{"id":5112,"date":"2017-09-16T16:38:19","date_gmt":"2017-09-16T16:38:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5112"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:14:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:14:26","slug":"una-lettera-alluomo-che-pensavo-fosse-quello-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alluomo-che-pensavo-fosse-quello-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera all'uomo che credevo fosse \"quello giusto\"."},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei entrato nella mia vita senza invito. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I didn’t even see you coming\u2014no one in my life saw you coming. One day you were a complete stranger and the next day I was completely in love with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

It was a real life fairytale\u2014the two of us. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Abbiamo vissuto quei momenti incantati e abbiamo desiderato che potessero durare. per sempre<\/a>. E quando ci siamo lasciati, abbiamo desiderato che tornassero.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma, a volte, Dio o la fede o<\/i><\/b> Qualunque forza superiore intervenga e vi conduca su una strada diversa.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nothing awful happened. We didn\u2019t go through a tragedy. You didn\u2019t intentionally hurt me. The both of us wanted only the best to come out of our relationship. But things didn\u2019t work out the way we wanted them to. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are really no hard feelings. I\u2019m just sad that it couldn\u2019t work out. We had it all, and we weren\u2019t smart enough to use it. We didn\u2019t fight for our survival.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora che non stiamo pi\u00f9 insieme, a volte mi capita di fantasticare su cosa sarebbe successo se avessimo insistito un po' di pi\u00f9. Sarebbe stato il nostro \"per sempre felici e contenti\"? Sarebbe stata la cosa giusta da fare?<\/span><\/p>\n

Probabilmente no.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho sempre saputo che tutte le cose accadono per un motivo. Noi siamo capitati per un motivo e abbiamo preso ad esistere per un motivo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I guess what I\u2019m trying to say is that I don\u2019t hold any grudges. I don\u2019t resent you in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, Voglio ringraziarvi<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie<\/i><\/b> for giving me one of the best experiences of my life. One that I will cherish and remember with a bit of sorrow in my heart, just because it didn\u2019t end well. Perhaps we now think it has damaged us. But who knows what the future will bring.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie<\/i><\/b> per avermi fatto credere in me stessa e nella mia autostima. Ogni volta che ho dubitato di me stessa, sei intervenuta per spingermi un po' pi\u00f9 in l\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie<\/i><\/b> for challenging me and making our relationship exciting\u2014full of ups and downs and all those beautifully difficult obstacles ready to be crossed. The only thing was to find a way to cross over. It was like a puzzle, and we never stopped until we put it all together to the last piece.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie<\/i><\/b> per tutti i tocchi e i baci che mi hai dato. Non perder\u00f2 mai la sensazione di quando mi hai preso tra le braccia. In quel momento ho capito che qualsiasi cosa accadr\u00e0 tra noi due, troveremo un modo per sopravvivere. <\/span><\/p>\n

And we did. Yet, despite the fact we loved each other to the point it hurt, we fell apart. That\u2019s how life works.<\/span><\/p>\n

A volte le cose che sembrano cos\u00ec logiche sono le pi\u00f9 incomprensibili.<\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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