Naturalmente, vi vogliono fuori dalla loro vita e dal loro cuore. Tuttavia, avete capito il vostro errore e siete pronti a fare tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 in vostro potere per farvi perdonare. <\/p>\n
Ebbene, questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che accade di solito quando qualcuno trucchi<\/a> sulla persona amata.<\/p>\n Capisci le conseguenze delle tue azioni e implori un'altra possibilit\u00e0 di sistemare le cose. <\/p>\n So, how do you do it exactly? Do you write an apology letter in which you simply say “I’m sorry”? Do you keep on texting and calling your significant other until their anger goes away?<\/p>\n O cercate di dare tutta la colpa a loro? Vi giustificate e usate false scuse per il vostro comportamento?<\/p>\n How to apologise for cheating? Well, you’re about to find out. <\/p>\n Seguite i passaggi indicati di seguito e trovate il modo migliore per uscire da questa situazione. Buona fortuna!<\/p>\n Prima di intraprendere qualsiasi azione per sistemare le cose, bisogna innanzitutto rompere con il proprio partner.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t necessarily have to fight with them, but you can\u2019t stay best friends either.<\/p>\n However, if they are your coworker or some other person you can\u2019t kick out of your life completely, reduce your contact to the bare minimum. There is no texting, no phone calls, no spending time together…<\/p>\n You can\u2019t expect your partner to be okay with the fact that you still hang out with someone you cheated on them with, and you certainly can\u2019t expect to get another chance in those circumstances. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, you shouldn\u2019t blame your lover for anything that has happened either.<\/p>\n Of course, it is never okay to be the third person, but they didn\u2019t force you to become a imbroglione<\/a>, indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che hanno fatto.<\/p>\n Siete stati voi a fare questa scelta, quindi non c'\u00e8 bisogno di litigare con loro e di considerarli colpevoli dei vostri errori.<\/p>\n Inoltre, il vostro partner potrebbe interpretare la vostra comunicazione in modo sbagliato e potrebbe concludere che provate ancora qualcosa per questa persona non appena avete la necessit\u00e0 di cercare di chiudere con lei.<\/p>\n Pertanto, la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 interrompere ogni possibile contatto con questa persona.<\/p>\n Naturally, you\u2019re not ignorarli per attirare la loro attenzione<\/a>: you\u2019re doing it because it is the only right thing to do. <\/p>\n Siate radicali: bloccate i loro profili sui social media, bloccate il loro numero e smettete di apparire nei luoghi in cui sapete di poterli incontrare. <\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t be doing this to prove something to your partner either: you should make this move only because you\u2019ve realized that this was an awful mistake and because you want this person out of your life. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t wait until you\u2019re sure that your significant other will take you back to cut your lover off.<\/p>\n Invece, non contattateli prima di fare un tentativo con loro e prima ancora di iniziare il processo di scuse. <\/p>\n Trust me\u2014this is the only way for them to see that you\u2019re serious and that you\u2019re really sorry about everything you did. <\/p>\n The next step doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with your significant other: it is something you have to do on your own.<\/p>\n Per cominciare, iniziate ad analizzare il vostro problemi di relazione<\/a>e cercare di capire perch\u00e9 avete fatto tutto questo. <\/p>\n This is one of the first questions you\u2019ll be asked when you confront your partner, so it is better to have an answer ready.<\/p>\n Cosa vi \u00e8 mancato nella vostra relazione che avete cercato altrove?<\/p>\n Vi siete sentiti trascurati emotivamente? Oppure stavate cercando di ripagare la persona amata per qualcosa che aveva fatto in passato?<\/p>\n Did your relationship fall into a rut? Were you looking for butterflies and the excitement you haven\u2019t been getting for some time? <\/p>\n Avete cercato di fare un punto della situazione e di dimostrare a voi stessi che avete ancora le carte in regola per conquistare qualcuno del sesso opposto?<\/p>\n Or you were just not thinking straight and don\u2019t even know why you did it?<\/p>\n Even when you get to the bottom of each one of these questions, they don\u2019t free you from guilt.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what was going on in your relationship: cheating is never an option. <\/p>\n Se la vostra relazione stava attraversando un periodo difficile, avreste dovuto comportarvi da adulti maturi e impegnarvi per risolvere la situazione.<\/p>\n Se avesse visto che voi due come coppia eravate destinati a fallire, avrebbe potuto allontanarsi in tempo invece di fare tutto questo. <\/p>\n Indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che il vostro partner vi ha fatto e da come vi ha trattato, questo non \u00e8 mai un modo per risolvere i vostri problemi di relazione o per farli cambiare. <\/p>\n Un'altra cosa a cui dovreste pensare sono i vostri sentimenti nei confronti del vostro partner.