{"id":5089,"date":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","date_gmt":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5089"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","slug":"la-ragazza-delle-lettere-ha-bisogno-di-essere-apprezzata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-ha-bisogno-di-essere-apprezzata\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera alla ragazza che ha bisogno di apprezzare di nuovo se stessa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non permettete a nessuno di definirvi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014<\/span>hai perso la definizione di te stesso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need to let it come back. You need to open up and own up to your mistakes. You need to clear your mind and remember where you did wrong, so you don\u2019t do those mistakes ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need to learn from your mistakes, and you definitely mustn\u2019t blame or hate yourself for getting some things wrong.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No one is perfect. We all have flaws. They are here to serve us as a constant reminder that we are humans\u2014we are not machines. We must have ups and downs, heartbreak, and love. That is what makes us unique\u2014<\/span>la nostra umanit\u00e0, la nostra capacit\u00e0 di sentire, di toccare. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think you\u2019ve hit rock bottom now, there is a happy ending to your story. You just can\u2019t see it yet because you didn\u2019t read through the next few chapters that are leading to the grand finale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t whine, don\u2019t feel sorry for yourself.<\/a> If you treat yourself this way, others will, too. If you pity yourself, others will, too. You don\u2019t want that\u2014<\/span>NO! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Volete che le persone vi trattino con il rispetto che meritate. Volete che vi guardino come una persona forte e indipendente. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A person who is fearless\u2014ready to take down anything or anyone that comes her way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Devi lasciarti andare. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for you to realize that Tutto accade per un motivo.<\/a> God or whichever higher force you believe in has put you on this Earth for a reason and with a purpose. Each and every human being has its task. Only some don\u2019t figure it out right from the start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni nuovo schiaffo ti rende pi\u00f9 forte. Ci si riprende e si dimentica!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete smettere di vivere nel passato.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate ora cambier\u00e0 ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 gi\u00e0 accaduto. Non ha senso lamentarsi perch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 modo di cambiare il passato. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you can do is to never do it again\u2014think about your future, and spare your future self what you\u2019re going through now.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete finalmente fare pace. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Devi essere una persona pi\u00f9 grande. Devi fare pace con lui e con tutti quelli che ti hanno fatto del male. Solo cos\u00ec troverai la forza di andare avanti e dimenticare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Solo cos\u00ec potrete guarire. \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 necessario abbracciare se stessi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Amare se stessi \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante da fare. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Remember: that is not selfish or narcissistic. It\u2019s about respecting yourself and not letting everyone walk all over you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t let anyone define you. Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014you lost the definition of yourself. But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-365341.jpeg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}