{"id":51070,"date":"2020-06-15T21:19:01","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T21:19:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51070"},"modified":"2022-03-22T00:58:35","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T00:58:35","slug":"15-segni-sicuri-che-non-vi-sposerete-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-sicuri-che-non-vi-sposerete-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"15 segnali inequivocabili che non vi sposerete mai e perch\u00e9 va benissimo cos\u00ec"},"content":{"rendered":"

In passato, lo scopo ultimo della vita di ogni persona era trovare un coniuge adatto e creare una famiglia.<\/p>\n

Whoever didn\u2019t manage to do so was considered an outcast, and everyone thought something was wrong with them.<\/p>\n

It didn’t matter whether you were successful in other life fields; if you’re a amico fedele<\/a>, a great worker and a kind person in general\u2014if you didn’t have a family of your own (which had to include a husband or a wife), you had nothing.<\/p>\n

Le coppie sposate erano una parte privilegiata della societ\u00e0, mentre le donne e gli uomini single erano guardati dall'alto in basso. <\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Per fortuna tutto questo \u00e8 cambiato. Oggi, la decisione di non sposarsi mai non \u00e8 un grosso problema.<\/p>\n

In fact, more and more people start noticing the perks of a single life and make the choice of never saying: \u201cI do\u201d.<\/p>\n

But how can you know if you\u2019re one of those people and whether essere single<\/a> \u00e8 la cosa giusta per voi? <\/p>\n

Just read the following signs, and if you can relate to most of them, it is pretty obvious that you\u2019ll probably never get married.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la parte migliore \u00e8 che non c'\u00e8 nulla di sbagliato in questo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a loner<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Secondo molti studi, purtroppo, il motivo numero uno per cui le persone si sposano \u00e8 completamente e totalmente sbagliato.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t experience a moment of epiphany in which they know they\u2019ve met the right one, and they don\u2019t do it out of love\u2014they do it out of fear of solitude.<\/p>\n

Vedono tutti quelli che li circondano sistemarsi<\/a>, and at one point, they become terrified that they\u2019ll end up alone without anyone to grow old next to.<\/p>\n

Quando questo accade, tutti i criteri scompaiono. Molti diventano disperati e prendono la prima persona che incontrano direttamente nel corridoio.<\/p>\n

Well, this is where you\u2019re different. It is not that you despite company, but to be honest, you\u2019re quite a loner.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, avete molti amici e familiari con cui uscire. Tuttavia, apprezzate troppo il vostro spazio personale e il vostro tempo per iniziare a condividerlo con un'altra persona, nonostante l'amore che potreste provare per lei.<\/p>\n

You have your own habits and routines, and you don\u2019t allow anyone interfering in your schedule.<\/p>\n

Sapendo tutto questo, \u00e8 chiaro perch\u00e9 vi godete la vostra condizione di single e ne traete il meglio.<\/p>\n

You not having a romantic partner is not something life circumstances imposed on you\u2014you embraced your single life because you consciously chose it.<\/p>\n

La vostra indipendenza \u00e8 fondamentale<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been self-sufficient. You knew you were more than enough, and you never needed another human being to give your existence meaning.<\/p>\n

It is not that you\u2019re incapable of loving\u2014you simply don\u2019t have a habit of hanging on to one person and allowing your entire world to collapse once they disappear.<\/p>\n

Invece, sapete di potercela fare da soli, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re an incredibly independent person who doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s guidance. And when I say independent, I mean truly indipendente<\/a> on all levels: financially, emotionally, socially…<\/p>\n

Ever since you were a little kid, you haven\u2019t expected anyone to do your work for you, to resolve your problems or to get you out of trouble.<\/p>\n

You are not the type of person who is constantly looking for a shoulder to cry on or needs someone\u2019s assistance when it comes to choices you makes.<\/p>\n

You might listen to someone else\u2019s advice, but you\u2019re always the one who has the final say regarding all decisions in your life. In fact, you wouldn\u2019t be able to stand having someone tell you what to do.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a leader or a tutor because you\u2019re capable of achieving everything you\u2019ve set your mind to without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n

More importantly, you couldn\u2019t imagine your life deprived of this independence which makes up a crucial part of your personality or having to give someone a chance to limit your freedom in any way.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t believe in true love<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Se mettiamo le cose onestamente, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che tu don\u2019t believe in love<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Almeno, non nell'amore romantico e incondizionato che dura tutta la vita e ha il potere di sconfiggere qualsiasi ostacolo si presenti sulla sua strada.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t perceive it the way it is presented in romantic comedies: as this omnipotent force nothing and nobody can destroy.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t believe in the concepts of soulmates, true love, and twin flame connections.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just too practical for these beliefs to guide you through life. You\u2019re not romantic, and you\u2019ve never dreamt of meeting your other half.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, credete che le persone possano tenere profondamente l'una all'altra. Tuttavia, secondo il vostro punto di vista, c'\u00e8 sempre un po' di egoismo in ogni amore romantico, e questo non \u00e8 qualcosa che volete per voi stessi.<\/p>\n

