{"id":52261,"date":"2020-02-04T17:36:39","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T17:36:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52261"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:05:50","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:05:50","slug":"ricominciare-e-amare-se-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ricominciare-e-amare-se-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ricominciare e amare se stessi nel modo in cui si \u00e8 destinati a essere amati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non ha mai saputo amarti. E voi? Hai amato troppo, ti sei preoccupata troppo profondamente e hai investito tutto il tuo cuore, il tuo corpo e la tua anima in questa relazione.<\/p>\n<p>E cosa avete ottenuto in cambio? Ci avete provato tanto, ma ora siete stanchi di tutto. Stanca di dare amore e non ottenere nulla. Stanca di mandargli segnali di SOS che lui non ha mai notato.<\/p>\n<p>Does he not have time for you, your problems, and the things that bother you? It\u2019s hard for you to accept, but you know deep down you are not on the top of his priority list.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, you deserve to be at the very top. You were meant to be somebody\u2019s no. 1.<\/p>\n<p>Anzi, dovrebbe metterti al centro del suo universo. Perch\u00e9 lui era tutto il vostro mondo. Dovrebbe amarvi perfettamente con tutte le vostre imperfezioni.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He doesn&#8217;t choose you over everything else, so why should you choose him then? Find peace in that fact. Today is the day you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-aperta-la-ragazza-ha-smesso-di-amare\/\">iniziare ad amare se stessi<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It might not be easy; it&#8217;s a learning process. But it\u2019ll be a much better option for you because that\u2019s how you\u2019ll find your peace.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52267\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/beautiful-girl-in-blue-dress.jpg\" alt=\"bella ragazza in abito blu\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/beautiful-girl-in-blue-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/beautiful-girl-in-blue-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/beautiful-girl-in-blue-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La lotta pi\u00f9 grande nella vita \u00e8 accettare, abbracciare e amare noi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ricordate: non importa quante volte cadete o venite colpiti, dovete continuare ad andare avanti. Fate un respiro profondo e andate avanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ma per fortuna la vita \u00e8 un avversario leale. Anche se ti tira un pugno infernale, ti d\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di rialzarti e riprenderti.<\/p>\n<p>Sicuramente vi verr\u00e0 concessa una seconda possibilit\u00e0. Poi dipende tutto da voi. Nessuno tranne voi.<\/p>\n<p>Life gives you lemons. It\u2019s up to you what to do with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your heart finally said, \u201cEnough is enough.\u201d You tried and tried, but now you\u2019re so tired of giving love to someone who doesn&#8217;t deserve it. So, give it to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Iniziate ad amare voi stessi come volevate che lui vi amasse. Dimostrate a voi stessi che siete degni di essere amati. Perdonate il vostro passato e concentratevi solo sul futuro. Credete in voi stessi e nelle vostre capacit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>The sky is not the limit, your mind is. When things change inside of you, they change around you too. It&#8217;s never too late. Change is always a good idea and its timing is always right.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52266\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-in-nature-with-hat.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza nella natura con cappello\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-in-nature-with-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-in-nature-with-hat-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/girl-in-nature-with-hat-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You have this giant book called \u201cLife\u201d and every year is one chapter in that book. You are the writer of it, of course. So, why shouldn&#8217;t you write something different and better in this new chapter?!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t start over if you are still holding onto the past. You have to embrace whatever has happened to you and let it go.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving any relationship isn\u2019t easy, but leaving a toxic one is necessary for you.<\/p>\n<p>Vi meritate la verit\u00e0. Devi dire a te stessa la verit\u00e0, non importa quanto sia brutta. Sii onesta con te stessa e ammetti che la tua vita sarebbe molto pi\u00f9 felice senza di lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know you love him, but this time you have to choose to love yourself more. If you don\u2019t let him go, you\u2019ll lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But he isn\u2019t the only obstacle on your journey to self-love. Let go of family members that are only using you. Let go of friends who don&#8217;t reciprocate. Let go of all those toxic relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Let go of a boss who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you. Let go of all the things that are not good for your health. Live your amends.<\/p>\n<p>Andare da qualche parte. Ricaricate le batterie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Take one deep breath and say thank you. Thank you Past for every lesson you taught me. And thank you Life for giving me this second chance. Say hello to the Future because that\u2019s your best friend from now on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52265\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/thankful-girl-in-red-dress.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza riconoscente in abito rosso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/thankful-girl-in-red-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/thankful-girl-in-red-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/thankful-girl-in-red-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, starting all over is not an easy job. You&#8217;ll need to have patience. You&#8217;ll have to be full of understanding and compassion. This is one of the most challenging moments in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Now you are like a caterpillar. And when you finally let him go and lock him in the past, then you\u2019ll be ready to turn into a beautiful butterfly.<\/p>\n<p>It is a process that demands much courage and confidence. You\u2019ll become a new woman. That\u2019s a whole chapter of your life and you are slowly and carefully entering it.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa pi\u00f9 importante in questo processo \u00e8 iniziare ad amare se stessi cos\u00ec come si \u00e8. Avete appena capito che la vita non \u00e8 perfetta, quindi perch\u00e9 dovreste esserlo voi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le uniche cose perfette di voi dovrebbero essere le vostre imperfezioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sono la prova che siete un essere umano e che siete ancora vivi. Siete nati perfetti, ma la vita vi ha lasciato molte cicatrici che hanno lasciato imperfezioni sul vostro corpo e nel vostro cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Ma \u00e8 proprio cos\u00ec che deve essere. Imparate ad amare ognuna di queste cicatrici, perch\u00e9 i ricordi sono impressi in ognuna di esse. Abbracciate tutte le vostre imperfezioni e siate belli.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52264\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/blonde-with-happy-face.jpg\" alt=\"bionda con viso felice\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/blonde-with-happy-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/blonde-with-happy-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/blonde-with-happy-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>We are often wrong in accepting the love we think we deserve. But what&#8217;s the point of being second in someone&#8217;s life when you can always be first in your own?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dovete capire che siete sufficienti. Se non siete abbastanza per il vostro partner, allora dovreste essere abbastanza per voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Self-acceptance is not just a word or concept, it\u2019s an art. Not every man is capable of this kind of love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ma naturalmente bisogna lavorare su se stessi ogni giorno. Bisogna mantenere in buona forma il corpo, la mente e lo spirito. Tutto questo ha bisogno di nutrimento, esercizio fisico e relax. L'amore per se stessi e la cura di s\u00e9 vanno di pari passo.<\/p>\n<p>Ora alzatevi e guardatevi allo specchio. Chiedete scusa alla persona intrappolata l\u00ec dentro e finalmente liberatela.<\/p>\n<p>Now say, \u201c<em>Scelgo di amare me stesso.<\/em>\u201d Say it again. Say it as many times as you need.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, promise yourself that you will love yourself unconditionally and eternally. At that moment you&#8217;ll meet a whole new life \u2013 a life you&#8217;ll finally enjoy.<\/p>\n<p><em>La vita ti ha dato dei limoni, ora per favore vai a fare una dannata limonata!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52262\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ricominciare e amare se stessi nel modo in cui si \u00e8 destinati a essere amati\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved-pinterest.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He never knew how to love you. And you? You loved too much, cared too deeply, and invested your whole heart, body, and soul into the relationship. And what did you get in return? You tried so hard, but now you are tired of everything. Tired of giving love and getting nowhere. Tired of sending&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":52263,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/start-over-and-love-yourself-the-way-you-were-meant-to-be-loved.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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