<\/p>\n Non era altro che passione o vi siete innamorati di loro?<\/p>\n Did you break things off with them out of fear that you\u2019ll lose your relationship or marriage, which are way more permanent and secure or did you really understand that you were making a mistake?<\/p>\n After you\u2019ve gotten all the answers, it is time to look at your relationship as realistically as possible.<\/p>\n \u00c8 davvero per cui vale la pena lottare<\/a>e c'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 che voi due risolviate le cose dopo questo disastro?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not trying to justify your affair in any way, but it is more than clear that something was off in your relationship as long as you cheated. Well, is this something that can be fixed?<\/p>\n Voi e il vostro partner avete la forza e la capacit\u00e0 di voltare una nuova pagina e di ricominciare, senza mai guardarvi indietro?<\/p>\n Or will this entire effort be pointless because deep down, you\u2019re perfectly aware that you can\u2019t succeed?<\/p>\n Vi aspettate che il vostro partner vi ripaghi alla prima occasione? Sar\u00e0 in grado di perdonarvi veramente per tutto?<\/p>\n Are you done with your affairs? Do you sincerely think that you won\u2019t repeat the same mistake at the first glance of trouble?<\/p>\n Vi amate abbastanza da far funzionare le cose, nonostante il tradimento e l'umiliazione?<\/p>\n Siete pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di riavere questa persona?<\/p>\n If you\u2019re trying to rebuild your broken relationship just out of habit and nostalgia and are not sure that you won\u2019t engage in another affair soon, please give up in time.<\/p>\n Hai ferito abbastanza questa persona e l'ultima cosa di cui ha bisogno \u00e8 che tu la pugnali di nuovo. <\/p>\n Tuttavia, se pensate che valga la pena lottare per questo e che il vostro partner sia la vostra anima gemella, pentitevi e fate di tutto perch\u00e9 vi riprenda. <\/p>\n When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to apologize for cheating and lying, you have to be ready to be interrogated by your partner.<\/p>\n After all, they won\u2019t forgive you just like that, without finding out everything they\u2019re interested in.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t lie and don\u2019t trovare scuse<\/a> perch\u00e9 questo li far\u00e0 solo arrabbiare ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t try making them a fool\u2014just be as honest as possible. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t talk about some sexual details, but you shouldn\u2019t wrap things up in a shiny paper either.<\/p>\n Besides, be aware that your partner probably knows a lot more than you might think, so don\u2019t let them catch you lying again. <\/p>\n After all, you\u2019ve already done enough, so getting another strike against yourself is the last thing you need. <\/p>\n Quando il vostro partner vi chiede perch\u00e9 avete tradito, ditegli la verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Siate sinceri su quanto \u00e8 durata la vostra relazione, se si \u00e8 trattato di una vera e propria relazione o di un'avventura occasionale, se si \u00e8 trattato solo di sesso o se sono state coinvolte delle emozioni, se \u00e8 successo per la prima volta in assoluto o avete continuato a farlo e qualsiasi altra informazione vogliano sapere. <\/p>\n I know you\u2019re trying to spare them, but believe me when I tell you that coming clean is the only way to start over without any emotional baggage from the past.<\/p>\n Ricordate: la verit\u00e0 non pu\u00f2 essere nascosta e il vostro interlocutore prima o poi scoprir\u00e0 tutto. <\/p>\n Pertanto, \u00e8 sempre meglio che siate voi a raccontare tutto.<\/p>\n Dovete chiudere questa faccenda una volta per tutte, invece di nasconderla sotto il tappeto e preoccuparvi continuamente di quando riapparir\u00e0. <\/p>\n I\u2019ll be harsh here, but I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re ashamed to talk about all of this.<\/p>\n Yes, I know that you would rather skip this topic, but you weren\u2019t ashamed when you were fooling around, so now is the time to man (or woman) up and stand by your actions.<\/p>\n At first, wanting to know all of this sounds masochistic. However, if having all the necessary information will help your partner feel more in control and eventually forgive you, it\u2019s what you have to do.<\/p>\n They just want to know everything they\u2019re dealing with, and they\u2019re testing your honesty. <\/p>\n Repeat after me: \u201cI\u2019m the only one guilty for everything that went on, and I’m sorry<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nobody forced or manipulated me into committing adultery, and no matter what was going in my relationship at that moment, I\u2019m the one who is guilty.\u201d <\/p>\n Non ci sono solo le parole che dovreste dire al vostro partner per far s\u00ec che vi perdoni e vi riprenda.