{"id":52596,"date":"2020-02-10T11:38:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T11:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52596"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:29:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:29:57","slug":"i-motivi-per-cui-sei-infelice-in-amore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-motivi-per-cui-sei-infelice-in-amore\/","title":{"rendered":"15 motivi per cui sei infelice per esserti innamorata del suo potenziale"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. The potential you\u2019re in love with may never come true.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52613\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-in-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di una donna in susnet seduta in un parco nazionale\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-in-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-in-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-in-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti hanno il potenziale per fare qualcosa. Nessuna vita nata \u00e8 una vita inutile.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che alcuni realizzano il loro potenziale, ma altri prendono una strada sbagliata e non riescono mai a fare ci\u00f2 che erano in grado di fare.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, by falling in love with a guy like this, the only thing you\u2019re left with is misery.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ti piace e lui lo sa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52598\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-young-woman-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna depressa che guarda attraverso la finestra mentre fuori piove\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-young-woman-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-young-woman-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/depressed-young-woman-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will take advantage of the fact you\u2019re in love with him\u2014or better put\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/potenziale-damore-2\/\">con il suo potenziale<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He will smile at you across the room, knowing he\u2019ll sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be able to do anything about it because your love is just too strong. Your love has a mind of its own. Once again&#8230;misery, it is.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You can\u2019t change him.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-couple-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia triste che litiga a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-couple-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-couple-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-couple-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have the power to change anyone. That\u2019s the most common misconception of every relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone pensano di poter cambiare una persona a proprio piacimento.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s BS, and it\u2019s better to face that fact now than later.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Nel profondo non \u00e8 sicuro di voi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52599\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-man-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"sagoma di uomo alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"601\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-man-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-man-by-window-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-man-by-window-768x577.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the reason why you fell in love with his potential. He is not letting you into his heart.<\/p>\n<p>He is not letting you see him for who he is because he\u2019s not sure you\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re prepared to give your everything to someone who is not sure about you. Think about that once again, will you?<\/p>\n<h2>5. When you\u2019re not around, it\u2019s like you don\u2019t exist.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di una bella donna vicino alla finestra che guarda attraverso la tenda\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-by-window-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-woman-by-window-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t call you just to see how you are. He won\u2019t show any interest in you unless you\u2019re standing right in front of him.<\/p>\n<p>Let me put this differently\u2014if you\u2019re not physically present, he won\u2019t give you much attention.<\/p>\n<p>This only shows that you\u2019re convenient for him, for now. When he gets a better opportunity, you\u2019re out of the game for good.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Is falling in love with someone\u2019s potential enough?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con le mani sulla testa a letto che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-bed-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Is it enough to make your lonely nights not so lonely, to hold your hand when you\u2019re scared, or kiss you when you\u2019re broken?<\/p>\n<p>Innamorarsi di un potenziale vale la pena di spezzare il proprio cuore?<\/p>\n<h2>7. Quando un uomo vuole qualcosa, la insegue!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52616\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/confident-business-man-in-street.jpg\" alt=\"uomo d&#039;affari bello e sicuro di s\u00e9 con gli occhiali in piedi in mezzo alla strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/confident-business-man-in-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/confident-business-man-in-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/confident-business-man-in-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A man will never wait to get something he thinks belongs to him\u2014in this case, you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re miserable because he is clearly not showing any interest in you. Better said, it\u2019s the other way around. You\u2019re chasing him!<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ti d\u00e0 solo un pezzo di biscotto.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52601\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-readhead-woman-by-river.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una donna triste, con la testa letta, in riva al fiume in citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-readhead-woman-by-river.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-readhead-woman-by-river-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-readhead-woman-by-river-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is charming. He treats you with care, but only when he feels like it. He flirts with you, and then he stops and turns around like he doesn\u2019t even know you.<\/p>\n<p>The only feeling you can get\u2014and you do get\u2014from situations including him is confusion. Does he like you or doesn\u2019t he?<\/p>\n<h2>9. You\u2019re unhappy because he\u2019s immature.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52617\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-with-glasses-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"un bell&#039;uomo con gli occhiali che ride per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-with-glasses-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-with-glasses-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/handsome-man-with-glasses-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sure, that relationship you\u2019re trying to pull off looks perfect at moments. You go out on dates and dinners.<\/p>\n<p>You have a lot of fun, but that doesn\u2019t change the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segnali-che-indicano-che-il-vostro-ragazzo-ha-intenzione-di-rimanere-un-moccioso-immaturo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he is an immature mama\u2019s boy who<\/span><\/a>&nbsp;non \u00e8 pronto ad affrontare la realt\u00e0 e a prendere in mano la situazione.<\/p>\n<h2>10. You think\u2014we all think\u2014we are their saviors.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52602\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-brunette-in-street.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una splendida bruna in strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-brunette-in-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-brunette-in-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-brunette-in-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Listen to me, a man like that doesn\u2019t need saving.<\/p>\n<p>Pensiamo di poter aiutare queste grandi qualit\u00e0 nascoste a venire in superficie.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, they will never come out, as long as he keeps them in. It\u2019s up to him, not you.<\/p>\n<h2>11. You can\u2019t ignore the fact that there is still a spark of passion between you.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52618\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una coppia bella e appassionata che si bacia \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-couple-kissing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/portrait-of-couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t ignore the moments when your relationship looked like a real one, a true and everlasting one.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t ignore the good in him, the freakin\u2019 potential. It\u2019s killing you. It\u2019s making you miserable.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Accettate solo la somma che vi d\u00e0.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52603\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di una donna triste seduta a terra che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/silhouette-of-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Accettate briciole del suo tempo, della sua attenzione e del suo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Siete completamente subordinati alla sua volont\u00e0 e alla sua misericordia nel darvi o meno attenzione.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Parla con altre ragazze.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52619\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che parla e beve un caff\u00e8 in un bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-couple-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Since he doesn\u2019t take your relationship seriously, he invests a lot of time in flirting and talking to other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Lo fa di continuo.<\/p>\n<p>It can even happen when he\u2019s with you. After all, to him, it\u2019s all the same.<\/p>\n<h2>14. State buttando via il vostro tempo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52620\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/annoyed-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna matura infastidita in camicia azzurra appoggiata al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/annoyed-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/annoyed-woman-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/annoyed-woman-leaning-on-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The time you\u2019ve spent with him is the time you\u2019re never getting back.<\/p>\n<p>Forse vi rifiutate di rendervene conto ora, ma purtroppo prima o poi ve ne renderete conto.<\/p>\n<p>A quel punto, sar\u00e0 troppo tardi per riparare il danno che vi ha fatto.<\/p>\n<h2>15. You\u2019re tired and miserable because you\u2019re sick of making him see your situation from your point of view.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52621\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia arrabbiata che litiga e discute sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"554\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-couple-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-768x532.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-360x250.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s excruciatingly painful to try to show him how you feel and make him see the two of you with your eyes.<\/p>\n<p>The pain you\u2019re feeling is crippling. It\u2019s destroying you from the inside. Yet&#8230;nothing changes.<\/p>\n<p><em>Per quanto tempo ancora continuerete a fare questa farsa?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52606\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"15 motivi per cui sei infelice per esserti innamorata del suo potenziale\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. The potential you\u2019re in love with may never come true. Everyone has the potential to do something. No life born is a useless life. The thing is, some fulfill their potential, but some take a wrong turn and never do what they were capable of doing. Therefore, by falling in love with a guy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":52605,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/15-Reasons-You\u2019re-Miserable-For-Falling-In-Love-With-His-Potential.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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