{"id":52692,"date":"2020-02-12T12:39:22","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T12:39:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52692"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:31:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:31:50","slug":"i-modi-in-cui-un-uomo-tossico-ti-fa-sentire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-modi-in-cui-un-uomo-tossico-ti-fa-sentire\/","title":{"rendered":"10 modi dannosi in cui un uomo tossico ti fa sentire"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 naturale<\/strong> \u00c8 normale che vi sentiate feriti dopo una rottura. \u00c8 del tutto normale piangere, sentirsi male e soffrire per la perdita del partner romantico.<\/p>\n

However, it is completely different when you\u2019re involved with someone toxic. In fact, this type of man makes you feel more than one damaging emotion and here are 10 of them.<\/p>\n

Cuore spezzato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La prima cosa che ogni uomo tossico che lasci entrare nella tua vita ti far\u00e0 \u00e8 spezzare il cuore e lasciare cicatrici indelebili.<\/p>\n

He will shatter it with every move he makes to the point where you\u2019ll think it is utterly impossible to glue it back together.<\/p>\n

Yes, every break-up probably leaves you heartbroken. However, the difference between this man and all the other guys you were ever involved with is that a toxic man won\u2019t only break your heart once you two part ways\u2014he will be doing it throughout your entire relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you two won\u2019t have any happy moments but I can assure you that sadly, pain will prevail.<\/p>\n

He will hurt you in ways you couldn\u2019t have imagined and he will end up crushing your vulnerable heart into a million pieces.<\/p>\n

Emotivamente svuotato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dopo un po' di tempo trascorso accanto a una persona tossica, ci si stanca.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not talking about physical tiredness here only, even though it is also one of the side effects which you will likely have.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about that feeling when you\u2019re emotionally drained and worn out. About losing the will to live and not having the strength to keep on going.<\/p>\n

Un uomo tossico ti lascia<\/a> depressed and feeling like you can\u2019t get out of bed. He will make you want to give up on everything you set your mind to.<\/p>\n

Vedete, un ragazzo come questo, le continue discussioni che provoca e le continue lacrime che vi fa piangere vi sfiniscono al punto che vorreste passare il resto della vostra vita chiusi nella vostra stanza, con una coperta sulla testa.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re too weak to finish your everyday chores, let alone actually do something with your life.<\/p>\n

Folle<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sto esagerando? \u00c8 successo davvero tutto come lo ricordo o mi sto immaginando le cose?<\/p>\n

Sono io la pazza? Mi sta prendendo in giro o ho interpretato male tutta la nostra conversazione?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions you\u2019ve been asking yourself lately, you\u2019re on your way to feeling completely insane.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly what this guy wants\u2014manipulating you into thinking that you\u2019re the crazy one and making you doubt your own right mind.<\/p>\n

Of course, he won\u2019t accomplish all of this right from the start.<\/p>\n

However, after a while spent next to him, you will have a tiny voice in your head, telling you that maybe he is right, after all, and that you\u2019re the one making all of a fuss over nothing.<\/p>\n

After some time, you\u2019ll start examining your own memory and view of things.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start doubting yourself and your own reason.<\/p>\n

Stupido<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa che un uomo tossico vi far\u00e0 sentire \u00e8 la stupidit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Besides undermining your intelligence and acting like he is smarter than you and that he always knows better during your relationship, you\u2019ll continue feeling this way even after you break loose from him.<\/p>\n

The moment you get out of this toxic romance and the moment you start observing it from a distance, you will be wondering how come you couldn\u2019t have seen some things sooner.<\/p>\n

How come you were such a fool who believed in this man\u2019s lies and how could you have thought that he would change?<\/p>\n

After going through hell with him, you\u2019ll start questioning all of your choices.<\/p>\n

Siete abbastanza maturi per gestire la vostra vita e potete fare affidamento sulle vostre capacit\u00e0 di giudizio?<\/p>\n

Non sufficiente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re around a toxic boyfriend, you\u2019re never pretty, smart, beautiful, attractive or interesting enough.<\/p>\n

No matter what you do, how hard you try, what big sacrifices you make and how deeply you care for him\u2014nothing you ever do will be good enough.<\/p>\n

At first, he tries to \u2018improve you\u2019 and \u2018for your own good\u2019. His insults are masked by pieces of advice and you don\u2019t notice that he is actually doing his best to humiliate you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see how he is constantly treating you like you\u2019re the submissive one.<\/p>\n

Come si comporta sempre come se fosse al di sopra di voi e che dovreste considerarvi fortunate se un buon partito come lui posasse gli occhi su di voi.<\/p>\n

