{"id":52102,"date":"2020-01-27T23:27:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-27T23:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52102"},"modified":"2022-05-09T00:17:31","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T00:17:31","slug":"insegnarle-a-vivere-senza-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/insegnarle-a-vivere-senza-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando ignori una vera donna, le insegni a vivere senza di te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Da sempre vi \u00e8 stato insegnato che <strong>\u00e8 necessario <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-segni-che-non-sta-giocando-a-fare-il-duro-sta-solo-giocando-con-te\/\"><b>giocare duro per ottenere<\/b><\/a> se vuoi avere qualsiasi ragazza tu scelga.<\/strong> You assumed that this was the only way to truly win a girl\u2019s heart, to get in her pants and finally under her skin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>At the end of the day, we all want what and who we can\u2019t have, right? And she is no exception; at least, she shouldn\u2019t be one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve done this trick like a million times; you acted like you couldn\u2019t care less about the girl you were seeing until she was all yours. And each one of them fell for it.<\/p>\n<p>So, here is the drill: The more you run from her, the more she\u2019ll chase you. If you make her doubt your feelings every day, she\u2019ll give her best to enter your heart.<\/p>\n<p>When you treat her coldly, she\u2019ll put an effort into making you love her. When you send her mixed signals, she will spend hours or days thinking about you and trying to decode them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52103\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1044886687.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di donna; ritratto ravvicinato di una giovane donna che guarda attraverso la finestra.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1044886687.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1044886687-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1044886687-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se vi comportate in modo misterioso, lei far\u00e0 di tutto per capirvi e scoprire tutti gli strati della vostra personalit\u00e0. Se fate giochi mentali caldi e freddi, lei far\u00e0 di tutto per arrivare in fondo alle vostre intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p>When you leave her on read, she will double-text you to see what went wrong. When you don\u2019t return her calls, she will panically start stalking you, just to find out where you are and what you\u2019ve been up to.<\/p>\n<p>If you are seeing other girls, she\u2019ll compete with them until she has you all to herself. If you give her breadcrumbs of your attention, she won\u2019t settle until she gets your wholehearted love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When a girl doesn\u2019t know where she stands with you, you automatically become more interesting. You become her prey and she doesn\u2019t give up until she catches you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And by then, it is usually too late\u2014she is already head over heels for you. After all the effort she put into you, she is ready to do whatever it takes to keep you around.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52104\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1558520177.jpg\" alt=\"Sfruttare al meglio la giornata di oggi. Coppia nella natura.\" width=\"800\" height=\"473\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1558520177.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1558520177-300x177.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1558520177-768x454.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0 le cose sono piuttosto semplici: Pi\u00f9 si<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psicologia-dellignorare-una-donna-2\/\"> ignorare una donna<\/a>, the more effort she\u2019ll put into chasing you. The more indifference you show, the bigger her fight will be to win your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Beh, lasciatemi dire una cosa: <strong>All of this is nothing but a load of crap. Yes, it might be true when it comes to immature girls who don\u2019t know what they want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo approccio funziona per le ragazze che hanno un problema di insicurezza e che hanno bisogno della vostra approvazione per vedere la loro autostima. Per le ragazze che amano i drammi senza senso e che hanno bisogno di una spinta per il loro ego sotto forma di un uomo.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>tutto \u00e8 diverso quando si tratta di un <b>&nbsp;<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-segni-innegabili-che-stai-uscendo-con-una-vera-donna\/\"><b>donna reale<\/b><\/a> because where she is concerned, you\u2019ll only get the opposite effect\u2014you\u2019ll end up chasing her away with this behavior.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52105\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_230075398-1.jpg\" alt=\"Donna che si allontana sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_230075398-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_230075398-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_230075398-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see, this woman isn\u2019t into games. She is not turned on by men who are not sure about her and who have trouble making up their mind about her.<\/p>\n<p>This girl knows what and who she wants and won\u2019t settle for a man who treats her like one of his options. Besides, she doesn\u2019t have the time or the energy for the chase you so desperately crave.