this way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Membri della famiglia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliori amici<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sono sempre una buona scelta a cui rivolgersi quando il mondo ci schiaccia. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Autocommiserazione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is perfectly normal and don&#8217;t let anyone tell you to simply <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tirati su<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as if it&#8217;s actually that easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cura di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is really difficult when you feel there&#8217;s nothing left worth fighting for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But this is why I want you to know that I share your suffering and I&#8217;m not going to tell you to simply brush it off and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">google<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> i modi migliori per rimettersi in sesto.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/nascondersi-dal-mondo-5-modi-per-farlo-e-come-farsi-vedere\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nascondersi dal mondo: 5 modi in cui lo si fa e come farsi notare<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nella vita, si <\/i><\/b><b><i>vacillare<\/i><\/b><b><i> and it&#8217;s important that you know it&#8217;s not about how fast you get up.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50783\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1173699865.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna triste che guarda in lontananza pensando ai problemi relazionali, ragazza sconvolta e ferita che guarda dalla finestra con dolore per la rottura con il fidanzato, donna delusa che si sente triste per i problemi che sta vivendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1173699865.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1173699865-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1173699865-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i> <\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s about taking the time you need to pull yourself together and find the best way to <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tirati su<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al proprio ritmo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t go reading about how <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persone di successo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> simply brush it off and go do their thing every morning as if there&#8217;s nothing weighing them down because that&#8217;s not true. It&#8217;s what they want you to think.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La realt\u00e0 \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 complessa e faticosa di ci\u00f2 che si cerca di vendere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Le persone saranno sempre <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tweet<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about positive, happy stuff in their life, but they&#8217;ll never tell you how gut-wrenching their journey to success was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Millennials<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> si considerano degni di nota <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">blogger<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> oggi e fare tutti questi blog e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cura di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tips, thinking they&#8217;ve got it all figured out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But unless you&#8217;ve been through the wringer, you really can&#8217;t speak on anyone&#8217;s bumpy journey through life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s wrong to expect a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sfondamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if you don&#8217;t put in the work. I understand how challenging life can become and how one&#8217;s reality is far more taxing than anyone can imagine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is why I&#8217;m going to share with you my own personal tips and tricks that have somewhat helped me find a reason to get up again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nessun giudizio, nessuna presunzione e nessuna aspettativa irrealistica.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_601718561.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane ragazza sorridente in posa sul divano, si rilassa e guarda la telecamera con le mani sul mento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_601718561.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_601718561-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_601718561-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sono solo alcuni dei modi pi\u00f9 efficaci che mi hanno aiutato a raggiungere <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">crescita personale<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grazie al quale sono riuscito a gestire le cose difficili con una testa pi\u00f9 raccolta.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m not going to tell you to just get out of your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">solco<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and move on. That&#8217;s a shitty way to handle anyone&#8217;s issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Che cosa <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sono <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e8 di dirvi alcune verit\u00e0 dure e necessarie che, si spera, sposteranno la vostra mente su una nuova <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lato positivo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e vi aiuter\u00e0 a orientarvi nella giusta direzione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t expect miracles in a short amount of time. And don&#8217;t put too much pressure on yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life&#8217;s hurdles can be overbearing and sometimes time is the only thing that can help make it right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Potete aiutarvi implementando queste strategie nella vostra vita quotidiana e affrontando un giorno alla volta. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quanto lontano<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dipende completamente da voi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qualsiasi progresso \u00e8 qualcosa di cui essere orgogliosi, quindi lasciate che questo sia il vostro campanello d'allarme per <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vivere meglio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and to become the best version of yourself \u2013 one who is truly content with their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always remember, you&#8217;re a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buona persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che la vita ci riserva. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tutti noi incontriamo ostacoli di tanto in tanto. Ma la vita consiste nel non lasciare che le giornate storte definiscano <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-chiari-segni-che-un-giocatore-ti-sta-prendendo-in-giro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8 chiari segni che un giocatore ti sta prendendo per i fondelli<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Come affrontare la sensazione di sconfitta<\/h2>\n<h2>1. Accept the situation you&#8217;re in<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_270894053.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna tranquilla seduta sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_270894053.