{"id":52713,"date":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52713"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","slug":"luomo-si-e-perso-nel-dms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/luomo-si-e-perso-nel-dms\/","title":{"rendered":"Il tuo uomo si \u00e8 perso nei miei DM"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs.<\/p>\n<p>Sono contento che tu abbia visto il suo primo <em>&#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217;<\/em> a me.<\/p>\n<p>Avete cliccato sulla mia foto e avete letto tutte le mie <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/entertainment\/didascalie-instagram-800-citazioni-piu-epiche-per-le-tue-foto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Didascalie di Instagram<\/span><\/a>?!<\/p>\n<p>Hai controllato la mia biografia? Mi hai seguito su Instagram?<\/p>\n<p>Se vuoi, puoi aggiungermi anche su Facebook perch\u00e9 sono ansioso di vedere le tue capacit\u00e0 di stalking.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo felice con barba nera e telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are very much welcome to come and hang out with me and my girls. We can talk about hair, make-up, clothes, movies and food, colors and weather, glitter and rainbows or we can get straight to the point\u2014about men, heartbreaks and cheaters?<\/p>\n<p><strong>So che probabilmente mi odiate, anche se non ho fatto nulla di male. \u00c8 stato il tuo uomo. Io sono stata solo una vittima collaterale, una vittima che ha avuto il cuore ferito nel processo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Searching, exploring and analyzing people\u2019s profiles does not necessarily show you who they are. I am not my social media profiles. Nobody is.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52717\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg\" alt=\"donna gioiosa seduta su una sedia vicino alla finestra con le gambe in aria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Behind pictures, descriptions, likes, comments, shared songs, stories and posts with &#8216;heartbreaking poems&#8217; by famous poets, there is a human with a tangled web of mess and desires, wishes and urges.<\/p>\n<p>That is the place where you found me\u2014among your man&#8217;s cravings and lust.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m wondering how you felt. Was it as bad for you as it was for me when I found out that you exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>La tua rabbia \u00e8 pi\u00f9 grande della mia delusione quando ho scoperto che era stato preso? La tua gelosia \u00e8 intensa quanto la mia empatia? Le tue lacrime fanno male quanto la mia fiducia infranta?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52719\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una giovane donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am wondering about a lot of things I will never get an answer to, and that\u2019s OK. Not everything in life deserves an answer or explanation.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I want you to know that it wasn\u2019t my fault your man got sidetracked.<\/p>\n<p>Sono una donna, proprio come voi. In tutte le mie precedenti relazioni, ho dato quanto potevo prendere.<\/p>\n<p>Among all my desires, dreams, hopes and wishes that I keep hidden behind my perfect pictures, I have to take care of someone else&#8217;s too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So che all'inizio ti ho accusato di stalking, ma anch'io sono colpevole.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna in un caff\u00e8 al telefono vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I clicked on your photo, checked your bio and read what you put in the descriptions of your photos. I don\u2019t really know why I did that.<\/p>\n<p>Credo di aver sperato di ottenere delle risposte. Credo di aver voluto trovare un senso in questa situazione insensata.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Credo che volessi solo sapere che aspetto avesse la sua ragazza. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Volevo solo sapere se sai che il tuo uomo ha perso la strada, ti ha tradito ed \u00e8 finito nei miei DM.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Voglio che tu sappia che non appena ho saputo di te, ho interrotto ogni contatto.<\/p>\n<p>I comfort myself that I&#8217;ve learned about men and will not repeat the same mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Che verificher\u00f2 due volte se sono single o presi prima di sperare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In un certo senso, mi dispiace per entrambi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di una giovane donna triste in riva all&#039;oceano al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per te perch\u00e9 ti stava pugnalando alle spalle e per me perch\u00e9 mi fa male non comunicare pi\u00f9 con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Mi sono abituata. \u00c8 stato bello avere qualcuno che ti d\u00e0 cos\u00ec tante attenzioni e che pensa tutto il mondo di te.<\/p>\n<p>Ora che ho scoperto cosa c'\u00e8 sotto, provo un intero spettro di emozioni e nessuna di esse \u00e8 piacevole da provare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il tuo uomo ha fatto un piccolo pasticcio nella mia vita. Ma credo che quando scoprirai chi \u00e8 veramente, ne far\u00e0 uno ancora pi\u00f9 grande nella tua.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, his DMs haven\u2019t stopped, even though I stopped replying. I&#8217;ve received 23 more messages in total from your man and I haven\u2019t replied to any of them.<\/p>\n<p>I know he expects me to answer sooner or later, but I don&#8217;t want to. For your sake or for my own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52723\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Il tuo uomo si \u00e8 perso nei miei DM\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs. I am glad you saw his first &#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217; to me. Did you click on my photo and read all my Instagram captions?! Did you check my bio? Did you just follow me on Instagram?? If you want, you can add me on Facebook&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":52725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}