{"id":51963,"date":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51963"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","slug":"una-lettera-a-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-a-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera a me prima di diventare mamma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ehi tu, stasera prendi un caff\u00e8 con i tuoi amici? Approfittate di quel momento. Rimanete concentrati e ascoltate davvero tutto ci\u00f2 che hanno da dire.<\/p>\n<p>Ascoltate la storia del terzo colpo di fulmine che la vostra amica civettuola ha avuto questa settimana e cercate davvero di aiutarla a sentirsi meglio.<\/p>\n<p>There will come the time you won\u2019t be able to care for your own heartbreaks and their talks about reckless nights out will annoy you more than anything else.<\/p>\n<p>Care for them, give them all you\u2019ve got, because when the time comes, they will be there for you, with their hearts and souls, ready to help and raise you up anytime you cave under the pressure.<\/p>\n<p>They will listen to the endless little troubles you are having with your kiddos and they will constantly praise you for being \u201csuch a good mom.\u201d They are worth absolutely everything you have to offer. Remember that at all times.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Forse stasera \u00e8 la sera dell'appuntamento per voi e il vostro maritino. S\u00ec, indossa quel vestito rosso attillato, assolutamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51964\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_322965119.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che balla in discoteca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_322965119.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_322965119-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_322965119-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche i tacchi e il rossetto. Passate una serata da ricordare. Andate da qualche parte e ballate fino allo sfinimento. Fate l'amore, appassionatamente, per tutta la notte.<\/p>\n<p>In your future, there are many, many sleepless nights that will be a product of a very different kind of love \u2013 you two taking care of your babies.<\/p>\n<p>Far\u00e0 qualsiasi cosa per voi e per loro. Vi sosterr\u00e0 durante i parti, culler\u00e0 i bambini per farli addormentare e vi porter\u00e0 la cena.<\/p>\n<p>He will work harder than ever, so you can buy all the baby stuff \u2013 and damn, is it expensive!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vorreste dimostrargli quanto lo amate, vorreste dargli tutto, ma a volte non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 niente da dare. Fatelo ora.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Go to the movies or cuddle up on the sofa and watch mindless TV shows for hours straight. Don\u2019t go anywhere, just chill out talking to each other. Also, go everywhere; there won\u2019t be much opportunity for that once the babies come.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto diventa molto pi\u00f9 complicato.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Haven\u2019t seen your mother for a while? Well, visit her this instant.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51965\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_611163263.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane figlia carina che abbraccia la madre con amore\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_611163263.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_611163263-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_611163263-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bring her favorite cookies from that place you once visited together. You know, the one where you were arguing because of something you can\u2019t even remember now?<\/p>\n<p>Non discutete mai con lei per motivi cos\u00ec sciocchi.<\/p>\n<p>Vi terr\u00e0 in vita. Cuciner\u00e0, pulir\u00e0 e far\u00e0 il bagno dopo un periodo difficile per il parto del primo figlio.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing anyone does after you\u2019ve had children of your own will be as helpful as the things she does.<\/p>\n<p>Vi conosce e ama i vostri figli come se fossero suoi. Mostratevi riconoscenti ogni giorno, in ogni cosa che dite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non mancate mai di rispetto a vostra madre. \u00c8 lei che ha fatto per voi tutto ci\u00f2 che voi ora fate per i vostri figli.<\/strong> Tenetelo a mente ogni secondo di ogni giorno. \u00c8 insostituibile.<\/p>\n<p>Non siate mai, a nessun costo, la causa delle sue lacrime. Quando avrete i vostri figli, vi spezzer\u00e0 il cuore il rendersi conto che ha gi\u00e0 versato tante lacrime per voi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Essere madre ti sembra cos\u00ec semplice e bello, vero?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367709207.jpg\" alt=\"Famiglia felice e amorevole. madre e bambina che giocano, si baciano e si abbracciano\" width=\"800\" height=\"526\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367709207.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367709207-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_367709207-768x505.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci si sposa, si partorisce, si fa il bagno, si d\u00e0 da mangiare e tutto il resto. S\u00ec, fai queste cose. Dovete sapere, per\u00f2, che nulla di ci\u00f2 che avete fatto \u00e8 simile all'essere mamma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 la cosa pi\u00f9 semplice e naturale, eppure ne scaturisce la pi\u00f9 complessa gamma di emozioni. La maternit\u00e0. Vi cambier\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro viso sar\u00e0 diverso. Quella piccola scintilla nei vostri occhi che avete quando succede qualcosa di eccitante sar\u00e0 sempre presente, finch\u00e9 i vostri bambini saranno felici e in salute.