You believe in mutual respect and appreciation. You think that two people can function together if they\u2019re compatible and convenient for each other\u2014not because a chemical in their brains and butterflies in their stomach told them they should.<\/p>\n

Therefore, for you, the concept of forever and \u201cuntil death do us part\u201d is just a fairytale which is impossible to maintain in real life.<\/p>\n

Secondo il vostro punto di vista, le persone prima o poi si stancano l'una dell'altra, ma restano sposate perch\u00e9 non hanno un altro posto dove andare.<\/p>\n

And if that is the point of marriage, you\u2019d rather pass it by.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re surrounded by negative examples<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa che potrebbe essere il motivo per cui don\u2019t want to get married<\/a> si trova in tutto ci\u00f2 che si vede, ovunque si guardi.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see love and respect. You see people living their lives in misery; you see serial cheaters, abusers\u2026<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re a child of divorced parents. It is possible that you spent your entire life looking at the two of them arguing but remaining together just because of that piece of paper.<\/p>\n

Oppure continuate a notare come i vostri amici maschi e femmine soffrano nel matrimonio.<\/p>\n

You see that married couples either end up with a nasty divorce or with the silent resentment of two people who can\u2019t stand each other but don\u2019t leave.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, per voi sembra che il matrimonio sia sinonimo di infelicit\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Dopo tutto ci\u00f2 di cui siete stati testimoni, perch\u00e9 dovreste credere di poter avere un'altra soluzione?<\/p>\n

E perch\u00e9 mettersi in gioco quando si hanno chiaramente zero possibilit\u00e0 di successo?<\/p>\n

Avete paura del cambiamento<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Maybe this is something you wouldn\u2019t admit to anyone, including yourself, but the truth is that deep down, you\u2019re terrified of any unnecessary change.<\/p>\n

Vi piace la vostra vita cos\u00ec com'\u00e8 e amate rimanere nella vostra zona di comfort.<\/p>\n

Il matrimonio comporterebbe inevitabilmente alcune differenze cruciali nella vostra esistenza quotidiana.<\/p>\n

Che vi piaccia o no, dovrete adattarvi a questa nuova persona che \u00e8 diventata una parte fondamentale della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

That is what scares you the most: having to modify yourself just to please someone else, having to change your daily habits and customs to fit the other person in, not being able to make important decisions without consulting them\u2026 and the list goes on.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not only that. You\u2019re also repulsed by the idea of bringing some minor differences to your life such as having to clear space in your clothes closet for your marital partner\u2019s clothes, disturbing your sleep schedule or seeing your friends less often.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno potrebbe darvi del codardo, ma voi odiate buttarvi nell'ignoto.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how well you could get by in this new union, and you would rather remain blissfully uninformed than give it a shot in marriage and fail.<\/p>\n

Odiate i matrimoni<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re male or female: both boys and girls have dreamt of their wedding when they were kids.<\/p>\n

Most of us imagined the wedding dress or tuxedo we\u2019d be wearing and how that magical moment under the aisle would look.<\/p>\n

Well, you didn\u2019t. Moreover, you\u2019ve always despised even being invited to weddings.<\/p>\n

You see them as unnecessary and in most cases, tacky, and you don\u2019t see the point in spending this happy day surrounded by, among others, random friends and distant family members whom you couldn\u2019t care less about.<\/p>\n

Si considera il giorno del matrimonio<\/a> una fonte di stress per gli sposi. <\/p>\n

Potranno permettersi tutto? Tutti gli ospiti saranno soddisfatti?<\/p>\n

Andr\u00e0 tutto come previsto? <\/p>\n

Not only that, you were never into proposals either. You never saw any romance in a man going down on one knee and buying a ring he can\u2019t afford just to pop this infamous question.<\/p>\n

Who would consciously choose all of this just to make an impression? You surely wouldn\u2019t, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, vi siete mai chiesti se questo non sia solo il vostro odio verso il giorno del matrimonio?<\/p>\n

Could this be your subconscious repulsion towards the entire marriage thing and a subtle sign you don\u2019t want to get married?<\/p>\n

Non siete tradizionali<\/h2>\n

\"Il<\/p>\n

In effetti, neanche a voi sono mai piaciute le tradizioni e le usanze. Non vedevi il motivo per cui le persone seguissero le abitudini dei loro antenati praticate decenni o addirittura secoli fa, senza alcuna ragione logica.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not someone who blindly follows stereotypes, and you do everything in your power to avoid blending into the masses.<\/p>\n

