{"id":50872,"date":"2020-12-21T19:22:49","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T19:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50872"},"modified":"2024-10-30T15:58:25","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T14:58:25","slug":"definire-la-vostra-quasi-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/definire-la-vostra-quasi-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Quest'anno, definite la vostra quasi relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si parla di appuntamenti moderni, non definire una relazione tra due persone \u00e8 diventato del tutto normale.<\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s like this has become a standard; you\u2019re even at risk of being called old-fashioned if you demand to know where you stand right from the start.<\/p>\n

After all, what\u2019s wrong with having some casual fun?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the harm in seeing a guy from time to time, sleeping with him with senza vincoli <\/a> e di uscire con lui ogni volta che ne avete voglia, senza alcuna promessa per il futuro?<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all just living in the moment, right? Who cares what will happen tomorrow if we\u2019re enjoying each other\u2019s company right now?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m no Judge Judy and all of this is perfectly fine with me as long as both parties involved agree upon the nature of their relationship.<\/p>\n

Una persona ha il diritto di non volere una relazione in certi momenti della sua vita e tutto ci\u00f2 che deve fare \u00e8 essere completamente onesta sulle sue intenzioni senza illudere l'altra persona.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, nel vostro caso le cose non stanno cos\u00ec, vero? The truth is that you\u2019re not okay with this almost relationship you got yourself involved in.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

At first, you thought you could make it. You wanted to blend in with the masses and you wanted to try something new but obviously, you miscalculated things and you didn\u2019t evaluate your emotional capacities well.<\/p>\n

In effetti, questo Situazione di vita <\/a> ti sta distruggendo dall'interno da un po' di tempo a questa parte.<\/p>\n

Even though you don\u2019t want to admit it to yourself, let alone to your quasi fidanzato<\/a>Il fatto \u00e8 che si vuole molto di pi\u00f9. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not comfortable with not labeling your relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not happy being with a guy who refuses to commit, who never swore his loyalty and who has no duty to be faithful to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

This type of arrangement doesn\u2019t suit you, as much as you try to convince him, yourself and the rest of the world that it does.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re settling for less by accepting the role of his part-time girlfriend, by seeing him occasionally, by not having the right to text him whenever you feel like it and by being his booty call.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che avete sviluppato dei sentimenti per quest'uomo, per quanto stiate lottando contro di essi.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Volete che sia il vostro vero fidanzato e volete una relazione romantica seria con lui.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re too scared of coming clean. You\u2019re afraid of admitting your emotions because they were not part of the deal.<\/p>\n

You assume that he\u2019ll start perceiving you as too weak or pathetic.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll end up with both your ego and heart crushed into pieces if you give it a shot and be honest about your feelings and desires.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: this can happen.<\/p>\n

There is the possibility of this guy telling you that he doesn\u2019t want the same things you do, that he doesn\u2019t care about you enough to make you his girlfriend, that he doesn\u2019t find you two compatible or that he is simply not ready to commit right now. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, even this case scenario is better than being left on hold; at least, you\u2019ll know where you stand and what you\u2019re dealing with. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know it\u2019s time to ditch all of your hopes, you\u2019ll walk away from him before you get yourself dragged into this mess even deeper and most importantly\u2014you\u2019ll stop wasting your time.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ll be hurt but the pain will go away.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, c'\u00e8 anche la possibilit\u00e0 che voi due facciate davvero ginnastica.<\/p>\n

La possibilit\u00e0 che lui abbia gli stessi dilemmi che avete voi e la possibilit\u00e0 che questa si trasformi in una favola reale.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, whatever happens, please, make your new year\u2019s resolution to put a stop to this agony.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nel 2025, abbiate il coraggio di definire la vostra quasi relazione; <\/b>trasformarla in una vera e propria<\/b><\/a> o di porvi fine.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, whatever happens, at least you\u2019ll know you tried. You\u2019ll be proud of yourself for following your heart and for doing exactly what it wanted you to do.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, potreste fallire, ma sarebbe eroico. Tuttavia, potreste anche volare. <\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014either way, you\u2019ll feel much better than now.<\/p>\n

Essere consapevoli della peggiore verit\u00e0 \u00e8 sempre meglio che passare ogni giorno nell'ignoranza, senza sapere cosa aspettarsi e cosa sperare.<\/p>\n

\"Quest'anno,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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