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_270894053-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_270894053-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il primo passo verso la guarigione \u00e8 accettare la propria realt\u00e0. Ogni suo aspetto di merda e ogni singola cosa che vorreste cambiare. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accoglietelo perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 la vostra realt\u00e0 attuale e per superarla dovete prima fare pace con essa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, bad things just happen and there&#8217;s not much you can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s nobody to blame and you didn&#8217;t somehow deserve this. Bad shit happens to the most amazing people, so give yourself a break. Don&#8217;t let your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensieri negativi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> stravolgere la vostra realt\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo aver fatto pace con questa situazione, cercate di trovare il modo di migliorarla. \u00c8 per la vita? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No. Riuscirete alla fine a trovare la via d'uscita da questo inferno? Certo che s\u00ec. Nulla \u00e8 permanente e nemmeno questo lo \u00e8!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So start with that and let it lead the way. Every single time you\u2019ve felt like giving up, somehow you\u2019ve managed to dig your way out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same thing will happen here. The sooner you stop being angry, bitter, and resentful about it, the sooner you&#8217;ll find the best solution to your problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. One bad thing doesn&#8217;t equal a bad life<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50786\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_607130561.jpg\" alt=\"Vista posteriore di una donna che guarda il lago, Nuova Zelanda\" width=\"800\" height=\"486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_607130561.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_607130561-300x182.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_607130561-768x467.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is where people always get stuck. Something negative happens \u2013 maybe even a few things in a short span \u2013 and immediately their minds go to the worst places. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come se in qualche modo questo brutto periodo o una cosa brutta significasse che improvvisamente tutta la loro vita \u00e8 brutta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No! Don&#8217;t mistake this shitty phase for the entirety of your life. You&#8217;ve gone through so much. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ve been through a number of good things as well as bad, and they&#8217;ve all shaped you into <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ora.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Senza il male, non c'\u00e8 il bene! Solo dopo aver attraversato momenti davvero bui <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un po' di tempo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sono riuscito ad apprezzare veramente tutte le cose belle che mi sono capitate in seguito.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embrace this attitude. Don&#8217;t think that your life sucks just because it&#8217;s crappy right now. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a few weeks, things will be so different and you&#8217;ll see what I&#8217;m talking about. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is more than just the unpleasant things. It&#8217;s all the good, the bad, and the amazing that happens while you&#8217;re busy dwelling on what cannot be changed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-signs-of-an-emotionally-distant-wife-and-why-she-became-that-way\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7 segni di una moglie emotivamente distante e perch\u00e9 \u00e8 diventata cos\u00ec<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. Immergetevi in tutte le cose positive che vi circondano<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_545209336.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna bionda felice che sorride e guarda di lato all&#039;aperto contro il cielo blu.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_545209336.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_545209336-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_545209336-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chances are that, during your struggles with one particular aspect, there is surely something positive that can crack a smile on your face, am I right? Perhaps it&#8217;s the fact that your family is happy and healthy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe it&#8217;s your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliore amico<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> che si occupa sempre di voi, anche se la sua vita \u00e8 piena di impegni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il punto \u00e8 che c'\u00e8 sempre qualcosa per cui essere grati. A volte si perde nei momenti difficili. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that&#8217;s precisely when you should remind yourself of all the things that have kept you sane so far.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be happy because you have the most supportive romantic partner. Say your thanks for all the health that you&#8217;ve been blessed with. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uscite e godetevi il sole facendo un picnic con i vostri amici. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliori amici<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Soak in all the positivity that surrounds you and that way, you&#8217;ll help yourself see that things are never truly as bad as they seem.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Failing doesn&#8217;t make you a loser<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1481306012.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna afroamericana depressa seduta sul divano di casa si sente disperata con il cuore spezzato e soffre per il divorzio, stressata e sconvolta, pensa di avere problemi di vita, aborto concetto di aborto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1481306012.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1481306012-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1481306012-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re struggling with having failed at work, at home, or in some other aspect of life, take a deep breath and think about what you&#8217;re doing to yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling defeated due to not being perfect in one area of life isn&#8217;t something you should be doing to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People fail all the time. Things don&#8217;t go according to plan and you just have to accept it and move on to other, better things. It doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re a loser if you&#8217;ve failed in some aspect of life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It means you&#8217;re only human \u2013 to make mistakes is the most human thing ever! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finding a way to make it work is what life is about. It won&#8217;t always be easy and not everything will go to plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But don&#8217;t beat yourself up when that happens. Life\u2019s too short to be your own enemy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Concentrarsi sull'obiettivo finale, non sulla situazione attuale.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_706405774.jpg\" alt=\"Donna positiva con cuscino seduta a letto e sorridente alla telecamera a casa propria\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_706405774.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_706405774-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_706405774-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 evidente che il punto in cui vi trovate ora non \u00e8 quello in cui volete trovarvi a lungo termine. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il viaggio verso la destinazione desiderata non \u00e8 mai facile, e l'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scoraggiamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e senza speranza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estirpate il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensieri negativi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e mettetevi in testa che anche questo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">passer\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not stuck here. You&#8217;re just moving through life and right now, this is where you find yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At times, it&#8217;ll appear as if your ambition might be the end of you, but that&#8217;s when you need to persevere more than ever. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le vostre capacit\u00e0 vi dimostreranno quanto siete intraprendenti quando sceglierete di vedere oltre la lotta e di visualizzare dove volete arrivare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on getting to your next chapter and plan the best way to do it. Get out of your head and implement all of your ideas into reality. If you can dream it \u2013 you really can achieve it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/how-to-live-in-peace-and-harmony-with-the-help-of-these-5-steps\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come vivere in pace e armonia con l'aiuto di questi 5 passi<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>6. Lasciare andare la rabbia e la frustrazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50790\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_615065561.jpg\" alt=\"Respirare\" width=\"800\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_615065561.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_615065561-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_615065561-768x461.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling defeated and being unwilling to let go of your frustration doesn&#8217;t go hand in hand. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se volete aiutarvi, dovete trovare un modo per lasciar andare questa situazione e non farla pesare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re hurting your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> rifiutando di allontanarsi dalla negativit\u00e0. State andando contro voi stessi e state rendendo un enorme disservizio a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that you&#8217;re better than this. Acknowledge your anger and frustration and then let it evaporate into thin air. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t need it anymore. It has taught you what you needed to learn and now it&#8217;s time for a different mindset.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di essere autodistruttivi. Scegliete la strada maestra. Lasciate perdere. Parlate dei vostri problemi. Se necessario, scrivetene. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But don&#8217;t bottle it up because it may end up exploding at the worst possible time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Smettere di confrontare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1185430117.jpg\" alt=\"Una giovane e attraente ragazza bruna dai capelli lunghi con un&#039;espressione positiva guarda attentamente la telecamera sullo sfondo di strade cittadine mentre cammina.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1185430117.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1185430117-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1185430117-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tratta di un'abitudine tossica che \u00e8 estremamente dannosa per il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e psiche. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porta solo a un dolore inutile e a realizzazioni dolorose. Perch\u00e9 fare questa attivit\u00e0 inutile per abbattersi?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The grass is never greener on the other side, it&#8217;s greener where you water it! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So focus on yourself and how to nurture your own well-being. People will make you believe that they&#8217;ve got it all figured out, but nobody does!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone goes through their own trials and tribulations, they just don&#8217;t shout it from the rooftops. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nessuno ha raggiunto il successo e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">crescita personale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> senza una notevole quantit\u00e0 di ostacoli e battute d'arresto. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anche il tuo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliori amici<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> go through all kinds of complex stuff they don&#8217;t tell you about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s just what people do. It&#8217;s easier to put up a front that makes you appear great, than actually be open and honest, and discuss your innermost troubles. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So next time you think your friends have it better\u2026 think again.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. Lasciate che i vostri dubbi siano la vostra motivazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_106946399.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna bruna in un campo di grano al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_106946399.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_106946399-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_106946399-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to prove your doubters wrong is to let their negativity give you the push you need to get to a place you&#8217;ve set for yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If they&#8217;re doubting you, soak it in, smile, and go do your thing. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Niente sar\u00e0 dolce come il successo che \u00e8 stato possibile ottenere grazie all'enorme motivazione fornita dai vostri detrattori.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Purtroppo le persone avranno sempre le loro opinioni e cercheranno di buttarti gi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> They will butt in where they don&#8217;t belong and offer unwarranted opinions with the sole purpose of tearing you down.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s impossible to change that. But what IS possible is turning the other cheek and letting your naysayers see how unphased you are and how much you thrive on their doubt. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tratter\u00e0 di un'importante <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sfondamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and it&#8217;ll be a stepping stone to a better tomorrow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/periodi-di-transizione-10-modi-per-facilitare-il-processo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Periodi di transizione: 10 modi per rendere il processo pi\u00f9 semplice<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>9. Lamentarsi non porta da nessuna parte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367749200.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna caucasica che cammina lungo una spiaggia con i fiori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367749200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367749200-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367749200-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I told you I&#8217;d serve you some tough truths, and this is one of them. You can complain all you want, but it won&#8217;t help you with your mission. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It only weighs you down, destroys you mentally, and doesn&#8217;t paint the right picture of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of complaining, try to develop a new habit where every time the mood for it strikes, you have to remind yourself of one good thing you&#8217;re forgetting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That way, you&#8217;ll always be mindful that things aren&#8217;t as bad as they seem and that no matter what you&#8217;re going through now, there&#8217;s always a reason to smile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lamentarsi perch\u00e9 le cose non vanno a modo vostro \u00e8 il modo meno produttivo per ottenere qualcosa. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ll always remain stuck in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">solco<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> finch\u00e9 ci si concede un motivo per essere stanchi.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. Effettuare un cambiamento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50794\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1556751722.jpg\" alt=\"Donna elegante con occhiali da sole che cammina per la citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1556751722.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1556751722-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1556751722-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t know what it is that&#8217;s bringing you down, but one thing&#8217;s for sure. It&#8217;s never too late to make a change. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re never too old to change your ways and do something that&#8217;s likely to help you in the long run.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of assigning blame for whichever issue you&#8217;re facing, why not turn it around and try to see it from a new perspective. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Potrebbe essere arrivato il momento di cambiare le cose e quindi evitare qualsiasi incidente futuro?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C'\u00e8 un modo per aiutare la situazione implementando un'idea nuova e fresca? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re the only one who knows how to achieve this, so I&#8217;m only trying to let you know how easy it is to get things going with a little bit of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lavoro duro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e dedizione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stare seduti e lamentarsi non porta a nulla. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma prendere la decisione di impedire che ci\u00f2 accada vi far\u00e0 vedere la vostra resilienza, capacit\u00e0 e intelligenza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Change what needs changing and don&#8217;t dwell on past misfortunes. Your future is in your hands. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fate in modo che la vostra mente collabori e iniziate a creare una realt\u00e0 migliore per avere un futuro promettente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-signs-of-a-controlling-husband-and-everything-you-need-to-know\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7 segni di un marito dispotico e tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>A Word To The Wise&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_483538108.jpg\" alt=\"Donna matura felice che si rilassa sul divano di casa in salotto. Primo piano del volto di una donna anziana che guarda la telecamera. Ritratto di donna felice in camicia blu che sorride.\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_483538108.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_483538108-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_483538108-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling defeated isn&#8217;t something you should ever run away from. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I problemi possono trovarsi ovunque, quindi la strategia migliore \u00e8 quella di accogliere i cambiamenti, per quanto impegnativi, e trovare la strada attraverso i contrattempi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;ve personally felt defeated and lost more times than I can count. It&#8217;s really important to me that there&#8217;s an open and honest conversation regarding these issues. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s no shame in feeling lost. There should be no judgment during your toughest ordeals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A volte, per quanto si cerchi di rimanere positivi, la vita si mette in mezzo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During your life&#8217;s journey, you&#8217;re likely to stumble upon people who will try to use your troubles against you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re very likely to feel worthless, low and bitter by the harsh words of toxic individuals. Don&#8217;t let them have any power over you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1207123108.jpg\" alt=\"Close up sereno tranquillo donna sorridente sdraiato sul divano a casa o camera d&#039;albergo ragazza ha pausa dopo il lavoro o di studio chiudendo gli occhi mettendo le mani dietro la testa relax pensare, si sente felice respirare l&#039;aria fresca concetto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1207123108.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1207123108-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1207123108-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sapete <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 they don&#8217;t. You know how many setbacks you&#8217;ve had to endure to get to where you are. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s reason enough to always remain calm in the face of naysayers. There will always be someone thinking they know better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And those people are precisely the ones who don&#8217;t have their shit together. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who are content and fulfilled in life don&#8217;t feel the need to bring others down, especially during their hardships. Only those who&#8217;re struggling themselves will stoop this low.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Stay faithful to your journey. As bumpy as it may be, it&#8217;s yours to take.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And when you get to your final destination, you&#8217;ll know you got there through all kinds of obstacles that only made you stronger in the process.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now you&#8217;re feeling defeated, but with the right attitude and a willful mind, who knows what tomorrow might bring? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s the beauty of life. Things can change in a matter of minutes. Be patient \u2013 your blessings are coming.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-50798\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/\u00e0safa\u00e7on.fr-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Vi sentite sconfitti e persi? Queste 10 cose vi aiuteranno a risollevarvi\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/\u00e0safa\u00e7on.fr-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/\u00e0safa\u00e7on.fr-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/\u00e0safa\u00e7on.fr-5.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Feeling defeated is something we&#8217;re all familiar with, no matter how much we try to deny it. If at this very moment you&#8217;re struggling with negative thoughts and you feel like your mental health is severely hit, know that you&#8217;re not alone. This is something I struggle with a lot of the time.&nbsp; A while&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":50797,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_116348623.jpg",800,656,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50781"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50781\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}