Your life decisions have nothing to do with societal standards and norms, so you never get pressured into doing something you actually don\u2019t want just so you won\u2019t be called a weirdo.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you\u2019re not afraid of anyone judging you or commenting on your life choices just because you decide to remain unwed.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinions and expectations and don\u2019t let them guide you.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you don\u2019t think that finding a life partner and having kids should be every person\u2019s final goal and purpose in this world.<\/p>\n

Non avete alcun problema a rimanere da soli, anche se ci\u00f2 sarebbe in contrasto con tutte le norme in cui siete stati cresciuti.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t believe in the institution of marriage<\/h2>\n

\"sposo<\/p>\n

Per voi, un matrimonio legale non rappresenta letteralmente nulla. \u00c8 solo un pezzo di carta che non ha alcun valore. <\/p>\n

Se amate qualcuno e questo qualcuno vi ama a sua volta, potete passare il resto della vostra vita insieme, senza dover compilare quella formalit\u00e0 e firmare quel pezzo di carta.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, se doveste decidere di separarvi, potrete semplicemente allontanarvi l'uno dall'altro, senza farne un dramma e senza intraprendere diverse procedure legali che rendono l'intero processo pi\u00f9 difficile del dovuto. <\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa che volete \u00e8 dover correre in tribunale e divorziare dal vostro coniuge davanti a tutto il mondo, oltre a vivere un doloroso strazio. <\/p>\n

Inoltre, lei pensa che l'istituzione del matrimonio non sia altro che un'invenzione sociale che non ha alcun senso.<\/p>\n

You don’t mind living unwed with your loved one and never going down the aisle. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want kids<\/h2>\n

\"mamma<\/p>\n

Contrary to popular opinion, it is not in everyone’s blood to want to have heirs. Some people don’t want kids, and that is their right. <\/p>\n

Anche se forse non siete ancora 100% sicuri di questa decisione, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non siete mai stati un tipo da bambini.<\/p>\n

You thought that this natural instinct would come to you with time, but that isn’t happening. <\/p>\n

You simply love your life enough that you don’t want to change it. You don’t feel the need to have a child and don’t think you would be a good parent. <\/p>\n

Qualcuno potrebbe definirvi egoisti, ma avete il diritto di non voler essere responsabili di portare un altro essere umano in questo mondo crudele.<\/p>\n

Besides, being honest about this is way better than having kids just because society, your family or your significant other expects you to and then making everyone\u2019s lives a living hell. <\/p>\n

Of course, you don’t have to get married in order to reproduce. You can always be a single parent or have kids with someone who won’t be your spouse. <\/p>\n

However, having this kind of attitude can also be a red flag that you’re not marriage material and that you couldn’t imagine yourself living a happy, married life.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se questo si rivela sbagliato e trovate una persona accanto alla quale volete invecchiare, assicuratevi fin dall'inizio di avere gli stessi desideri e obiettivi futuri per quanto riguarda i figli (e tutto il resto). <\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking for the perfect person<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Another one of the signs that you\u2019ll never get married lies in your high standards. Don’t get me wrong\u2014I’m not accusing you of being troppo esigente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I’m just pointing out that you have some deal breakers when it comes to the person you see as marriage material, which is a good thing. <\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, si tratta di una persona che dovrebbe essere la vostra compagna di vita nei giorni buoni e in quelli cattivi, e la persona il cui volto sar\u00e0 la prima cosa che vedrete per il resto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 quindi del tutto naturale che tutti siano molto attenti nella scelta del proprio partner matrimoniale. <\/p>\n

You’re someone who refuses to settle for less. You don’t want to get married to someone you’re not compatible with nor are you ready to end up stuck in a loveless marriage. <\/p>\n

Instead, you’re looking for the perfect person who can reach all of your standards and criteria. Yes, there is a possibility of never finding someone like this, but that is a risk you’re willing to take. <\/p>\n

After all, you’re perfectly aware that it is always better to rimanere single finch\u00e9 non arriva la persona giusta<\/a> che sprecare tempo ed energie con le persone sbagliate.<\/p>\n

You would rather grow old alone than catch yourself wondering if you\u2019ve destroyed your entire life by making this bad choice. <\/p>\n

Si fugge dall'impegno<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Nella maggior parte dei casi, le persone che sono respinte dall'idea del matrimonio sono fobici dell'impegno<\/a>. And if you’re one of them, it is a clear sign you will never settle down, simply because you see it as your biggest nightmare. <\/p>\n

La monogamia e le relazioni impegnate a lungo termine vi spaventano a morte. Vi sentite in trappola e in gabbia al solo pensiero di dover passare il resto dei vostri giorni accanto a una sola persona. <\/p>\n