Once you realize what is going on, it becomes too late. You\u2019re already dealing with loads of insecurities he managed to deeply root inside of you.<\/p>\n

Prima di accorgersene, si inizia a mettere in dubbio il proprio valore e a pensare di non essere abbastanza bravi.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re doing your best and this man is never pleased so you must be the problem.<\/p>\n

Geloso<\/h2>\n

\"immagine<\/p>\n

Quando passate tutta la vostra relazione a confrontarvi con ogni ragazza che passa accanto al vostro ex e soprattutto con le sue ex, \u00e8 naturale che la vostra gelosia raggiunga l'apice.<\/p>\n

When you spend years hearing that all those other girls are better than you and that you could never be like them, it is natural for you to start hating them, without knowing they have nothing to do with the fact that you\u2019re dating a toxic man who is only putting you down with his nasty comments.<\/p>\n

When you are being told that you\u2019re replaceable and that you\u2019re nothing special, when you\u2019re cheated on more than once, when every other girl\u2019s looks and qualities have been rubbed in your face, it is natural that your jealousy becomes unhealthy.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re living a hell on earth while watching all of your friends in happy relationships, having the time of their lives, you become envious.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly what your toxic partner wants\u2014to turn you into a much worse person than you actually are.<\/p>\n

Colpevole<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re the victim of this story, somehow, your toxic boyfriend managed to turn the tables and make you look like the bad guy here.<\/p>\n

Even though he is the one who\u2019s treating you like shit, he succeeds in putting all the blame on you.<\/p>\n

Invece di assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 e di sostenere le sue azioni, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 facile per lui accusare voi del fatto che la vostra relazione sta andando a rotoli.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 pi\u00f9 facile farvi sentire il colpevole che affrontare la realt\u00e0 e ammettere a entrambi che \u00e8 lui l'unico colpevole.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s cheating on you, he did it because you deprived him of sex, because you don\u2019t look the way you used to or because this other woman gave him something you couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Either way, the bottom line is that you pushed him into someone else\u2019s arms and he would have never thought of having an affair if you hadn\u2019t caused him to.<\/p>\n

Se vi maltratta, lo avete fatto innervosire, lo avete guardato nel modo sbagliato o avete urlato mentre litigavate. E l'elenco continua.<\/p>\n

Incapace di amare<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re done with a toxic boyfriend, you\u2019re convinced that you can never love another man the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

Pensate che abbia ucciso la vostra capacit\u00e0 di interessarvi a qualcuno del sesso opposto, di far entrare un nuovo ragazzo o di fidarvi ancora di qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014he makes you believe that all other men are just like him.<\/p>\n

Che non ha assolutamente senso cercare qualcuno di meglio, perch\u00e9 ogni singolo fidanzato vi tratterebbe ancora peggio di lui.<\/p>\n

Quindi, \u00e8 molto meglio rimanere nella propria zona di comfort, dove si sa cosa aspettarsi.<\/p>\n

After all, at least you know you loved this toxic man once and that is better than being with someone you\u2019re totally indifferent toward.<\/p>\n

Non destinato ad essere amato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, a toxic man won\u2019t only persuade you that you can\u2019t love someone else after him. In fact, he will also do his best to make you believe that no man could ever love you the way he did.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, chi vorrebbe una donna emotivamente danneggiata al suo fianco? Chi avrebbe la pazienza di aspettare che lei si apra e lo lasci entrare?<\/p>\n

Quale uomo sarebbe pronto a curare le sue ferite e a convivere con le sue cicatrici?<\/p>\n

Quale uomo sprecherebbe il suo tempo con una donna che ha bisogno di essere riparata e che \u00e8 cos\u00ec danneggiata?<\/p>\n

Besides, if this guy who\u2019s known you for so long claims that you have so many flaws and if he keeps on pointing out your imperfections, what else could this new man see?<\/p>\n

If he can\u2019t tolerate you and if he thinks you\u2019re not enough, every guy who comes into your life will surely consider you as not meant to be loved.<\/p>\n

Spaventato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un'altra emozione che tutti i fidanzati tossici risvegliano nelle loro vittime \u00e8 la paura.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m talking here about irrational, paralyzing fear which doesn\u2019t allow you to function properly.<\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019re scared of everything this man is capable of. What will he do to you next?<\/p>\n

After that, when you take off your rose-tinted glasses, you\u2019re afraid of leaving him. Do you have what it takes to get by without him?<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re done with him, you\u2019re scared of going back to the real world. Will you make it?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid of feeling like this forever. Will you ever heal and move on for real?<\/p>\n

And finally, you\u2019re scared of moving on. Will your next experience end up the same way this one did?<\/p>\n

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