<\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 davvero la verit\u00e0, e bisogna iniziare a crederci prima di dirla a qualcuno. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if you had a long-lasting affair or you had a one-night-stand with someone while you were wasted or in a fight with your significant other: your sin is the same.<\/p>\n You\u2019re an adult, and you consciously chose to do the wrong thing, without thinking about how your partner feels. <\/p>\n You\u2019re responsible for cheating, for humiliating and hurting your partner, and for destroying everything the two of you have been building for years.<\/p>\n Responsabile per tutti i traumi e le cicatrici che tutto questo potrebbe lasciare su di loro, per i loro problemi di fiducia e per la messa in discussione del loro valore. <\/p>\n You carry full responsibility for their every tear and heartache. So, you\u2019re the only one who should be judged.<\/p>\n La cosa peggiore che si possa pensare di fare \u00e8 impegnarsi nel gioco della colpa.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t plan on getting away with your misdeeds by accusing your partner of not giving you their undivided attention, of not loving you enough or of not treating you the way you deserved. <\/p>\n Sono loro le vittime, e la vittima non \u00e8 mai colpevole!<\/p>\n As was already stated, you could have tried changing the situation or leaving it, but out of all the options, you chose cheating\u2014like a real coward. <\/p>\n Also, remember that you ought to be sorry for everything you did\u2014not for getting caught.<\/p>\n Chiedete scusa al vostro partner e siate la persona pi\u00f9 grande per le vostre malefatte, non perch\u00e9 lo hanno scoperto. <\/p>\n Do it because it is the right thing and because you want to\u2014not because it is expected of you and not because it is something you should do in this type of situation. <\/p>\n If it’s necessary, write a sincere apology letter and put all of your feelings on a piece of paper.<\/p>\n For example, start with telling them “I’m sorry for what I did and I promise I’ll never do it again.”<\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 una buona idea anche se il vostro fidanzato o coniuge si rifiuta di ascoltarvi: inviategli una lettera di scuse per fargli sapere come vi sentite. <\/p>\n Voi e il vostro partner ne avete passate tante e avete trascorso una quantit\u00e0 significativa di tempo l'uno accanto all'altro.<\/p>\n Avevate grandi progetti e condividevate emozioni profonde. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what happened later on\u2014the fact is that at one point, this was the reality of your relationship.<\/p>\n Anche se ora non c'\u00e8 traccia di sentimenti romantici tra voi due, voi due siete stati una cosa e avete una storia insieme. <\/p>\n Pertanto, la vostra relazione e tutto ci\u00f2 che avete passato insieme meritano rispetto, e meritano il vostro scuse sincere<\/a>. <\/p>\n Have in mind that you are a cheater and that your partner doesn\u2019t have to give you a second chance. In fact, they have every right to forgive you but not want you back in their life. <\/p>\n \u00c8 per questo che bisogna chiedere scusa senza alcuna aspettativa.<\/p>\n Tell them straightforwardly that you know you\u2019re in no position to make any demands and that you just want them to know how terribly sorry you are for causing them this pain and for destroying your romance. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of insulting them or changing your story even if you see that they have no intention of forgiving you.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not the bad guy here, and you\u2019re the one who needs to stay humble until the end because you\u2019re the one who made an awful mistake. <\/p>\n Also, make sure you apologize in private. Avoid writing apology letters and posting them on social media or involving your mutual friends in all of this because they won\u2019t help you. <\/p>\n When you hurt someone, you can\u2019t expect one sincere apology to magically erase everything you did and fix things overnight.<\/p>\n Le persone hanno bisogno di tempo per elaborare le cose, per accettarle e infine per decidere se meritate il loro perdono o meno. <\/p>\n E il vostro partner non fa eccezione. Essere un traditore \u00e8 terribile, ed \u00e8 naturale che vi chieda di stare lontano per un certo periodo di tempo, finch\u00e9 non rifletter\u00e0 su tutto e affronter\u00e0 il processo di recupero della relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, don\u2019t demand an answer right away simply because they can\u2019t give you one.<\/p>\n Even if your significant other already knows what the outcome will be but wants to torture you a little bit, it is what you deserve\u2014as awful as it might sound. <\/p>\n Give them as much time as they need to come to a decision. On the other hand, if you\u2019re not ready to wait, tell them straightforwardly, and try setting a date by which they will give you their final answer. <\/p>\n Use this period of time to work on rebuilding trust. Don\u2019t be a stalker and don\u2019t push them too hard, but let them know that you\u2019re there and that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n Show them that you really will change and that you\u2019ll do whatever it takes for their forgiveness.