Preferite invece le relazioni aperte e incontri occasionali<\/a>. Vi piace il tipo di accordo in cui si esce con l'altra persona ogni volta che se ne ha voglia.<\/p>\n

Vi divertite, ma nessuno di voi due \u00e8 oppresso da cose come la monogamia o l'impegno. <\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 un dato di fatto, \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che evidente che il matrimonio non fa per voi.<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong\u2014not being able to devote yourself completely to another person is your right; you just have to be completely honest about it in time, instead of guidare qualcuno<\/a>, assuring them they’re in a healthy relationship while they’re actually dealing with a hidden commitment-phobe. <\/p>\n

You\u2019re haunted by past traumas<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Di solito, le persone che decidono di non sposarsi mai sono quelle che hanno avuto una vita sentimentale di merda fino a quel momento.<\/p>\n

Se siete passati attraverso un orribile rottura<\/a>, if you’ve been played, abandoned or cheated on, it is normal that you’ve lost faith in love and that you see red flags everywhere you look. <\/p>\n

In passato, eravate degli inguaribili romantici che mettevano l'amore al primo posto. Far funzionare la vostra relazione sentimentale era la vostra priorit\u00e0 numero uno.<\/p>\n

Non c'erano dubbi sul fatto che voleste dei figli e non c'erano segni dell'orribile rottura che \u00e8 avvenuta in seguito. <\/p>\n

Tuttavia, di punto in bianco, la vostra intera vita \u00e8 crollata. La persona di cui vi fidavate di pi\u00f9 e che pensavate non vi avrebbe mai fatto del male, vi ha causato un'infranta crepacuore<\/a> che ha lasciato su di voi conseguenze incancellabili ancora oggi. <\/p>\n

After all this time, you’re still haunted by your past traumas and demons, which you can’t seem to get rid of.<\/p>\n

Ever since all of this happened, you haven’t had a healthy relationship because whenever you meet someone new, you see the warning signs of their toxicity, even when there are none. <\/p>\n

So, you can’t help but think: “Why get married?”, when you’ll only end up disappointed, betrayed and heartbroken one way or another. Isn’t it better to enjoy all the I vantaggi di essere single<\/a>?<\/p>\n

La carriera e la vita sociale vengono prima di tutto<\/h2>\n

\"amiche<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you can\u2019t be both career-oriented and have a successful family life. However, the truth is that one has to suffer for the other.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio questo che volete evitare, perch\u00e9 per voi la carriera e la vita sociale vengono sempre prima di tutto.<\/p>\n

Volete progredire ed essere i migliori in quello che fate e vi piace passare il tempo con i vostri amici pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa.<\/p>\n

In sostanza, avete tutte le vostre priorit\u00e0 e l'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 che qualcuno interferisca con esse.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to dedicate your entire life to having a spouse and children without the possibility of putting all of your energy into your work.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, si preferisce rimanere una donna single<\/a> or man than getting yourself into a situation where you\u2019re torn between your career and your marriage.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to pick because you\u2019ve already made your choice.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not willing to compromise<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a relazione a lungo termine<\/a>Se si vuole che le cose vadano bene, \u00e8 sufficiente incontrare l'altra persona a met\u00e0 strada, per non parlare del matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Sarebbe ingiusto se tutto andasse per il verso giusto mentre l'altra persona obbedisce ciecamente a tutto ci\u00f2 che dite e fate.<\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019re simply not capable of compromising and changing your lifestyle to please someone else, as much as you love them<\/p>\n

Qualcuno potrebbe definirvi egoisti, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che vivete la vostra vita alle vostre condizioni.<\/p>\n

You have your own rules you follow, and you don\u2019t want to put an effort into finding common ground with your significant other.<\/p>\n

You put your own needs in first place and don\u2019t want to be bothered by satisfying someone else\u2019s. And as long as you\u2019re honest about it, it is perfectly fine to behave in this manner.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t want to <\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

L'ultimo segno che non vi sposerete mai \u00e8 la mancanza di desiderio che provate per il matrimonio. Non c'\u00e8 una ragione particolare per la vostra repulsione verso il matrimonio.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t see yourself functioning in married life, and you were never drawn to the idea of marriage.<\/p>\n

You don’t mind being in romantic relationships, but you never wanted to get married. <\/p>\n

All'inizio pensavate che questo desiderio sarebbe arrivato con il tempo, quando sareste cresciuti e diventati pi\u00f9 maturi. Tuttavia, ci\u00f2 non \u00e8 mai accaduto.<\/p>\n

If this is something you can relate to, I\u2019m begging you not to do anything you don\u2019t truly want, just because \u201cthat is how things should be\u201d.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t judge yourself for feeling this way, and have the courage to live your life the way you want it, instead of sentencing yourself to misery.<\/p>\n

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