{"id":51184,"date":"2020-09-13T20:54:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T20:54:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51184"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:10:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:10:05","slug":"solo-perche-porto-bene-il-mio-carico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/solo-perche-porto-bene-il-mio-carico\/","title":{"rendered":"Solo perch\u00e9 porto bene il mio carico, non vuol dire che non sia pesante"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know that girl who seems as if she never takes the smile off her face? The girl who looks like she doesn\u2019t have a worry on her mind, who is always relaxed and handles all of her problems with ease?<\/p>\n

Avete presente quella ragazza che \u00e8 sempre ottimista, a prescindere da tutto, e che non permette mai all'oscurit\u00e0 di consumarla?<\/p>\n

La ragazza che scherza continuamente e che in qualche modo riesce a trovare il lato positivo in ogni situazione negativa?<\/p>\n

Sembra quasi perfetta, vero? Anzi, scommetto che vi piacerebbe fare a cambio con lei. <\/p>\n

She looks like someone who doesn\u2019t waste her time on overthinking, someone who can cut you out of her life in a matter of minutes and someone who is completely indifferent toward everything going on around her. <\/p>\n

Ebbene, indovinate un po'? I\u2019m that girl. And I\u2019m here to tell you that things are nowhere near what they seem to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedete, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che I\u2019m going through a lot\u2014I just don\u2019t allow it to be seen.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that I\u2019m heartbroken, that I have more than one problem and that just like you, sometimes I don\u2019t know whether I will make it or not. <\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that I\u2019m suppressing my negative emotions or ignoring my pain, hoping that it will go away.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sweeping my baggage under the carpet\u2014I\u2019m simply not showing it to anyone who crosses my path.<\/p>\n

Potresti chiamarmi sorvegliato<\/a> o eccessivamente prudente quando si tratta di persone, ma secondo le mie esperienze non si ottiene nulla mostrando a tutti ci\u00f2 che si prova.<\/p>\n

No, the world won\u2019t help you deal with your troubles and they won\u2019t give you a hand when you\u2019re going through hardships\u2014they\u2019ll just see them as weaknesses and use everything they know against you.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the point of crying out loud and constantly complaining? What\u2019s the point of playing the victim and expecting other people\u2019s sympathy?<\/b><\/p>\n

Will it magically chase away my demons, heal my past traumas and repair my crushed heart? It won\u2019t, will it now?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014it\u2019s not that I\u2019m trying to represent my life as ideal.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not ashamed of my emotional load and I\u2019m not pretending to be better than you; I just have a hard time sharing my deepest emotions and opening up completely. <\/p>\n

Tuttavia, just because I don\u2019t let anyone see my pain, it doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m indestructible. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make me stronger than the rest and it doesn\u2019t make my heart unbreakable. <\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you don\u2019t notice the burden I\u2019m carrying around, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not there.<\/p>\n

Just because I don\u2019t talk about everything that\u2019s been weighing me down, it doesn\u2019t make it easy. <\/p>\n

Just because you know nothing about my break-ups, family matters or health problems, it doesn\u2019t mean my life is perfect.<\/p>\n

Just because I don\u2019t keep on posting pathetic motivational messages or sad quotes all over my social media profiles, it doesn\u2019t mean nothing touches me.<\/p>\n

Just because I don\u2019t go around telling people about my mental issues and don\u2019t treat them as some kind of a trend of modern society, it doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t struggle with depression and anxiety.<\/p>\n

Just because I laugh away my troubles, it doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t cry myself to sleep. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Just because I managed to win my battles, it doesn\u2019t make the windmills easy to fight. Just because I see my <\/b>Le lotte come benedizioni<\/b><\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean they didn\u2019t hit me. <\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you don\u2019t see my sad story, it doesn\u2019t make it fake or non-existent.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just because you never saw me break, it doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m a rock which is impossible to harm. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tutti voi non notate altro che i miei momenti felici e i miei trionfi. Tuttavia, vi siete mai chiesti quanti sforzi e sacrifici ci siano dietro ogni mio successo? <\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, pensate a tutto questo la prossima volta che mi invidierete o giudicherete o la prossima volta che vorrete fare a cambio con me. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pensate a tutte le lacrime che si nascondono dietro il sorriso che vedete, a tutti i sacrifici che si nascondono dietro ogni risultato e a tutto il carico invisibile che porto sulle spalle.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not the only one going through life like this. There exist people who don\u2019t like being the center of attention, who don\u2019t enjoy drama and who prefer jumping over their obstacles on their own. <\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether someone is going through a rottura difficile<\/a>, whether they are or their family member is sick, if they have a work-related crisis or are dealing with something you know nothing about and is beyond your comprehension, the bottom line is the same\u2014they do their best to work things out without having to ask for anyone\u2019s help. <\/p>\n

Pensate a questo la prossima volta che mi fate del male, convinti che non mi causer\u00e0 alcun danno. <\/b><\/p>\n

The next time you treat me like a fool, the next time you run away from me at the first glance of trouble in my life and the next time you forget I\u2019m only a human made of flesh and blood.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m just begging you to have this one thing in mind: everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about. And we all deal with life\u2019s circumstances in a different way.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, how many times have you hidden your tears from the rest of the world? How many times have you said that everything is in perfect order, when it clearly wasn\u2019t?<\/p>\n

So, just because someone doesn\u2019t go around crying about everything bad they experienced, don\u2019t see it as a sign that their life is going smoothly because I assure you it\u2019s not; nobody\u2019s life does.<\/p>\n

In effetti, \u00e8 possibile che questa persona stia molto peggio di voi. <\/p>\n

\"Solo<\/p>\n

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