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, <strong>lei ama le cose all'antica, come l'amore, il rispetto, l'onest\u00e0 e l'attenzione totale.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quindi <strong>when you ignore this girl, you\u2019re only helping her get used to a life without you. You are giving her a chance to learn how to get by on her own and an opportunity to kick you out of her system.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52106\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_462425596.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di moda stile di vita soleggiato di giovane donna hipster alla moda che cammina per strada, indossando abiti alla moda, cappello di paglia, viaggio con zaino.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_462425596.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_462425596-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_462425596-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re only distancing yourself from her and you\u2019re helping her get over you while you\u2019re still there. You\u2019re showing her that she is only wasting her time with you and you\u2019re giving yourself a one-way ticket out of her life.<\/p>\n<p>This woman needs someone who will be a consistent figure in her life. A man she can rely on, without having to constantly worry if he\u2019ll turn his back on her the very next morning after he promised her the world.<\/p>\n<p>She needs someone to be her life companion and someone who will make her existence more beautiful. However, what she doesn\u2019t need is a guy who will drain her energy and turn her life into a nightmare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Una vera donna ha bisogno di un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/solo-un-vero-uomo-puo-gestire-una-donna-emotiva\/\"><b>uomo vero<\/b><\/a>. L'ultima cosa che vuole \u00e8 un ragazzo con problemi di autostima profondamente radicati, che ha bisogno che lei gli vada dietro per sentirsi un uomo pi\u00f9 grande di quanto non sia in realt\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, <strong>she is very well aware of her self-worth so she definitely won\u2019t allow you to humiliate her and treat her like your puppy. Yes, she loves you deeply but that doesn\u2019t mean she is ready to lose her dignity just to heal your insecurities.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Per quanto questa donna tenga a te, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-mendichera-scegliera-meritera\/\">she won\u2019t beg you<\/a> to give her what she deserves even if her life depends on it. Most importantly\u2014she won\u2019t sit there patiently waiting for you to come to your senses and realize it\u2019s about time to change your ways.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52107\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_406026574-1.jpg\" alt=\"Concetti di business e freelance. Ritratto ravvicinato di dirigente che lavora con un telefono cellulare in strada con edifici per uffici sullo sfondo.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_406026574-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_406026574-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_406026574-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, <strong>don\u2019t be surprised when <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/si-allontana-senza-lasciare-scelta\/\"><b>si allontana<\/b><\/a> e ricordate che siete stati voi la causa del suo allontanamento. Quando vi scaricher\u00e0, ricordatevi che non le avete lasciato scelta e che l'avete allontanata con il vostro comportamento infantile.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Most importantly\u2014don\u2019t expect her to come back and understand that this is her final goodbye.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, she warned you that this day would come and that you\u2019re testing both her limits and her patience. She kept telling you to cut the crap, to start treating her with respect and to make up your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, avete continuato con i vostri schemi tossici. Pensavate che fosse solo una recita ed eravate certi che lei sarebbe rimasta per sempre al vostro fianco, perdendo tempo in questa relazione in cui l'avevate trascinata.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? She won\u2019t. <strong>Le hai insegnato a vivere senza di te, quindi affrontane le conseguenze!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52109\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/When-You-Ignore-A-Real-Woman-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-Youu-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Quando ignori una vera donna, le insegni a vivere senza di te\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/When-You-Ignore-A-Real-Woman-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-Youu-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/When-You-Ignore-A-Real-Woman-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-Youu-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/When-You-Ignore-A-Real-Woman-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-Youu-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/When-You-Ignore-A-Real-Woman-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-Youu.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you were taught that you need to play hard to get if you want to have any girl you choose. You assumed that this was the only way to truly win a girl\u2019s heart, to get in her pants and finally under her skin. At the end of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":52108,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52102","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_534648364-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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