<\/p>\n<p>La vostra bocca si irrigidir\u00e0 ogni volta che vorrete sgridarli perch\u00e9 dipingono sul divano o corrono per casa con i piedi infangati.<\/p>\n<p>La vostra fronte diventer\u00e0 ogni giorno pi\u00f9 rugosa, a causa di tutte le preoccupazioni per loro che portate nel cuore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must also know this: You have never laughed or cried. You think you have, but the moment they hand you your little bundle of joy, everything will become clear. You\u2019ve only felt things half-heartedly up to this point.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Go around and smell everything you love. Smell the grass after the rain, smell those red roses in your grandma\u2019s backyard.<\/p>\n<p>Go smell Chanel 5 on your mother\u2019s shirt, your favorite chocolate.<\/p>\n<p>Heck, if you\u2019re up for it, even go and smell the sea. Nothing, and I mean nothing will come close to the smell of your babies&#8217; heads and their little baby-breath mouths.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51967\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_566796565.jpg\" alt=\"Una bella donna che tiene in braccio un neonato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_566796565.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_566796565-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_566796565-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che vi sorprenderete a respirare il loro profumo, piangerete all'istante.<\/p>\n<p>You will cry because you will be so happy to have felt such a strong emotion, but also because you\u2019ll become aware that it can\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And hey! You\u2019ll be amazing. You\u2019ll be so brave. You\u2019ll laugh in the face of any kind of misfortune and do it all for your children.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Smettere di odiarsi. Smettete di pensare di essere indegni. Per qualsiasi cosa tu stia facendo in questo momento, ti ringrazio.<\/p>\n<p>It will help you become the person you\u2019ll need to be in order to fill a complex mother role.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are not going to college right now. Don\u2019t worry. You\u2019ll manage to graduate even with two beautiful little girls driving you nuts.<\/p>\n<p>After calming a sick baby for an hour, you\u2019re going to sit down and study and pass all your exams on the first try with the highest grades.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll even bring them to exams sometimes, because there won\u2019t be anyone to take care of them for you more times than not.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all going to work out just fine. You can manage. You\u2019ll grow stronger each and every day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51968\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_557866771.jpg\" alt=\"Famiglia felice e amorevole. Madre e sua figlia bambina che giocano e si abbracciano.\" width=\"800\" height=\"553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_557866771.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_557866771-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_557866771-768x531.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_557866771-360x250.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t mean to tell you this, but I guess you\u2019ll find out anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Le vostre ragazze sono bellissime. Sono proprio come il loro pap\u00e0. Testarde, divertenti, veloci. Non si riposano mai, quindi preparatevi a questo.<\/p>\n<p>You will share your heart and soul with them, offering every little piece of you like it\u2019s nothing. And they will take it and love you for it.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll cry when you leave the room and run after you wherever you go. You \u2019ll need time alone, but once you get it, you\u2019ll miss them like crazy.<\/p>\n<p>Ora sono una parte di voi. Una parte pi\u00f9 grande, pi\u00f9 forte, pi\u00f9 bella. Niente di quello che state facendo in questo momento impedir\u00e0 loro di amarvi. Dovreste saperlo e ricordarvi di amare anche voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Buona fortuna,<br \/>\nIo dopo essere diventata mamma<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-51970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-12-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Una lettera a me prima di diventare mamma\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-12-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-12-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-12-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey you, are you having coffee tonight with your friends? Cherish that moment. Stay focused and truly listen to everything they have to say. Listen to the story about the third heartbreak your flirty friend had this week, and really, really try to help her feel better. There will come the time you won\u2019t be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":51969,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51963","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1049865059.jpg",800,496,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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