{"id":52743,"date":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52743"},"modified":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","slug":"come-smettere-di-inseguire-gli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-smettere-di-inseguire-gli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"Come smettere di inseguire gli uomini e riprendersi il proprio potere"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 l'inizio del nuovo anno. L'anno nuovo porta con s\u00e9 molti propositi per il nuovo anno.<\/p>\n

Per le donne single, i propositi includono spesso la ricerca di un partner. Un proposito \u00e8 un ottimo punto di partenza, ma se non siete disposte a fare qualcosa di diverso quest'anno, i vostri modelli relazionali non cambieranno.<\/p>\n

Come donne, spesso diamo la colpa dei nostri fallimenti relazionali alle nostre controparti maschili. Come matchmaker e dating coach, ho imparato che le nostre disfunzioni relazionali iniziano da noi.<\/p>\n

Se non riuscite a ottenere quello che volete dagli uomini, provate a seguire questi passi:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the communication lead<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the Dark Ages. Their messages to you did not go missing. This is also not Harry Potter; the owls didn\u2019t lose their letters to you.<\/p>\n

This is 2020, so if you don\u2019t hear from them, they don\u2019t want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

Se l'uomo in questione ha il vostro numero, sa dove trovarvi. Non dovreste mai essere voi a iniziare i messaggi o le chiamate.<\/p>\n

The initiation of every conversation speaks volumes about who is most interested. Don\u2019t be more interested in someone than they are interested in you.<\/p>\n

You should be the person being pursued. I don\u2019t agree with many of the damsel in distress values promoted by the classic Disney movies but Cinderella got the art of pursuit down to a T. You should be treated like the prince treated Cinderella.<\/p>\n

Il principe ha fatto di tutto per trovare la legittima proprietaria della scarpetta di cristallo. La voleva e si \u00e8 impegnato.<\/p>\n

A little distance goes a long way. If you\u2019re reading this and you have fallen prey to being the communication lead, there is still hope.<\/p>\n

Potete cambiare rapidamente la dinamica smettendo di iniziare la conversazione. Se non \u00e8 lui a iniziare, non ci sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 comunicazione.<\/p>\n

Se vi ritrovate a rispondere subito a un suo messaggio quando ti lascia in attesa di una risposta<\/a>, stop.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t save your valuable time<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

As you know, there are only 24 hours in a day. No, that\u2019s not a lot of hours. It\u2019s true, it is nearly impossible to get anything done. All true facts.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno vi considerasse una priorit\u00e0, in qualche modo rientrereste nelle sue 24 ore.<\/p>\n

Se non l'avete fatto, sappiate che \u00e8 stata una scelta consapevole da parte loro. Spesso le parole non dette sono pi\u00f9 importanti di quelle dette. Se un uomo \u00e8 interessato, trover\u00e0 il tempo per vedervi, chiamarvi e farvi sapere che siete importanti per lui.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t need you to make all of the plans. He won\u2019t need you to figure out how he might be able to \u2018squeeze\u2019 you into his hectic schedule.<\/p>\n

When a man values you, it won\u2019t be mistaken. You won\u2019t need your girlfriends to validate what his intentions are.<\/p>\n

When you value your time, you won\u2019t need to ask him when he is next available. He will ask you out with enough notice to make it clear that you are not his \u2018backup\u2019 plan.<\/p>\n

Nel caso in cui riceviate un messaggio all'ultimo minuto e vi troviate ad accettare, avete iniziato la vostra caccia.<\/p>\n

Come donne single, spesso sprechiamo il nostro tempo libero per essere disponibili ad appuntamenti e a socializzare. Una delle cose migliori che le donne single possono fare per proteggere il loro tempo prezioso \u00e8 pianificare le loro settimane in anticipo e attenersi a un programma. La vostra vita e i vostri progetti vengono prima di tutto perch\u00e9 tenete a voi stesse.<\/p>\n

Smettere di sminuire la propria autostima<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

We all deserve to have people in our lives who want us there. They make the effort to be there for us. It\u2019s reciprocated with our efforts to be there for them.<\/p>\n

Ricordate l'educazione civica delle scuole medie, quando avete imparato a conoscere i pesi e i contrappesi nel governo federale?<\/p>\n

In una relazione ideale, ogni persona ha un compito nella relazione e fa solo il suo lavoro. L'effetto di una persona che fa solo il suo lavoro \u00e8 che crea spazio per l'altra parte per fare il suo.<\/p>\n

Lo sforzo \u00e8 uguale e nessuno eccede, quindi il rapporto \u00e8 equilibrato.<\/p>\n

Proper balanced relationships are exciting. They leave us feeling good about ourselves because the other person\u2019s effort shows they value us.<\/p>\n

Quando si commette l'errore di fare tutto nella relazione, si danneggia la fiducia in se stessi e si intacca temporaneamente la propria autostima.<\/p>\n

These diminishments occur because you begin wondering why you weren\u2019t good enough. If you find yourself already questioning this, there is something you can do today to change it. Start listing three amazing qualities about yourself every day.<\/p>\n

I always advise my clients to do this in the mirror each morning. It sounds silly but it feels so good and validates your worth by the most important person in your life\u2014you!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t miss out on the right people<\/h2>\n

\"Silhouette<\/p>\n

When your tunnel vision is on those you have to chase, you can\u2019t focus on the people waiting to value you. If those people are already present in your life, you can\u2019t see them because you\u2019re not giving them a chance to be seen.<\/p>\n

If the people who value you are not in your life yet, you won\u2019t be able to receive them because your heart and eyes will be elsewhere.<\/p>\n

Al 29 ottobre 2019, il pianeta contava 7,7 miliardi di persone. Wow. Questo numero \u00e8 sorprendente per il vostro senso del valore.<\/p>\n

Se ci sono cos\u00ec tante persone sul pianeta, c'\u00e8 almeno una persona che sar\u00e0 entusiasta di ci\u00f2 che avete da offrire. La probabilit\u00e0 che ci sia pi\u00f9 di una persona che vi apprezzer\u00e0 \u00e8 astronomica.<\/p>\n

Quindi, smettete di inseguirlo e vedete cosa succede<\/a>. Start making a note of the people in your life who value you. Don\u2019t hesitate to diversify your focus.<\/p>\n

If you have done a self-assessment and can honestly say you\u2019re fixated on one person, look at your other options. Some of you are thinking that a certain someone in your life will change. Maybe they will and maybe they won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you have no control over anyone else but life is too short to be lived with rose-colored glasses when viewing your relationships. There is someone who will very clearly accept, appreciate and adore you but you\u2019ll have to readjust your focus.<\/p>\n

Hey girl, I\u2019m no Ryan Gosling but you are worth the chase, the pursuit and the adoration of love. Put an end to your chasing days and realize your worth.<\/p>\n

X,
\nTFB\"Donna<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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