{"id":5287,"date":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5287"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","slug":"volevo-che-tu-combattessi-per-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/volevo-che-tu-combattessi-per-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Volevo che tu combattessi per me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro \"amore della mia vita\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ricordo ancora quella sera in cui dissi che era finita. Ricordo che eri in piedi davanti a me e mi guardavi come si guarda un estraneo per strada.<\/p>\n

Sento ancora quei brividi nel mio corpo quando hai detto, \u201cOkay\u201d<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

Senza nemmeno provare a lottare per me. Senza nemmeno provare a parlarmi e a scusarti per tutte le stronzate che mi hai fatto. Hai accettato la mia decisione come se fosse la cosa pi\u00f9 normale del mondo.<\/p>\n

Aspettate! Chi \u00e8 pazzo qui?  <\/i><\/b>Lasciate andare la persona che amate cos\u00ec facilmente?  <\/i><\/b>Don\u2019t you fight for someone who means the world to you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Those questions kept running through my head while I watched you leave. I didn\u2019t know what you felt inside of you. But I know that I didn\u2019t get the reaction I wanted to see.<\/p>\n

You left me like I was never yours. Like we haven\u2019t spent all these years together\u2014dreaming about the house we will buy and our kids that will play in the backyard.<\/p>\n

Con una sola parola hai affondato tutte le mie barche. La tua ignoranza mi ha fatto sentire uno stupido. Sembrava che fossi l'unico innamorato della nostra relazione.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sembrava che fossi l'unico pronto a combattere ogni secondo.<\/p>\n

E tu? Eri solo un codardo perch\u00e9 mi hai lasciato andare cos\u00ec facilmente<\/a>. Come se non ti fossi mai appartenuta. Come se non ti fosse mai importato di me.<\/p>\n

Like I was just a stranger in the street. And that moment, I realized that I don\u2019t want you anymore. I don\u2019t need a man who won\u2019t fight for me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need an almost relationship. I deserve so much more from my life, and unfortunately, you can\u2019t provide me with that.  <\/p>\n

Volevo che tu combattessi per me<\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t do even that!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you are such a coward who lets go of the one you love, then I don\u2019t need you either. I want a man who will be there for me in my moments of sorrow.<\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di un uomo che mi sostenga nelle mie decisioni. Ho bisogno di un uomo che<\/a> mi dar\u00e0 la mano quando la vita si fa dura.<\/p>\n

E, tesoro, tu non sei quell'uomo. E non lo sei mai stato.<\/p>\n

I was just blindly in love with you so I couldn\u2019t see other men who were trying to win me over. I trusted you when you said that you want to marry me.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Mi sono fidata di te quando hai detto che volevi che fossi la madre dei tuoi figli. E mi sono bevuta tutta quella merda come un'idiota mentre tu avevi in mente un piano diverso.<\/p>\n

Mi hai fatto sentire cos\u00ec al sicuro con te, ma stavi pensando a un buon modo per lasciarmi. <\/a>E sentivo che c'era qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\n

I saw that in your eyes. Your eyes weren\u2019t the same as before. They weren\u2019t looking at me with the same passion.<\/p>\n

Invece erano freddi, come se qualcuno avesse spento la fiamma che ardeva dentro di loro. E gli occhi sono lo specchio dell'anima.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I knew something was wrong. But I never imagined something like this could happen.<\/p>\n

Non ho mai pensato che l'amore della mia vita mi avrebbe lasciato andare. Ho solo pensato che stiamo vivendo un momento di difficolt\u00e0 e che risolveremo tutti i nostri problemi parlando.<\/p>\n

But I was so wrong. I didn\u2019t see this one coming. And I must admit it knocked me off my feet. I couldn\u2019t believe that this was happening to me.<\/p>\n

To us. I thought we were a happy couple\u2014the one that will grow old together. But no, God had a different plan for us. He wanted to see us separated.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

And now, when I look back, I am a happy and a satisfied woman. You want to know why? Because I was saved from a man who didn\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n

From a man who would sell me for his dreams. From a man who was a coward and couldn\u2019t give his heart. To the man who was afraid to love and to be loved.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a man like that. I wanted a man who would fight for me, but you even couldn\u2019t do that. You didn\u2019t show me any respect. You didn\u2019t say that you were sorry.<\/p>\n

You just left me like I was a dog in the street. You didn\u2019t care if I would be okay, if I would scream and have a nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n

Te ne sei andato come se non fossi mai stato tuo. E grazie per averlo fatto. Ora so cosa voglio dalla mia vita.<\/p>\n

Ora, so che che tipo di uomo mi merito<\/a>. I know my worth and I know that I won\u2019t give you a second chance.<\/p>\n

Because I gave you so much more than you deserved\u2014so many sleepless nights waiting for you to come home.<\/p>\n

So many talks late at night, telling you that you shouldn\u2019t be worried about our problems, because if we love each other we will solve them all.<\/p>\n

In all that mess, I failed to see that you didn\u2019t want us to solve it all. You wanted to ruin our kingdom that we were building together, so we can\u2019t enjoy it.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

For some reason, you thought that we can\u2019t work. And I wanted us to work. I really did.  <\/p>\n

But your words were the last ones. And I couldn\u2019t do anything about that. I can just thank God for saving me from a broken man like you.<\/p>\n

Because my life with you would be everything but happy. With a broken man, nothing is easy, and I wasn\u2019t ready for someone like that.<\/p>\n

Volevo che lottassi per me e che mi dicessi che preferiresti stare da solo piuttosto che con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

But unfortunately, I never heard those words coming out of your mouth. I heard just a simple \u201cOkay\u201d that I will remember until I die.<\/p>\n

E proprio a causa di questa parola, non mi permetter\u00f2 mai di avere una quasi relazione<\/a> come ho fatto con te.<\/p>\n

E tu? <\/i><\/b>Un giorno, spero che guarderai indietro a quello che abbiamo avuto e rimpiangerai ogni singola cosa che hai fatto per farlo finire!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Con zero amore,<\/p>\n

La ragazza che si \u00e8 arresa<\/p>\n

\"Volevo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u2018love of my life\u2019, I still remember that night when I said it was over. I remember you standing in front of me and looking at me like you are looking at a stranger in the street. I still feel those chills in my body when you just said, \u201cOkay\u201d. Without even trying to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}