<\/p>\n Se non altro, siate il loro migliore amico<\/a> e qualcuno su cui poter contare, nonostante tutto quello che \u00e8 successo. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of dating other people during this time, let alone getting back in touch with your lover.<\/p>\n Yes, you will be officially single, but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to fool around while you\u2019re allegedly trying to rebuild your relationship. <\/p>\n I will be straight with you: don\u2019t expect too much out of this. Don\u2019t get your hopes up because there is a big possibility of your partner choosing not to forgive and sending you to hell. <\/p>\n Quindi, \u00e8 qualcosa a cui dovete semplicemente prepararvi. In realt\u00e0, \u00e8 qualcosa a cui avreste dovuto prepararvi fin dal momento in cui avete deciso di intraprendere questa relazione. <\/p>\n Not only that\u2014your significant other might insult you, call you names, and refuse to even give you an opportunity to explain yourself.<\/p>\n Even if the worst thing happens and you two break up, remember that it is your fault and that you\u2019re the one who caused it. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying not to put all your efforts in apologizing\u2014I\u2019m just introducing you to all of your options, so you don\u2019t start acting all surprised if they cut all ties and kick you out of their life, as if you were never a part of it. <\/p>\n However, even if this occurs, at least you\u2019ll always know you didn\u2019t give up without a decent fight.<\/p>\n Despite the outcome, you\u2019ll know that you did everything you could and that you gave it your best.<\/p>\n Of course, if you have any conscience, this won\u2019t help you a lot. You\u2019ll still have to live with yourself and with the fact that you are the one who blew things.<\/p>\n However, if your partner decides to forgive you, don\u2019t forget to appreciate it more than anything and finally put them in primo posto<\/a> nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t see it as a green light to keep on hurting them, and don\u2019t take them for a fool just because they decided to give you another chance. <\/p>\n Quando si rompe un piatto, questo si frantuma in un milione di pezzi. E quando lo si incolla e si cerca di ricomporlo, le cicatrici rimangono per sempre. <\/p>\n Well, that is exactly what will happen with your relationship and your significant other\u2019s heart, even if they accept your apology and decide to take you back.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that things will never be the same, and you shouldn\u2019t expect them to be. <\/p>\n La fiducia che vi legava \u00e8 stata violata e la vostra storia d'amore \u00e8 stata messa in pericolo.<\/p>\n Everything you two had and all the love you shared is in question, so don\u2019t think that your partner will start acting like nothing has happened just like that. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should spend a lifetime apologizing for your affair.<\/p>\n Dopotutto, se la persona amata decide di perdonarvi, non ha pi\u00f9 senso sollevare l'argomento ogni giorno o serbare rancore. <\/p>\n In this case scenario, it is better for them to be honest from the start and tell you that they can\u2019t continue living next to you then to make your future a living hell and a torture for both of you. Nevertheless, be aware that this experience changed them for good.<\/p>\n Vi ci vorranno anni per riconquistare la loro fiducia e per far s\u00ec che dimentichino davvero il dolore che gli avete fatto passare, perch\u00e9 ci vorranno anni per guarire davvero. <\/p>\n Quando qualcuno vi tradisce, avete bisogno di molto tempo per guarire, per ritrovare il vostro autostima<\/a>e di superarlo.<\/p>\n And a lot of people don\u2019t succeed in accomplishing all of this is hard work. <\/p>\n Naturalmente i miracoli sono sempre possibili. C'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 che questo evento rafforzi il vostro rapporto, per quanto possa sembrare assurdo. <\/p>\n1. Tagliare i ponti con la terza persona<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Capire perch\u00e9 l'avete fatto<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Decidere se vale la pena lottare per la relazione<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Fornire una spiegazione dettagliata<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Assumersi la piena responsabilit\u00e0<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Chiedere scusa senza aspettative<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Dare loro tempo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Essere pronti al peggiore degli scenari<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Don\u2019t expect everything to be the same<\/h2>\n
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